Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

what are some ideas i can use?

2006-10-04 18:24:02 · 10 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

Many moments of my life are haunting me, i relive them in detail and then proceed to talk through them the way I wish I had because of what the truth of those moments are now revealling to me. There are a few scenios however the most painful are the ones involving my husband and his insults and lies when he was having an affair. I know this pain will be there wheather I allow him to stay or demand he leaves for good this time - even if he were to die. This emotional/heartache pain and reliving won't stop, I need to find away and soon. Even during the dead of sleep I'm woken up in full emotional pain and reliving a moment. How do you stop emotional/heartache pain?

2006-10-04 18:23:34 · 11 answers · asked by carenffb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should especially stop changing rules around everytime you speak with them .

2006-10-04 18:23:06 · 8 answers · asked by bikerdollbaby72 1 in Marriage & Divorce

More women are being arrested for domestic violence...who thinks these are mostly victims who scratched their man's face defending themselves, and who thinks women initiate at least as much violence against men, as men do against women?

2006-10-04 18:23:04 · 6 answers · asked by z 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-04 18:21:16 · 17 answers · asked by bharti g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he says all this stuff about really liking me, that he doesnt want me to be with any other guys and is always really affectionate when im with him- kissing on the forehead, holding hands and hugging me, but he only calls every couple of weeks, and we never go anywhere where its just the 2 of us, just me and him and his friends. So whats goin on??

2006-10-04 18:20:50 · 15 answers · asked by ash1 4 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend(w/ a drinking problem)had broke up w/me 3 x's from 1999-2004.(1st x -after 6 ms. 2nd x -after 6 ms. 3rd x -after 9 ms.)He called again Feb.'06(Tuesday)joking that I'd not sent him a Christmas card that year)We talked awhile..he said he'd called 2-3 x's Dec.-Jan. (I didn't get the messges and don't have call ID) -Asked to take me and my 12 year old son out -dinner /movie that Thursday..cancelled the day of..working late/going in early next day(said he'd call me soon-make it up to me) I called his machine to say "got his message-yeah-another time maybe..blah..blah. He called a week later on Sunday morning 9:30 AM..said he was thinkin' about me.(all mushy and @#$%)Didn't re-ask our "night out" from before...just chatted.Said he'd call me soon. His grandpa's death announcement was in the paper 2 wks later. I called to say sorry for his loss(we talked 3 min. max)-thanked me 4 calling..haven't talked since!!(March) Holidays comin'(I KNOW he'll call)WHAT do I do THIS next time

2006-10-04 18:20:40 · 3 answers · asked by THE BEST 2 in Singles & Dating

Do they think they will get lucky? Is it that they wont want to marry? What is it guys?

2006-10-04 18:20:13 · 17 answers · asked by rose 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-04 18:18:20 · 20 answers · asked by rose 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 25 i want a freaking boyfriend!! but no one is interested what can i do? i like this guy at college but he doesn't even know i exist, im tired of life of liiking him!!

2006-10-04 18:17:36 · 12 answers · asked by momo 2 in Singles & Dating

If I go out on a date, how can I know whether my date is interested in me or not?

2006-10-04 18:17:19 · 13 answers · asked by jsd 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm sitting here on my PC, its Thursday afternoon, and I'm listening to Hoobastank's 2nd album aswell as emailing people, yes I'm male and can multi-task-AMAZING isn't it ladies.

cheers.

Mitch
Launceston, Tas
Australia

2006-10-04 18:17:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been talking to this women on and off for bout 2 months now,and I like her.Now the thing is she has been really really hurt before and she is really against men now.The thing is I want to show her i care for her and show her i'm a different type of guy she's been with.I want to show her without seem to persuasive without coming off to desperate but i do want to show her i want to be with her and give her something like she's never had,how can i do this without scaring her off?

2006-10-04 18:16:26 · 16 answers · asked by Big Baby Sweets 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 18:15:05 · 10 answers · asked by Chandni B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this very average looking girl two months back. she recently broke up with her boyfriend as instructed by me as he was a real asshole. now she says she doesnt trust any guy.
but we are the best friends and we chat for hours and even overnight sometime on phone now and dont even feel the time. i just cant afford to loose her as i find her the most compatible and best understanding girl ever. i cant see her sad even for a second and we care for each other a lot. i just become so happy when see her smiling face and sad when she s sad. we must accept that we are so good together. i dont find any reason why i should not tell her that i am falling for her . but o dont know if she will say a yes after her break up . should i tell her

2006-10-04 18:14:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's slightly an emotionally abusive relationship. Husband is insecure and sometimes thinks I'm unfaithful--even though I never have been. We constantly argue and I find myself growing very intolerant of him. Tonight we had another one of our disagreements---I talked to the neighbor for a few minutes and my husband thought my speaking to him was inappropriate. Ironically the conversation was about the neighbor's dogs escaping their backyard. I came inside, and my husband packed up his gym bag and when I asked him where he was going, he responded, "somewhere that you won't be going". I don't think I should apologize for talking to the neighbor!

2006-10-04 18:13:21 · 21 answers · asked by justwondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-04 18:12:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it when others admire Me?
Is it when I'm the center of attention?
Is it when I do something that makes my kids happy?

Statistics across the board show that single-parent families have a much lower income than dual-parent families(whether one or both of the parents work).
Misery may love company... but when the pity party's all over and everybody goes home, what are you left with?What is your worth based on?What you lost?What you don't have?
Or is it based on who you are--right now?
How can you best take control?
What is your biggest fear as a single parent?That you'll be alone all your life?That you will fail in raising the children you love?That you just won't be able to stand the pressure of doing everything solo?
How can fear be good for you?

2006-10-04 18:11:40 · 8 answers · asked by babykatdream099 5 in Family

If you don't tell me, I will figure it out. Spellcheck is still spinning.?/

2006-10-04 18:11:28 · 9 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-04 18:10:55 · 15 answers · asked by samantha s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So i know this girl. We've been to dinner twice now, and nothing physical has happened. She's mentioned still being a bit hung up on her ex, and last weekend, i sort of caught her in a lie when i 'bumped' into them at the movies. but she still asks me to have dinner with her, like shes interested in me, and i still dont make moves because im weary of her situation with her ex. Should i go for it and try to make a move, or should i ask her where things stand with her and him and where i might fit into it all, or what? I like her personality, her flaws, her appearance, etc., but im a man and i have my limits. I also dont think i should have to "put up" with the run-around. So what do i do?

2006-10-04 18:08:37 · 15 answers · asked by man_hands542 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend had posted a blog about a wonderful day she had at the "nude" beach, but said it sucked because the cops showed up to pour out beer, check for drugs and fine people, that they had no right to be there...I said its great that you had a wonderful day, and yes it sucks that the cops had to waste time on dealing with that stupidity but they had a right to be there, if you have a problem shouldn't you be taking it out on the person causing the cops to be there??. She came back attacking!!! Saying I don't know what I'm talking about, that its a public place and they have a right to drink or "smoke" what they want when they want. After this she said I wasn't a true friend. I just laughed this off, but still it hurts that my opinion is just brushed away like I'm an idiot. What do you think about it?? Don't you think that a person's opinion is just that, whether you agree or not, you shouldn't attack because someone won't simply agree with you!!!

2006-10-04 18:08:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i get alot of attention from both sexes just for being tall, plus i hear that being tall gives you many advantages in the work place also, what do you think?

2006-10-04 18:05:50 · 15 answers · asked by amomg2 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex is named chandler and my friend rachel asked him "did u break up with marie b/c u found out about her and justin?" (nothing happened btw. us we just wanted to see if he would get jealous) and he kept asking her "who is justin? & What did they do?" Would u say he is jealous??

2006-10-04 18:05:41 · 6 answers · asked by Marie G 1 in Singles & Dating

I just when out on a "set up" date with this guy. We went out for coffee and then to play some pool and video games. When he drove me home he went the seenic way by the ocean. Then he walked me to the door and gave me a hug. We have been talking on the phone for the past few days and we seem to have a lot in common. Do you think he likes me and he just wants to take is slow or could it be that he's not attracted to me and he just wants to be friends?

2006-10-04 18:05:22 · 6 answers · asked by Fuzzybunny95531 4 in Singles & Dating

a man married in mexico, ten years ago, broght his wife to this country and had 3 kids at this time she is ilegal alien. he wants to divorce her and take her kids and have her deported! can he actually do this? o the kids were born here..

2006-10-04 18:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by mr39buick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

your husband or wife? Was it love at first sight?

2006-10-04 18:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married 4 years. When we were dating she wasn't shy about anything. Now she sees sex as an arduous task. I'm getting hornier and kinkier by the minute. She's 24 and I'm 27 and we have two kids. She acts like she is doing it to keep me around and if I want to try something new, she thinks I'm cheating on her.What can I do to make her want to sex me every minute of the day? Unbenounced to her, I'm even fantising her enjoying other men and thinking I would like watching; I also want to video tape us and do everything that we could possibally think of, and the some. My wife is very self concious about the LITTLE weight she put on after our last child and said that,(even though it's the same old sex we've always had!), when we have sex it makes her feel dirty.WHY? ****, Let's get Dirty!What should I do????????We might have sex twice a month!!!

2006-10-04 18:03:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hope some nice people out there have some really good advice?? My best friend for the last five years told me he was in love with me 2 years ago. We were sort of 'together' without being official. I thought that I loved him, but now I'm not sure. I've got a lot of things to worry about at the moment: uni and the start of a potentially fantasic career. I told him about my unsurety, and sometimes he's alright with it, and other times, he just gets really super angry, sad, depressed, and tries to sort of 'force' me back into the relationship. I really want to keep his friendship, tho...

2006-10-04 18:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any person ,any one

2006-10-04 18:01:52 · 4 answers · asked by suresh s 1 in Friends