before i met my guy, i used to have lots and lots of crushes.basically just because of their good looks.(i dont really know my crushes)i used to have crush on M(not real name),N,& H. M and N are my bf's friend.after being togehter with my guy, i still have a crush on M and N!!! i know its wrong!! they're my guys best friend! and H on the other hand,i have been crushing him for 3 years..i never talk to him b4 coz i dont want to..but i cant help but to drool whenever i see him.help?! i love my guy soo much! how can i STOP looking at other guys???
Maybe im just too young to settle down in a relationship..but i dont want to lose him
2006-10-04 18:30:49 · 7 answers · asked by dolly parker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's an instinct, and it's normal. However at some point in your life you should realise a crush is just a crush, nothing more, and certainly not something that will lead to anything more.
Of course it also helps if your other half trusts you to make the right and rational decision. You might even have a laugh over it.
2006-10-04 18:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by domestic shopaholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not really love the person you are with if you are really badly crushing over someone else. Go for the other person. You will really break this person's heart though. I don't want else to tell you. It's not fair to the one you are in a relationship with.
2006-10-04 18:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A crush is just a crush as far as I am concerned.
You "admire" certain qualities another man, pretty normal.
2006-10-04 19:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by 8s_fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually itz a tough question to answer
u r the one who has to answer
take some time off
and think whom u want
listen to ur mind
it will guide u correctly
tom
2006-10-04 18:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by remo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is OK, it is human nature to have "crushes" what is wrong is when u "act on them" DO NOT do anything u wouldn't want him (u bf) to do and it will be fine.
2006-10-04 18:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by dydy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah your too young. this is what young people do. lots of looking . it's normal.
2006-10-04 18:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r confused
2006-10-04 18:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋