ouch that really hurt. So I got mad and told him to have a great day. How would it feel if your boyfriend said he was to busy to call for two days?
2006-10-08 15:42:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how that feels and u need to forget about him and move on cause why ur there wondering what he's doing he's out having a good time with his friends and chances are another girl too.He might be even trying to subtly let you know that he's not interested anymore cause guys r such losers they'd rather not be honest and leave u to figure it out on your own then stand up and be a man and let u know what the deal really is.
2006-10-08 15:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by serenity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how serious you guys are. I mean, does he "usually call"? Or have you just started dating? To someone you aren't too serious with 2 days may not seem like a long time. I guess if it feels like he's blowing you off then move on. But if it's just casual right now I'd just play it cool. When it gets more serious you can make demands on how ofte he needs to be in touch. Hang in there. Dating is tough and confusing sometimes.
2006-10-08 15:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical macho woman hater. Nothing new, it's always been that way for most guys in this lousy world. I only knew one that was calling everyday, several times a day, faithfully for 3 yrs. until I married him. Great man, wonderful man, no one will ever be as great as him. He loved me and that's the diffference here. Recognize those signs early on before you get hurt badly like so many of us have......
2006-10-08 15:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better two days...then two weeks huh?? i believe at some point everyone needs a lil space...and if he can't go two days without calling you...well then maybe you don't need to be with him...maybe he feels like you've been smothering him lately...however it's only been two days....i mean you don't want to lose him over something so silly do you? you need to start making him wonder about you....because if your calling too much then he won't feel a need to call...i think you should have a talk with your boyfriend and tell him that you was overreacting just a bit...because i really don't think your ready to lose him...am i right??
2006-10-08 16:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me recently!
So...I politely continued the conversation and ended my phone call with him as usual!
It's been a hard thing to do, but I have not called him since that day.
He has been blowing my phone up since then.
I'm going to start answering his calls tonight, but it will be a nearly cold day in hell before I dial his number!
I promise you, the only way I'll talk to him on the phone is when he calls me!
2006-10-08 15:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been busy.....did that occur to you? Getting mad and your response certainly did not help your cause. Sounds like you may be clingy with some extra drama thrown in on top.
You may be crowding him to much...and he wanted some space......or he may just not like you anymore because you whine at him so often......give him a break...if he likes you he will come back.
2006-10-08 15:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of stuck on "So I got mad and told him to have a great day." You have a funny way of telling people off. You sure he got the message?
2006-10-08 15:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by The Lobe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what kept him so busy? Then, tell him how busy you are going to be and really get busy. Do not call him again. Eventually, it will dawn on him that you are gone and if you ever meant anything to him, he will pursue you. If not, you have not lost anything at all.
2006-10-08 15:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel like it was time to get a new boyfriend. In a good relationship, you don't have to worry about him calling you on any set schedule, and you don't have to feel guilty about "breaking down" and calling.
2006-10-08 15:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he your boyfriend or just a guy you've been seeing? b/c if you're just dating a guy and he doesn't call you for 2 days then it really shouldn't be any big deal...if it's a boyfriend that has always called like everyday well then that's a whole other story...that's a problem
2006-10-08 15:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by simple1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋