i just started dating this amazing guy a couple of days ago. the trouble is, this weekend is my school's homecoming and i was going to go with a group that consists of a guy that i had a crush on while my current bf was thinking about asking me out. i really like my bf for his personality but i feel more physically attracted to the guy i'm hanging out with at homecoming. i don't know the other guy's personality as well as i know my bf's. and i feel bad that i'm going with this group instead of with my bf. he lives 45 minutes away and i had already agreed to go with this group. they both have attributes that i like but i have to decide. it's not that i'm not physically attracted to my bf, it's just the other guy is more physically attractive. and it's only now that he's beginning to notice me. and i was talking to my bf on the phone the other day and he was under the impression that i was going on a date with this guy. i told him no but i can't help to think that he is jealous. advice?
2006-10-05 10:35:54 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend recently asked me, "Who do you think you'll last longer with?" I said my bf. But then she asked "Who will you have more fun with?"
Jeez.
Friends are the best aren't they?
2006-10-05 10:45:50 · update #1
You are deciding based on physical attraction and personality. Why would you hurt your boyfriend to go with a group of friends to the homecoming? Because you are physically attracted to a guy in the group whom you had a crush on. In my opinion you should forget about the crush and control your physical attraction to be with your boyfriend. What does it mean to have a boyfriend? Someone who is convenient? How would you feel if the situation were reversed?
2006-10-05 18:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time is running out u gotta make ya decision quicker than a ray of light lolz ;)
2006-10-05 10:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by ~Alan~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like ur gonna make up ur mind anyway. don't worry about breaking hearts. u girls do that all the time and we need to get over it. i hate u! no, joking, just don't play to much with their feelings.
2006-10-05 10:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by James Blond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep for your boyfriend....dump your *** and find someone else who deserves his attention.
2006-10-05 10:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋