I love my boyfriend very much. But I have this attraction to women that is becoming hard to egnore. Since I can remember I have always been attracted to women but I have never acted on it. I would just like to see what it's like. At the same time I know it's wrong and it would be cheating. Please help me to stay faithful. Talk me out of this. Or at least help me to find ways to sooth my craving.
2006-10-04 21:06:56 · 7 answers · asked by D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well....you need to figure out who you are and what you like. For instance....if you love your boyfriend so much.....why would you feel the sudden need to be attracted to women. Maybe you just have curiosities....but you need to be careful what you do.
Listen the best thing to do....is just don't act on anything and stay with your boyfriend.....because he may feel very bad if he found out about you cravings. If you do break up with your boyfriend.....give it time.....and then if you still feel the same about women....then try it. I know you are just feeling alot of emotions....but thing about your boyfriend.
Good luck.!
2006-10-04 21:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by cool_dude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Based on, what you have written, you are a true lesbian! Those that I have known in my life who hung in for the straight life, did not have a happy life! They ended in divorce! In some cases children were involved. Many lives can be effected and not to the positive side of things.
I really don't feel any one can give you real advice on this. There is to much at stake here, for now and the future!
I would have to suggest to you that you might want to consider building a relationship with a woman as you know what the straight life offers! Live with her as lovers, and after a year OR two decide what you should do! Yes, you should leave your present BF!
Based on what you have stated, I doubt that you would want another BF once you have found a good woman for you! About the only thing you may want a male for is a sperm Donner if you should want a child!
2006-10-04 21:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do act on it, the bf might actually dig it. But be honest with him about it. It you do love him as much as you say, maybe you are bi? and that's not a bad thing. Whatever you choose to do, tell him first.
2006-10-04 21:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats easy.. Threesome! Tell your boyfriend ya wanna have a threesome with him and another girl. You can even make it out like you want to make his fantasys come true - him with another woman. Then you get your cake and eat it too. At least this will give you an idea of what its like. Have fun! I want details! ;)
2006-10-04 21:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by sassysharli 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple. Buy a female blow up doll or take a chick home so you and your boyfriend can share her. The more the merrier. Trust me, God knows best. cheers
2006-10-04 21:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by god 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
u love ur bf..
u answer the Q.. may be u have curisty not more
2006-10-04 21:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by sas s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to fight your urges if you love your bf and dont wanna hurt him...or why dont you have treesome and get over it?
2006-10-04 21:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋