everytime we go out with my husband ...and when he see a beautiful girls he act like am not beside him
2006-10-04
21:24:22
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it's normal to appreciate/ admire beauty. it depends on how he behaves. if u think, it's ok with u, no problem.. if it's insulting, tell him.
2006-10-04 21:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by ok 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He might be trying to get you mad. It's one thing for him to notice a good looking woman but whistling is over the top. No one whistles at a woman as a sincere appreciation of beauty. I've heard hundreds if not thousands of guys whistle and there is always some game going on in their head.
2006-10-05 04:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start admiring guys, and say, "Wow, look at that", and whistle. Tell him the guy looks like he has a really big package, and that you wonder what it would be like to be with a hunk like that. That will teach him... No, it is not normal, it is inconsiderate, immature, jerk, and needs either his face slapped off, or a divorce, right there on the spot.
2006-10-05 04:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal, he is very hurtful. Give him some of his own treatment. When you are with him pick out a younger and better looking man and say to him "oh my god look at that guy, isn't gorgeous and sexy. See how he responds, and then tell how he makes you feel.
2006-10-05 04:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by mklwis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a total disrespect! I could imagine how you are feeling! what a slap in the face! I have told my old man from the get-go , that the biggest turn off for me was another woman. and to be treated like that is just total disrespect! so , i have been through it and speak from experiance as to how degrading this feels. But when i started doing it , he noticed what he was doing was wrong.... i thought he wanted an open relationship , so i was going to open my self up there. yal , he quit real fast!
2006-10-05 04:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most (all) men will still look at and admire a good looking woman even if they are with you - but normally they would try to hide it from you. I think your husband is being very disrespectful to you. Have you said anything to him? Does he still say nice things about your appearance?
2006-10-05 04:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is not "normal", You didn't say how old you guys are or how long you have been married, nonetheless......he OWES you respect. If he does that in your presence imagine what else he does when you are not with him.
Tell him next time that you don't appreciate his behavior when he does this. if his response is not to your liking then I suggest you take a different approach to this situation.
2006-10-05 04:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by spanishflyin_tx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not normal that way but listen if you not show any reaction, he will keep going through that till something more happen and he knew already that you have no reaction and accpt small cheats from him so he will go to do more big things, then don't blame him cause he already show u what he gonna do soon but blame yourself then.
wish u all the best
2006-10-05 05:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this isn't normal...may be he's trying to make u jealous OR may be he doesnt find u attractive.... try dressing up a bit...i mean pay more attention to urself and do a bit flirting urself... :-) if he's the type who listens and talks, just ask him y he does this..... best thing is u paying attention to ur self and just have fun..... GOOD LUCK
2006-10-05 04:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..its perfectly normal,that is what man are..perhaps u must let ur husband know that ur jealous and maybe not to do it all the time when he see a sexy woman..
2006-10-05 04:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by leraic'estchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋