Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

2006-10-04 18:47:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband told me during an argument that im a dead ****! how can he say this when we are doing our thing im the 1 who does everything! he's gotten fat and i'm back to my weight b4 kids what his problem? he dont do ne thing do u think theres something else like he's jealous or somn?

2006-10-04 18:46:12 · 14 answers · asked by dominicana 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are debating how far back the kiss goes. Does anyone know the history of how kissing started?

2006-10-04 18:44:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-04 18:43:56 · 11 answers · asked by cking_pOise... 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 18:43:16 · 17 answers · asked by Beckam 1 in Singles & Dating

My "best friend" well he lies to me all the time. He has interferred with my relationship because he doesn't like my boyfriend. Now he is actually destroying himself at work but yet he thinks that i am falling for all the lies that he is telling me constantly. He lies all the time and i have tried to say something to him but whenever he asks like what im completely at a dead end. I honestly don't want to be friends with him anymore i don't know how to tell him. He's constantly lying to me though, how could anyone be freinds with someone who continuously lies i can't do it anymore he's been lying to me for 9 1/2 years and he says so much about other people that i wonder what he says about me. Me and my boyfriend are still going strong so thats not the issue. Im just wondering how to tell him that he needs to quit lying without sounding like a b*tch and i want to make sure im not wrong in wanting to cut him off. please help. i feel like a b*tch because im cutting him off am i?

2006-10-04 18:41:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a question well I need advice about my boyfriends ex. I am 6 months pregnant with his child, but he has a son also by someone else. How can I not be so jeaulous of her and stop thinking that he is in love with her. He says that he never loved her and their son was not planned but our was. What does anyone think? How should I feel? What do I need to do?

2006-10-04 18:40:12 · 16 answers · asked by kmylander03 2 in Singles & Dating

my b.f says he loves me,he also calls me up almost everyday.But sometimes he also tells me he is very busy at office and will not speak to me.We havent met for almost 2 yrs.He is in a different country.We will be getting married this november.But Icant go abroad as my passport has got stuck.he knows it and is comfortable with it,he tells me that he will fix up the passport issue ones he comes here for the marriage.He will stay then for 1 mnth and go back,not quite sure when he will return.as per my understanding Passport cant be fixed as I am in India where the government is extremely inefficient and go by their own whims.Does he really love me,I am also very afraid to get married as I am unable to understand if he really loves me.It also seems he is quite cool with his life,never ever expressed that he missed me all this time
Iam confused and afraid.Please help me.

2006-10-04 18:39:39 · 8 answers · asked by fun 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well my boyfriend has been very accusing of me every time i do something he thinks i am cheating him and just gets really jeleous

2006-10-04 18:39:29 · 8 answers · asked by Brittany Chavez Perez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-04 18:38:53 · 23 answers · asked by NEENA 1 in Family

What do you look for in girls? I mean when you first see a girl. I know we all have our types but in general.

2006-10-04 18:38:47 · 13 answers · asked by llacy 1 in Singles & Dating

So my statistics teacher was spouting out about how men aren't getting college diplomas, and women are more educated than men now, and men are more likely to be in dead-end jobs than women today... so does that mean that we're about to see a big crop of house husbands on the horizon? Or are women going to be afraid of marrying down, and expect their men (who are likely to be loosers compared to their women) to support them?

Women, would you support a man who was less educated and less successful than you?

Men, would you let your woman support you if she were more educated and more successful?

2006-10-04 18:38:24 · 3 answers · asked by ye_river_xiv 6 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
Ive been working at this department store for about two weeks, and have been working in the back with other guys. They are very "manly guys" and like to talk about girls and sex and how many girls they did etc...

Well Im not as "confident" as them, and In fact Im a virgin. They don't really know this, and they want me to be a player like them. They said I should ask out this new co-worker girl (just for sex at the end of the date they say), so I did ask her, but Im not attracted to her physically. She did say yes. So what should I do? I actually was thinking of qutting because I found a higher paying job, and just forget this ordeal, but I sure would have let them down.

2006-10-04 18:37:35 · 5 answers · asked by Mikey 2 in Singles & Dating

Though there lossing the one presious year of life ..

2006-10-04 18:35:12 · 11 answers · asked by SG 4 in Friends

I'm torn between two things I can do for my girlfriend. She told me she isn't exactly sure how she feels about me, and needs some time alone to think. To make a long story short I have come to 2 options.

1.) I keep pursuing her and let her know that I will do whatever it takes to keep her, and just be patient

2.) Let her go to find someone she KNOWS she has feelings for. I feel it's not fair for her to be with someone she's just not sure about. I feel like if I really do care for her, this is not what I want to do, but need to do, for her.

Obviously, I'd like to keep pursuing her, because I've really fallen for her, but I feel like doing the latter for her is for her good.

I'm not trying to sound all self-righteous, I just want her to be happy.

Girls, is this something you would want to be done for you?

2006-10-04 18:34:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and my 25 yr old brother was in a horrible automobile accident last week, and he recently passed away in the hospital while I was holding onto his hands, his wife was killed instantly. It was a very sad moment because he had a newborn son that is just 2 weeks old and he was so proud he was a father, and he had just gotten married a year ago. I was in the hospital room visiting him and he told me he didn't think he was gonna make it, he started to cry and he asked me if I could be the role model, father, and dad of his new son. and I was speechless. we had never cried in front of eachother in about 8 yrs or so, needless to say that was a very sad moment. I sobbingly told him I would be honored to be the father figure for his son and that I would take good care of him. wow, this is starting to get to me...... anyways I went to grab a quick bite to eat from the snack bar and when I came back, 4 doctors were in his room and I ran in and grabbed his hand and he faintly squeezed

2006-10-04 18:34:31 · 15 answers · asked by Hank 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i live with my boyfriend and his family so the food is there food well everytime time we get in a fight he always makes me stay hungry, even when we make up i tell him im hungry and he just calls me fat so i have to go to sleep hungry

2006-10-04 18:34:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 45 year old man, i have been married for 20 years now, and i have a son of 16, the last 5 years i didnt see my family more than 5 days in a month due to my work.

The last 6 months i have been with someone else of my work, she is 25 and i feel that for the first time in my life i fall in love, i have been thinking get the divorce and be with this girl. . but i dont know if take the risk and leave my family, because all the time that i have share with my wife, despite that she has now have her own life.
I dont know if this is a crisis of my age, i dont know if this girl will be ok with me when i look my age, what will happen with the difference then, she say that she dont care and isn ot a problem but i dotn know.

What do you think.. shall i have to take the risk ??

2006-10-04 18:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have this very beautiful girlfriend and we have been dating for about two months.... i just need some ideas on some new and creative dates. thanks

2006-10-04 18:33:34 · 3 answers · asked by vinny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If so can they go through pants zippers?

2006-10-04 18:32:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what is a good way to let the girl i like know i like her? or should I let my actions shop how much i like her untill i ask her out on a date?

2006-10-04 18:31:36 · 8 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

before i met my guy, i used to have lots and lots of crushes.basically just because of their good looks.(i dont really know my crushes)i used to have crush on M(not real name),N,& H. M and N are my bf's friend.after being togehter with my guy, i still have a crush on M and N!!! i know its wrong!! they're my guys best friend! and H on the other hand,i have been crushing him for 3 years..i never talk to him b4 coz i dont want to..but i cant help but to drool whenever i see him.help?! i love my guy soo much! how can i STOP looking at other guys???

Maybe im just too young to settle down in a relationship..but i dont want to lose him

2006-10-04 18:30:49 · 7 answers · asked by dolly parker 2 in Singles & Dating

earthly possesion or action... no stupid answers please

2006-10-04 18:30:12 · 14 answers · asked by gelo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and don't give me that make up BS

2006-10-04 18:28:30 · 7 answers · asked by str8trisor 2 in Friends

When my husband and I met, he was nice and always smiling. Now my husband is verbally abusive. One day he "loves" me and the next day he wishes we never got married. I guess you could say I was his mid-life crisis. We are 14 years apart and he is set in his ways. We have a 1yr old and he gets upset when the baby has his toys all over the room. This marriage has been rocky from the first day we got married. He used to try to make me go to bed when he went to bed. He would walk through the house and turn out the lights and the tv that I was watching and say lets go. I have prayed and things got a little better. He tells me jokingly yet seriously that he would rather pay child support than stay married. My main problem is I go to school, and work full time, (he doesn't help with our child) and I can't manage to keep the house clean. So he's pissed about that. That's the root of it. I've tried and I can't juggle it all.

2006-10-04 18:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs.BBA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

no other guys? He is 15.

2006-10-04 18:26:43 · 6 answers · asked by Beckam 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 18:26:10 · 15 answers · asked by momo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we were friends before moving in. now i hate him to the bone. what should i do to?

2006-10-04 18:25:48 · 6 answers · asked by str8trisor 2 in Friends

Every day at school when i walk down the hall way all the people mostly the girls stare at me and smile or give me the unconfertable look. Today i overheard these girls looking at me and saying "im scared of her" and then they looked at me and smiled in a uncomfortable way...i mean im really nice and i never said anything to harm them or make them think this way about me. why do they do this?

2006-10-04 18:25:47 · 3 answers · asked by someone 1 in Friends

we(Both r single share flat provided my goverment.we'vecommon kitchen n sitting room. C is very unfriendly who came to visit me My friends often tell me that bcoz of her they dont want to come to flat friends. I don't 've problem with her friends. bcoz of her indifference attitudes driving me crezy. Now days i am all alone. i like friends around me. C keeps every account on what i do. specially household works.. C just watch TV all d time when c back fm her work. When I watch TV C just come n change d channel of her favourite. if i ask c just reply dat C has bn watching dat. I dont say her anything n walk over . Becoz i dont say anything to her c is taking advantage of my silence. I ,m not in possition to move out as this is government job n flat. i cant complain abt her indifferent attitudes to my superior . recenly i found dat c is provoking other against me . without finding d right things plp r not happy with me. please help me. bcoz of this i m al seeking treatment 4depression

2006-10-04 18:24:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships