ive been having a fling with this guys for about 7 months. he has a girlfriend but we agreed to no strings attached sex. but lately hes been wanting to spend alot of time with me. ive been going places with him and its even coming to the point where im sleeping at his house. but today i told him that i might be relocating to another state for a new job and he wigged out on me. he doesnt want me to go but i have no reason to stay either. do you think he could be developing feelings for me? i dont know what to think. i need someones opinion. thanks 8-)
2006-10-04 21:14:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first, you are sleeping with someone's bf!! that is wrong, she could be in love with him and you are the one to brake them apart!
and yes, sounds like he has feelings for you...ask him to brake up with his current gf before going any further...that is one more way how you can know if he likes you or not. if he doesnt wanna leave his gf, then he has no feelings for you.
2006-10-04 21:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has more feelings for you than he wants to admit. I think You should ask him straight out - but that you are not willing to share anymore and are looking for a real "life" which is a main reason you'd be moving. It's her or me sort of thing. Then he must prove it bu dumping #1. But remember - if he did it to her he's more apt to to do it to you. Once a cheater... Also, the old cow thing - if you can get the milk for free, why buy the cow? REALLY think about this guy. Or, better yet, go - and if he follows you'll know for sure. Good luck!!
2006-10-04 21:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by 34th B.G. - USAAF 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's interested. My ex and I still used 2 have sex even after she got another bf after me. However, when she was leaving the country, I didn't want her to go. Honestly, I knew I would be missing the sex. Go to the other state and get that job.
2006-10-04 21:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by afronigga6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Sweetheart just move ahead.
If there is somehting cooking in between then it will vainsh if you move further.
Move for your Job, and wait for a while if the feelings are still there then you might have to think again.Not for now, not at all.
No sacrifice necessary of any kind at this point of time atleast !!
2006-10-04 21:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by romesh_model 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he likes you. a man's sex drive turns off like a light switch the second after he ejaculates. what does that mean? it means if he doesn't like the girl he just had sex with, he gets rid of her ASAP. if he does like her, he sticks around.
2006-10-04 21:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its so obvious he feels something and something strong.. ask him directly, maybe he's the kind whos closed to himself.. but make sure its really over between them first and that your friend doesn't mind u having him,, good luck
2006-10-04 21:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i dont think he does have any such feelings for you. he just needs u only to satisfy his lust.
2006-10-04 21:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by hesper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you sound like an OK shag xx
2006-10-04 21:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to think "Does it matter to me if he has feelings?"
just go ahead with your career. as such he has a gf.......you will forget him soon.
2006-10-04 21:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go love is a farse any way
2006-10-04 21:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋