Has any of you waited around for your ex., and actually got back together. ?
Has any of you got back together with your ex after 6 months or longer (when the time you two split up she/he wanted nothing to do with you), and actually got back together with in time?
Is it worth the waiting (waiting on true love)?
When they wanted nothing to do with you when they split up and you thought you had lost that person for good, you actually got back together again after a long time?
Is any of this possible or has it happened to any of you?
I would love you guys to share your stories with me. And also answer my questions
Ones who have experienced this, tell me your stories.
Guys, I have dated alot and just let them go at times. This time instead of moveing on, I am going to be strong. This one is the Love of my life and I believe is my soul mate.
It hurts like Hell and Burns inside, but that is true love that is burning inside me.And I do know good things come to those who wait.
2006-10-05 10:26:27 · 11 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it can happen......but dosen't mean it is true love.....kids usually have a lot to do with it.
2006-10-05 10:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually moving on is considered to be being strong, but okay. I have an ex that I broke up with 6 months ago, he was my first boyfriend, first time, and quite a lot of things. But he wasn't as good as I deserved and our relationship crashed as he told me that he was lying when he told me he loved me and other such things, so I told him in an email how I felt (it was quite strong, and I used a few threatlike metaphors) , and his mother freaked out and banned him from seeing or talking to me. So in a sense, I had it easy because I never had any temptation of going back to him to risk. Now of course I was sad for a while, everyone is. But I tried talking to a lot of guys I used to know online over the summer, and talked out the loneliness with my friends and family. When school started again, I'd flirt a lot and everything. Not having a boyfriend, love interest or even crush in particular is the most freeing and liberating thing you can do. You talk to all sorts of guys and make all sorts of friends. But what you want to do is to be in a cage, with bricks tied to you, wallowing in your sadness. Honestly, if I was your ex-boyfriend who wanted nothing to do with you, I wouldn't care if you started dating or anything and wouldn't affect whether he wanted to get back together with you or not. In fact, I'd think you were desperate and needy for not being able to find anyone else to date. If you started dating other people, you don't have to do it seriously, maybe your ex might even get a bit jealous or respect you more. But feeling tied down to a love, especially an unrequited one is the worst thing you can do. Good things don't come to those who wait, it comes to those who do things.
2006-10-05 17:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I went out with a guy named Chris for 2 years. He left me in November and started going out with another girl. He was extremely mean to me during the time we were broken up... as in: calling me with her on the other end and starting phone fights between us. It was extremely immature and I was heart broken. Time went on... we got back together in Feburary. We got married in May. Now its a year and a half later, we are still married and doing great. We are expecting a baby girl next month (got pregnant about 9 months after being married). Our relationship is actually better than before.
2006-10-05 17:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex is waiting for me right now...and honestly i wish he wouldnt
we have been on and off alot and this time im actually done. I will always love him, but i know now that it wont work and its foolish to keep trying. I say try to get out there and do things that YOU like to do. waiting is no fun, if she comes back and you still want her then thats good, but if not youll be moving on
2006-10-05 17:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by *Cole* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. my friend went out with this guy 3 times. he keeps breaking up with her and coming back. i guess if you think its actually true love, it's worth the wait, but if you guys have already broken up, there has to be a reason, so keep your mind open. look around for better guys with one eye, while keeping the other on this one. a breakup always hurts, especially if it's unexpected, but you'll be ok eventually. it'll take time. Good Luck!
2006-10-05 17:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by Loveangerbeauty. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and how does this"soulmate" feel about you? you have to give to get. not only that, it takes two. you both need to be on the same page to rekindle your relationship. the burning is pain not love. believe me, it doesnt appear that it will go away, but in time it will
2006-10-05 17:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by Say It Again M'am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-20 00:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have & that 's why I tell anyone who talks about going backwards not to. It's your choice so be careful.
2006-10-05 17:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a breakup for a reason! Been there done that!
2006-10-05 17:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by shoegrl83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, I HAVE A COUPLE TIMES. HONESTLY THINGS WERE JUST NEVER THE SAME.
2006-10-05 17:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by TJDAVILLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋