My ex-boyfriend(w/ a drinking problem)had broke up w/me 3 x's from 1999-2004.(1st x -after 6 ms. 2nd x -after 6 ms. 3rd x -after 9 ms.)He called again Feb.'06(Tuesday)joking that I'd not sent him a Christmas card that year)We talked awhile..he said he'd called 2-3 x's Dec.-Jan. (I didn't get the messges and don't have call ID) -Asked to take me and my 12 year old son out -dinner /movie that Thursday..cancelled the day of..working late/going in early next day(said he'd call me soon-make it up to me) I called his machine to say "got his message-yeah-another time maybe..blah..blah. He called a week later on Sunday morning 9:30 AM..said he was thinkin' about me.(all mushy and @#$%)Didn't re-ask our "night out" from before...just chatted.Said he'd call me soon. His grandpa's death announcement was in the paper 2 wks later. I called to say sorry for his loss(we talked 3 min. max)-thanked me 4 calling..haven't talked since!!(March) Holidays comin'(I KNOW he'll call)WHAT do I do THIS next time
2006-10-04 18:20:40 · 3 answers · asked by THE BEST 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONG WHEN AND IF HE CALL
LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU HAVE MOVE ON AND THAT YOU
RELLY DONT WANT TO TALK TO HIM. THIS BACK AND FORTH STUFF IS NOT GOOD. AND AS LONG AS YOU
CONTINUE TO DO THIS HE WILL CONTINUE TO CALL
YOU. TIME TO CUT HIM LOOSE FOR GOOD.
2006-10-04 18:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him if you only want convo...if you think it's more....duh...don't. Also, by the way you sound, you are hopeful and I think by the way he sounds that you shouldn't be......
Get caller ID and block his number.....the sea is teaming with fishes....get a pole and head to the shore.....
Good luck!
2006-10-05 01:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by stillsweetp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone tell him to go find someone else i had a boyfriend thathdone the same thing he got so drunk he tried to strange me so stay away from him you will only get hurt
2006-10-05 01:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by dee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋