I'm writing an email to this guy that I've asked numerous questions about on here, and I'm kinda nervous because I don't want to say anything stupid or anything "assuming" of what he thinks or feels. The reason why I have to email him is because I can't see him in person as soon as I'd like...he moved away. So the best I can do is to email him. Keep in mind, he's not to reveal his emotions very easily but what if he doesn't respond, or what if iit takes him awhile? If anything I just want to get everything out, kinda putting myself out on a line, but I think I'd feel better. Has anyone been through this situation? Did the guy (or girl) respond after you told them your feelings?
2006-10-08 15:43:37 · 12 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust me on this one...having a woman tell me im wanted and needed even if i dont return the feelings is the sexiest thing i know...and if im on the edge thats a positve motivator....very sexy...go for it...good luck
2006-10-08 15:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation twice before.
The first time there was no reply for a very long time until I accepted an answer i did not want. But then agian I can't expect to always hear what I want .
The second time though was a different story and they replied immediately and this time it was the answer i was searching for.
There has also been another similar situation when i moved away and there was someone who wrote to me putting themselves on the line so to speak and I couldn't return the feelings. But i did reply.
If you don't write you stand to lose a possible chance this is right.
If you do write you will lose nothing from you attempt
So I say go for it girl and good luck :)
I hope things will work out for the better for you (whatever that is)!
2006-10-08 22:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your shoes just recently ... I knew this guy who I suspected liked me but I didn't really like him at first. Then when I got to know him I realized he was really nice, sweet, etc. However, soon after I started getting to know him he moved (we go to schools far away). I didn't know excactly how to let him know that I dig him and I wasn't sure if he still liked me ... so after thinking about it for days I decided I needed to contact him. I had his phone number but I knew that I would get nervous and my voice would do funny things so I decided to IM him. I think it helps if you can have a live conversation (on IM) b/c that way you will know right away (or almost right away) what he thinks/feels. Well, I didn't know excatly how to say it to him so I basically told him "I don't know how to excatly say it so I'm just gonna say it..." ...and then I asked him if he likes me ... maybe that's not the best way to express it but it worked for me ... then he told me what he thought about me (I expected a "yes" or "no" answer but he gave me more than that) ... if you decide to do this I think you'll feel much better ...I know I felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders ...then few seconds of suspense (dum dum dum! :) and then I knew... Good luck ...
2006-10-08 22:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by cassie86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a fool of yourself. This guy may not be interested in any thing more than a chat buddy. If he is interested he will make the first move. Guys are conquers they don't be too slow to let you know whats on their minds. Just be cool for a moment. he may open up. The word of God says be anxious for nothing."smile" Grandmother Mary
2006-10-08 22:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation except it was during a instant messenger conversation. Go ahead and write what you feel. It will get it off your chest. Then forget about it. Eventually (if the guy is worth going out with) he will respond.
2006-10-08 22:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by j_son_06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, on the bright side - you don't have to worry about blushing in front of him. How about you take a deep breath ..... And tell him what's in your heart. Kudos to you for being straight up and honest .... don't forget that guys are different from us - they tend to be more straight up (for the most part) What, really, do you have to lose?!?! Girl, always go with your instinct.
2006-10-08 22:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ma'êšeeonáhe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put it out there if he dont like it then screw him. And you never know he could be feeling the same way you are!!! Why not put your neck out there. Go after something you want! If you loose there will be tons and tons of guy that would love to date you. Maybe even cutier!
2006-10-08 22:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, yea, i have been through that, and I've put myself out there. I got rejected, but that doesnt mean you will. Looking back at it, i feel that if I didnt take that risk of getting rejected, I wouldnt have moved on like i did. so go ahed, and let him know how you feel.
2006-10-08 22:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by benn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU SHOULD DO THAT I HAD A FRIEND WHOS BESTFRIEND LIKED ME AND I MOVED AND IT BROKED HER HEART AN DSHE TRIED TO TELL ME BUT WE COULDNT KEEP IN TOUCH WHAT IM SAYING IS I WIS THE GURL WOULD DO THAT FOR ME
2006-10-08 22:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jalen J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to lose?
If you don't want to do it that's fine, as long as you can look back later and not regret doing what you decided.
2006-10-08 22:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋