Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

Our relationship of 7 years have gone by fast, and we have a mature understanding relationship. We both love each other and are willing to make compromises for each other. We feel in love. So can we get married? or is marrying somone more than two years younger better for me?

2006-10-04 21:25:32 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What kind of topic for your first date?
How to impress your date?

2006-10-04 21:25:30 · 6 answers · asked by Suffer for someone 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been romantically involved for 2 yrs.. I am about ready to try something new. Just a few days he said he was up for anything, so I approached him on what I wanted. I told him I wanted to be with a woman. He wasn't liking it. So I told him that we could have a threesome. He wasn't wanting that either. He wanted me to take the lead and choose what I wanted and he just wasn't agreeing with anything I was saying. Why did he turn down me with another woman or having a threesome? Also, the sex has just been crappy. He just likes the same old style, missionary style. I'm so sick of it. I really love him and I want to try new things. Me suggesting another woman doesn't mean anything, I just wanted something new. He doesn't even get turned on by my lingerie. I work out and I have a nice body. I've been told I sorta look like a younger version of the model Helena Christianson. Click the link -- http://madsenblog.dk/billeder/HelenaChristensen_04.jpg ...What do I do?

2006-10-04 21:24:57 · 17 answers · asked by Kait_baby22 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime we go out with my husband ...and when he see a beautiful girls he act like am not beside him

2006-10-04 21:24:22 · 19 answers · asked by jill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to change the way my dad is ..he is jealous about my mom calling another friend..even thought that is her best friend..

2006-10-04 21:23:54 · 12 answers · asked by leraic'estchic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was making love with my girlfriend, and then she farted. She denied it and said that it was from her vagina. I laughed and kept doing my magic, then she did it again. What should I do?

2006-10-04 21:22:29 · 30 answers · asked by Bogey 4 in Singles & Dating

IS THAT TRUE THAT LOVE ENDING AFTER MARRIAGE PLEASE ANSWER ME.

2006-10-04 21:21:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My ex was or is one and he hounded me off the database which is off limits to make a dating agency out of. I found out later that this was his way of meeting girls... Are they all a bunch of untrustworthy w ankers?

2006-10-04 21:21:36 · 8 answers · asked by antagonist 5 in Singles & Dating

Please help me with this problem. My husband is in the middle east for quite some time now (work). He will be back only after 6-7 months(annual leave).

My brother in law is living with us. He is 14 and was like a brother to me. But lately I feel he is trying to discreetly make physical contact and touch me. He repeatedly brushes against my backside in the corridor and snuggles close to me watching TV & touches my breas*t/stomach. Touching my pallu/stomach casually, watching me when I apply oil to my body/hair or wash clothes etc is becoming a problem. When no one else is at home, he walks around in front of me in his undergarments.

How do i control him? Please advise.

I have tried speaking to his mom and sister in law (they simply says "he is a guy - he will grow up in time"). When i try to speak to my bro in law, he denies everything.

2006-10-04 21:20:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok.....theres this girl i kinda like a lot....the only problem is that she's a friend of mine....n its only after i got to know her that i started having a crush on her.....
so guys help me out here.....what should i do??...should i wait for her to ask me(i have a feelin she likes me...)...or should i go 4 it.....
oh ya n pls give me tips......

2006-10-04 21:19:38 · 13 answers · asked by blade 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since you met your GF / BF or partner... what is most beautiful experience did you have ?

2006-10-04 21:19:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 24 years married to a severly abusive man I'm finally filing for divorce. But the 2 teens I have left in the house with me, he has them convinced because I have & have had Bi-Polar Disorder for over 25 years I would not take care of them. He made them feel quilty because I kicked him out. Now they both are telling me they hate me specially my daughter. Because I go to college and I have friends calling me to check on me she accusses me of messing around on her dad and has called me some very awful things. My Bi-Polar has been stable for many years since I got on the right meds. Now they both said their moving out to live with their father because they feel sorry for him. Now I've become so sad and depressed I'm thinking twice. I'd rather get a black eye or worse than loose my babies. Please someone tell me what have I done wrong except trying to grow back into a normal person again, but is it worth it at the cost of loosing my children to such a man.PS no money for lawyer tofight

2006-10-04 21:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by Nellers 2 in Family

2006-10-04 21:15:01 · 23 answers · asked by Sushant P 1 in Friends

ive been having a fling with this guys for about 7 months. he has a girlfriend but we agreed to no strings attached sex. but lately hes been wanting to spend alot of time with me. ive been going places with him and its even coming to the point where im sleeping at his house. but today i told him that i might be relocating to another state for a new job and he wigged out on me. he doesnt want me to go but i have no reason to stay either. do you think he could be developing feelings for me? i dont know what to think. i need someones opinion. thanks 8-)

2006-10-04 21:14:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So please don't try !!!!!

2006-10-04 21:14:19 · 6 answers · asked by hugh_cheung 2 in Singles & Dating

anyone, any good suggestions for nice songs/videos/ ways to keep abt 200-300 guests entertained for a wedding dinner event? Let me know please!!

2006-10-04 21:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by igw123 1 in Weddings

I am a young looking 52 Dark skinned with dark shoulder length hair.I am getting married in May and have bought a Pride and Predjudice type dress with a train. The sleeves are scalloped lace the straight underskirt is off white with a covering of beautiful lace. The women in the shop said I looked stunning. I am having two diomonte clips in my hair ,the hair waved and brought to hang over one shoulder. Simple tiny necklace tiny earings and a small bunch of freesias. I am worried at my age it is too much...help!!!!

2006-10-04 21:11:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

him. what can i do

2006-10-04 21:11:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Dallas and Houston are about 4 hours away, but Texas is mostly a whole lot of flat nothingness in between, maybe a few Czech bakeries and caverns. Plus, we only communicate via AIM so there's not alot of phone time. And when we do talk, we imagine ourselves in a sort of unrealistic "togetherness bubble" as I like to put it. I'm so confused.

2006-10-04 21:10:42 · 8 answers · asked by Angel-Errr-uMMM? 2 in Singles & Dating

We work together and when I met her, I was futily chasing after another girl. This girl at work was very open about her sexuality and everyone knew that she was into women (people still say it at work and I want to slap them upside the head!). We have now been dating for about 5 months now (a whole other story!) and I swear I think I am in love with her. She is the coolest, craziest, most down to earth (and really HOT!) woman I could have ever hoped to date. I know some of you might think I am BSing, but I am absolutely serious. I have never dated a girl who was a "lesbian" before and am just wondering if it's even possible? Could I really get this girl to fall for me, and I mean really fall for me? Has anyone been in a similar situation or know anyone who has? I am more afraid than usual b/c I worry maybe she is just trying out something "new" (she is very sexual) but when she looks at me, I have no doubts it is real. Am I just decieving myself?

2006-10-04 21:09:58 · 12 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

ok im 17 and i have a gay friend and he is in the grade below me and he gets picked on alot because we live in a small town but i try and protect him i have gotten beaten up 3 times just because i was his friend! thats how bad it is in my town but now i am out of school and i want to make sure he is safe and i have already talked to the teachers and principal but they didnt really care! what should i do?

2006-10-04 21:09:11 · 7 answers · asked by funnymonkey 1 in Friends

The other night, my boyfriend called to ask if I got home alright. I said sure and asked him why. He said that he saw me walking alone from the library. I got annoyed because if he saw me walking that late at night (it was after 11 p.m.), why wouldn't he stop to walk me home? What sense does it make to call AFTER the fact? Isn't that inconsiderate? Shouldn't he have walked me home?

2006-10-04 21:08:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You might find this funny or rather sick, let me start the ball rolling.

I had a really nasty break with my ex girlfriend where she dumped me the day after her divorce came through.
She'd been married and needed support from some mug while it all went through and i got strung along.

After 2 months she sent my some flowers to work, it came completely out of the blue as we'd had no contact at all, not even a text.
I took this to mean sorry and/or that she would like to get back together but i wasn't interested and dropped her a note to say no thanks, i've moved on.

I recently found out she sent them because in her mind, i had died!

She was sending flowers as a reath, because it was my funeral, what a sick and twisted woman she is.

Your turn.

2006-10-04 21:07:57 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend very much. But I have this attraction to women that is becoming hard to egnore. Since I can remember I have always been attracted to women but I have never acted on it. I would just like to see what it's like. At the same time I know it's wrong and it would be cheating. Please help me to stay faithful. Talk me out of this. Or at least help me to find ways to sooth my craving.

2006-10-04 21:06:56 · 7 answers · asked by D 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm a school teacher i just want to know if it is all right to scold a student send him/her out of class etc?in case of repeated mistakes can i hit?

2006-10-04 21:05:54 · 25 answers · asked by doll 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf is upset with me and I don't know what to do. Here is the deal. He asked me if I was still getting e-mails from one of this blokes that I know and I told him no. We don't even chat to one another. Then he tells me that I sent him the exact same email as what he sent him. So he asks me a couple of times do we still chat and obviously my answer was no. In about 3 min I realised that it was him that sent me the email and I forwarded to the bf. Now he is upset with me because I lied and now he does not know if he can trust me. My question is, what can I do to make things right? I know I was wrong and everything for not telling him in the first place but I did tell him eventually. Does that not then count. I was honest with him when I said that we don't chat and that email slipped my mind but when I remembered I told him. Please help, he is really mad at me and I don't want to lose the love of my life. What to do? What to do?

2006-10-04 21:05:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive known this girl at my college for over a week, Im a relativley attractive 20 y/o guy, but confidence sometimes lets me down.
Basically, in the first few days of knowing her, she showed interest, eye flirting, smiling lots, and sitting next to me at every opportunity.
I sent her a Text message yesterday which she didnt reply back too which now has me concerned, asking if she would like to meet up for a drink ( i should have done it in person, i made a mistake, but that shouldnt ruin my chances completely, right?)
I saw her today, and she didnt seem normal around me, I approached her at the same time as one of her girl friends, she was joking with her friend about giving her number to all the "good looking fellas" in her lecture.
Either this girl isn't worth the effort, or she is trying to make me jealous, i dont know. I just hope i havnt screwed up my one opportuinity of getting to know her better, by rushing in early (i may have looked desperate although im not!) Thanks guys!!!

2006-10-04 21:03:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My question is not an invitation. I have always wondered if real girls ever get into chats with unknown guys.Mostly i find bots and other answering machines do all this. AGAIN, this is NOT an INVITATION plz

2006-10-04 21:02:29 · 11 answers · asked by maninsearch 4 in Singles & Dating

are these two interconnected.Whats the mystery of love.

2006-10-04 21:02:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy goes out of his way to talk to you, like calling or texting to see how u r. does that mean he is interested? or just wants a close friend? becuase i have heard that if a guy doesn't like you then he won't go out of his way to talk to you.i welcome any opinions, advice from men and women. thanks guys!

2006-10-04 21:01:19 · 10 answers · asked by angeleyez1655 1 in Singles & Dating