Dallas and Houston are about 4 hours away, but Texas is mostly a whole lot of flat nothingness in between, maybe a few Czech bakeries and caverns. Plus, we only communicate via AIM so there's not alot of phone time. And when we do talk, we imagine ourselves in a sort of unrealistic "togetherness bubble" as I like to put it. I'm so confused.
2006-10-04 21:10:42 · 8 answers · asked by Angel-Errr-uMMM? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey I'm in a long distance relationship and everyday I wake up I ask myself if I can do it one more day and what the heck am I doing. You are four hours away, we are 13 hours away. The last time I saw him was in August. Everytime I want to break up with him and do you know what keeps me going? Him. He makes sure I fall inlove with him everytime we talk on the phone, he makes me believe that this relationship will work and the best part is that I know he will not cheat on me (he works in a remote area with no beautiful women, lol), he told me that no matter how far we are from each other...........
My point is you can do it, four hours is nothing, you can take a train and go there. Just have faith both in you and him. Besides you break it off now and you'll never know if the relationship might or could have worked. Give it a shot, it might be worth it.
2006-10-04 22:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....I was involved in a long distance relationship a few years back. I was in El Paso (Army) and she lived in San Diego, a 14hr drive.
I would go see her every 4 day week end that I had since I was in the military....did this for 9 months straight. Yet she would never come to see me. Now I'm not saying that this is the case in EVERY long distance relationship but......
A long distance relationship has many factors to include...how you met, your work, your school, transportation, "love"?
You should really sit down and write the pros and cons of it (your relationship), and determined if this is something you would really like to pursued. Ask his opinion about it too, be open and HONEST to each other, and if you honestly find a common denominator....then why not?
Good luck
2006-10-05 04:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by spanishflyin_tx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending for how long do you have to stay long-distance. It can work short term, but long term it won't. People need real love, real touch, not just a typed word.
Depending on what makes you happy, though. If you are BOTH happy in a long-distance relationship, maybe this is how it will be forever, but then you might experience troubles actually getting together when your life changes and you can do so. It will be one painful disappointment then.
2006-10-05 04:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could work if you both love each others. Just need a passion, truthfull, loyalty and think positive. It would help for the long-distance relationship. Make sure you frequently chat each other via phone or online and if possible get a webcam so that the chatting session will be more fun. Cheers~
2006-10-05 04:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by DoRiDoRi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really love just .... nevermind with the world today it is impossible to love someone in a long distance. unless you guys already met in real life and live together for few yrs. Or better yet if you are into celbacy and don't think sex is that important which you might not agree with me. well good luck and if you can pull that off for moore than a year moore power to you people!!!!!!
2006-10-05 04:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by hutdast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, one of my friend she lived in North Carolina and he lived in Washinton D.C. long story short-- he drove almost every weekend for almost 4 years and they finally married. they live happily~!
If you really loves him much, then make it work. you know, these days even you can see him throug the web cam.
well... you guys are not even talk much on the line anyway as you said...
Why don't you talk about this with him seriously? then you will see what future hold between you guys.
Wish you a best.
2006-10-05 05:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can work but you guys need plans to visit each other at least. and some phone time. and to move for the long-term. most people aren't willing to commit to a LTR for a long time.
2006-10-05 04:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe for one or two months only. Move on
2006-10-05 04:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋