My stepfather was drunk and doesn't remember hitting me, he hit me so hard that blood came thrashing out of my nose. Just before hitting me, he banged at the phone on the wall and broke it into pieces. I have seen a lot of violence when I was growing up... I was a victim of violence at that age and I have been violent many times whenever I had drank too much, I'm 33 years old now and just starting to ask myself all kinds of questions, what might still happen and what do I do about it?
2006-10-05 10:35:05 · 3 answers · asked by Dumbfounded 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to know that there are alot of people out there with this same problem. You have recognized it and that is the first step. You need to find someone to talk to that can help you find out what is wrong. there are lots of places you can go to get help, in the mean time stay away from the alcohol. If you don't you might end up doing something you regret.
2006-10-05 10:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Parker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up in a violent household with an alcoholic as well. I know I don't like to drink and when I do drink too much I don't lose control. I always have this voice of logic inside of my head when I drink, or do drugs, and it always tells me know what your doing.
I can't tell you not to drink, but I can tell you that if you know what your like when you do it why do you do it?? That's the same question I asked my father. Why do you do it if you know what your doing to your family?
What might happen is you'll lose everything you've worked hard for and everything that you love dearly. I don't really have a great relationship with my father because of the violence and hate. One of these days this man will die and what will he have to share the moment with?? His beer and his own selfishness. He won't have his immediate family crying over him because they've lost something great. It will actually be a relief when this man leaves this world because there will be no more fear left to live with.
You might want to get help if it's out of control. My mother calls it a disease, but I call it an addiction. People can't control it once it's out of control. Go to A.A. or find someone who you can lean on that will be willing to endure your recovery with you.
I hope you find help and I hope the questions you ask yourself are taking you down a bright path. Everyone has a destiny, it's how you get there is your decision. Good Luck, Sara.
2006-10-05 17:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by * Wishfulthinker * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of anger issues that you keep bottled up inside you and thats dangerous because one day you can just explode and hurt someone you really love or your self, And the fact that your stepfather hit you that hard, is horrible, where was your mother during this situation, i feel that alot of anger could be towards your mother for not stopping this or at least acknowledging it I suggest therapy, it doesn't mean your crazy you just need someone to talk to, that doesn't judge you and that will shut up and listen , i have certain problems just like you and i don't go to therapy but i do write alot in my journal and it helps me alot to write down my feelings,, but everyone is different stay away from achohol for now because it seems to make you angry and you tend to think about your problems to much liquor will not make your problems go away, Just keep your head up high and get help never be ashamed if it can make you a better person
2006-10-05 17:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋