Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

just say you had this really nice guy friend who was single and looking. so you introduced him to your single and looking girl friend. and then they really hit it off. but they got along to well and the girl ended up pregnant. then your guy friend blames you for the pregnancy saying: "you should have never introduced us! now my life is ruined, due to early fatherhood!" would you consider yourself guilty and responsible for what happened?

2006-10-05 10:38:33 · 13 answers · asked by i am the dream u r the dreamer 5 in Friends

HELP!!!!! ok i`m lost i need to know what to do i`am scarred and lost theres this boy at my collage and he asked me out on a date and the bad part about it is i have a boyfriend and i don`t whant to hurret his filling and the uther thang is my and my boyfriend is suppose to be gitting married in like 1 month and its like you just say no to him b/c hes nice and ugly but then cute and i`m geting married and if i tell my boyfriend that he will call the wedding off so by the way i`m 19 last year of collage and please help me and don`t just say tell him no please help

2006-10-05 10:38:08 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 10:37:54 · 8 answers · asked by s t b 1 in Singles & Dating

Step Up!

I want to know if the only reason why you married your wife is because she babies you like your mother?
I already asked this and no one answers it...

Doesn't anyone speak up?

2006-10-05 10:37:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Her ex roommate from college and her were trying on dresses for a reunion, or so they say, should I believe her? Is she a lesbian? Guys would never do this.

2006-10-05 10:37:12 · 19 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this wonderful woman for about three weeks now. I can't believe how much I love her even in this very short time. When we make love it is incredible, at least it was. I was beginning to get concerned that she was faking it so I asked her if there was anything I could do to make it better for her. She confessed to me that when she orgasms she loses bladder control. Quite frankly I don't care, I just want to please her and make her happy, but she seems unable to relax enough to go ahead and let herself have an orgasm for fear she will wet herself or me. Please do not post any unkind remarks. I really just want to know if anyone has any suggestions for helping her trust me enough to know I won't freak out over this.

2006-10-05 10:36:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just started dating this amazing guy a couple of days ago. the trouble is, this weekend is my school's homecoming and i was going to go with a group that consists of a guy that i had a crush on while my current bf was thinking about asking me out. i really like my bf for his personality but i feel more physically attracted to the guy i'm hanging out with at homecoming. i don't know the other guy's personality as well as i know my bf's. and i feel bad that i'm going with this group instead of with my bf. he lives 45 minutes away and i had already agreed to go with this group. they both have attributes that i like but i have to decide. it's not that i'm not physically attracted to my bf, it's just the other guy is more physically attractive. and it's only now that he's beginning to notice me. and i was talking to my bf on the phone the other day and he was under the impression that i was going on a date with this guy. i told him no but i can't help to think that he is jealous. advice?

2006-10-05 10:35:54 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

he is my boyfriend we have been going out for 5 weeks and his birth day is coming up and I want to suprise him and let him hold my hand and kiss me how should i get him to do it (hes 14 and I'm 13)

2006-10-05 10:35:43 · 10 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Singles & Dating

My stepfather was drunk and doesn't remember hitting me, he hit me so hard that blood came thrashing out of my nose. Just before hitting me, he banged at the phone on the wall and broke it into pieces. I have seen a lot of violence when I was growing up... I was a victim of violence at that age and I have been violent many times whenever I had drank too much, I'm 33 years old now and just starting to ask myself all kinds of questions, what might still happen and what do I do about it?

2006-10-05 10:35:05 · 3 answers · asked by Dumbfounded 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 10:34:10 · 10 answers · asked by Jake B 1 in Singles & Dating

trust a girl who is somewhat a player? I guess this girl I think is ok, but she talks to alot of guys and will give hugs if asked. Sometimes she will give playful touches to this one guy, but it could possibly be a tactic to piss me off. But today she did say my name and puckered up her lips. She also did give me a hug even when I didn't ask for it. Is she worth it? Or is she just hungry for attention?

2006-10-05 10:34:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 10:33:15 · 17 answers · asked by Jake B 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, the guy i like feels the same about me. However, he says he does'nt want us to be in a relationship. This is because i don't believe in sex before marriage and he says for him, sex has to be included but he doesn't wanna force me and have to deal with the guilt that comes along with it. Even though he says this, he still sing songs to me and flirts with me, that kinda stuff. This leaves me in a spot, cause i really don't know what to do. Give me your opinions and advices. Thanks!

2006-10-05 10:33:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My spouse and I have been married 23 years, and we've had an open marriage the entire time. We're happy and plan to remain partners for life. We also plan to continue being sexually non-monogamous for life. I would like to hear about any others in happy and long-lasting (15+ years) open marriages.

2006-10-05 10:33:04 · 8 answers · asked by kc62301 2 in Marriage & Divorce

sex before marriage? surely its better to attempt complete together ness before you promise to spend the rest of your life together kinda like try b4 u buy ? or should you hold off marry and maybe find out you just dont "fit" right what do you think

2006-10-05 10:32:59 · 40 answers · asked by leanne_on_line 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have crush on this guy and he seems to like me to because he laughs at everything I say, He smiles at me while he stares at me, he eats lunch with me everyday when his friends eat somewhere diffrent, he tries to trip me get late to class and anything tipical that would get me a little bit annoyed.He wishes i was in every class of his, the one class i have with him I use to sit by him and then the charts got rearanged but he tries to find any possible way of talking to me. Does he like me or does think me as a Friend?

2006-10-05 10:32:22 · 6 answers · asked by mizindpndntgrl25 1 in Friends

like a 15 year old and a 14 year old

2006-10-05 10:31:51 · 24 answers · asked by Baby Girl 15 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

single mom with 4 kids need low income

2006-10-05 10:31:46 · 5 answers · asked by Sherry A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Feels only good to have a guy older and also its only right when the boy asks the girl...etc. Yeah, I'm old fashioned. Anyone else agree?

2006-10-05 10:31:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I Have sex once or twice a week, but I want it more. It makes me feel unattractive that he doesn't want it more because I read a lot that guys want it more than women usually. I also normally have to wait until he initiates it and it is normally after he has looked at porn online. It makes me feel unattractive even though he tells me I'm sexy all the time. There are also times he will start to passionately makeout with me like he wants to have sex and then he will stop all of a sudden and just say he's tired...any advise would be great. Thanks

2006-10-05 10:30:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 10:30:07 · 56 answers · asked by bhcky79 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need to knowwwwww
he's a really good friend

2006-10-05 10:30:06 · 16 answers · asked by errrin. ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 10:28:49 · 27 answers · asked by Alma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i can't imagine find someone really interesting on internet. Am I wrong?

2006-10-05 10:28:06 · 6 answers · asked by takethetube222 1 in Singles & Dating

He constantly calls me its been over two years since i've been with him i was with him for a year, i mean i don't really mind calling him but i know he has a girlfriend and she's pregnant but he still wants to pick me up and chill with him its like he's trying to rub it in my face i don't care because i'm in a relationship and i'm happy and he knows that, and everytime i tell him i don't want to hang or chill with him he gets mad and hangs up and then calls me a couple weeks later and says the same thing? i don't mind staying friends, but i have no feelings for him, but i don't think its right that he has a baby on the way and i don't want to disrespect my boyfriend or his girlfriend, i wish i could tell his girlfriend because no girl derserves that especially if she pregnant!! I don't know what to do and i can't change my house number !!

2006-10-05 10:27:22 · 17 answers · asked by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a VERY tall 16 year old guy. I am close to 7' tall, and only about 160lbs. Over all, I am a very shy person. I am a decent looking person overall (exept for being real thin). Most girls in school think I am real weird. I am not unpopular, and am just an average person. Many girls are afraid of me (i have been told), and one even ran when I was near. Today a few girls were laughing at me. I just don't get it. I have no clue about chicks. I am kind of bumbed about this. I am as I said real shy, and people for some reason dislike me untill they get to know me. I am too shy, to even ask a girl out now. What I need help with is how do I get better around girls? What do I do to make them more comfertable around me? Aside from working out (already started). It is kind of herd for me to describe. Smartass ansers are ok, but try to give some help too. Don't be real mean, I need some confidence now.

2006-10-05 10:26:59 · 12 answers · asked by all 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 1 year, and my husband and I have a great relationship.The problem is, I can't keep up with him sexually.
If we don't have sex daily or more, he gets angry and frustrated, and even suspicious! I give him the best I can, often under the influence of a certain mood altering substance to keep up. I love him and he goes far beyond pleasing me, but my hips keep dislocating and my back hurts beyond belief, and I get little sleep. I know I please him, but the better it gets, the more he wants! Recently, he has been visiting alot of porn websites, and I just came across a website that he's been on looking for women in our area. I'm concerned if he's actually looking for someone to "fill In", or if he's just curious. Can anyone give me some advice, or let me know how much longer this will last? I need some serious advice!

2006-10-05 10:26:41 · 21 answers · asked by red.cancer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Has any of you waited around for your ex., and actually got back together. ?
Has any of you got back together with your ex after 6 months or longer (when the time you two split up she/he wanted nothing to do with you), and actually got back together with in time?

Is it worth the waiting (waiting on true love)?

When they wanted nothing to do with you when they split up and you thought you had lost that person for good, you actually got back together again after a long time?
Is any of this possible or has it happened to any of you?

I would love you guys to share your stories with me. And also answer my questions
Ones who have experienced this, tell me your stories.

Guys, I have dated alot and just let them go at times. This time instead of moveing on, I am going to be strong. This one is the Love of my life and I believe is my soul mate.

It hurts like Hell and Burns inside, but that is true love that is burning inside me.And I do know good things come to those who wait.

2006-10-05 10:26:27 · 11 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 26 years old and I am the only child of divorced parents. In my mom's entire family, there are only 3 grandchildren including me. My two only cousin's are 9 and 5 years old, they were born when I was 17 and 21 years old.

My family acts like they are my sisters, they want me to go to all of their plays and pressure me to be super involved in their lives. I am married, we live 3 hours from my family and see them once a month, I don't want to drive 6 hours round trip on a weekday at noon to see their plays!

We are planning on having our first baby soon and we have a life of our own. My family wants to me to be close with my little cousins but I don't want to bond like siblings with them. I don't want siblings, I am happy with my life and I am sick of having them guilt trip me to call them and chit chat with them all the time. They are not my children or siblings.

Am I being a total jerk?

2006-10-05 10:26:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-05 10:25:43 · 3 answers · asked by james44_20 2 in Singles & Dating