My boyfriend and I have been romantically involved for 2 yrs.. I am about ready to try something new. Just a few days he said he was up for anything, so I approached him on what I wanted. I told him I wanted to be with a woman. He wasn't liking it. So I told him that we could have a threesome. He wasn't wanting that either. He wanted me to take the lead and choose what I wanted and he just wasn't agreeing with anything I was saying. Why did he turn down me with another woman or having a threesome? Also, the sex has just been crappy. He just likes the same old style, missionary style. I'm so sick of it. I really love him and I want to try new things. Me suggesting another woman doesn't mean anything, I just wanted something new. He doesn't even get turned on by my lingerie. I work out and I have a nice body. I've been told I sorta look like a younger version of the model Helena Christianson. Click the link -- http://madsenblog.dk/billeder/HelenaChristensen_04.jpg ...What do I do?
2006-10-04 21:24:57 · 17 answers · asked by Kait_baby22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you sure you love him? If I were him, that's what I would be asking. Sex should be a way of communicating your love for each other. It sounds like it is a way to satisfy both your physical needs, not much more.
2006-10-04 21:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by 5482 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choice of a threesome to liven your sex life with your b/f wasn't inspired. A good rule of thumb for guys is when your g/f invites you to have sex with her and another woman you should enjoy it because your relationship is just about over.
You might tell him its ok but you will remember him having sex with the other girl and it will effect you. The same is true of his perception of you.
2006-10-05 04:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish you were close at hand ! I could give you some pointers, first hand, You my not stay with me , But you most ashuredly would never return to him ! ! Pleas don't let your self be stiffeld. Missionary ? Pack him up an send him off to a 3rd.woreld country one way ! ! loboccp@yahoo.c
2006-10-05 05:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by cornelius p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you've always done, Kait baby! Let the other boys in the neighborhood take you out and tie you to a tree! PS: Remember winter is coming...
2006-10-05 04:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tough one. well, if you are telling him you want to try new positions and he doesn't, then you have to decide whether he's worth settling for an average sex life with. you sound sexually incompatible... on the other hand, he could just resent that you are as sexually demanding as you are. either way you've got a problem.
2006-10-05 04:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are ample scope of doing new things betweet you two... hundreds of new techniques, positions, bj, head, licking, and countless, why do you insist bringing a third person especially when he doesnt seem to have any interest in it?
I think it you who need to change... because you are fed up with two and now you require three... but what would you do when you are fed up with three???
2006-10-05 04:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him liquored up first and then,Take over in the bed. Do somethings to him don't give him a choose he will probably go along with it as long as it doesn't hurt.
2006-10-05 04:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just buy a strap on and go have fun with the chick and dont tell him the wiener, ill go if you want me too, hell yeah, you gotta sister like you?
2006-10-05 04:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not need a threesome to do something different and new. try something out for yourself.
2006-10-05 04:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His drive is low, you either have to suffer with him, or dump him for someone else.
2006-10-05 04:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by mklwis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋