Hi,
Ive been working at this department store for about two weeks, and have been working in the back with other guys. They are very "manly guys" and like to talk about girls and sex and how many girls they did etc...
Well Im not as "confident" as them, and In fact Im a virgin. They don't really know this, and they want me to be a player like them. They said I should ask out this new co-worker girl (just for sex at the end of the date they say), so I did ask her, but Im not attracted to her physically. She did say yes. So what should I do? I actually was thinking of qutting because I found a higher paying job, and just forget this ordeal, but I sure would have let them down.
2006-10-04 18:37:35 · 5 answers · asked by Mikey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I don't have a car either!
2006-10-04 18:49:52 · update #1
You asked out a person you're not attracted to because of peer pressure. Okay, I can work with this.
First, at leas take her out on a date. If you don't, you're scum because you're the one that asked her. No, you don't have to do the freak-nasty, but you should at least get her a pizza. If there is no chemistry there, you'll both know it and go your separate ways.
Second. Always go for the money. When it's all said and done, in this life, money matters.
Third: did any of your buddies ask her out? And if not, why?
Fourth: There's a big difference between "Men" and " Guys" A man never would have pushed you into this situation. A guy would have done it because it amuses him.- best wishes.
2006-10-04 18:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by Odindmar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth it to compromise your opinions or morals (or whatever is holding you back in this situation) based on what your co-workers think. This decision is one that will affect you, not them, so any input that they have should be disregarded. Also, if you are going to ask a girl out solely for sex, you are just using her. There is so much to consider in this situation, the least of which should be what some guys in the back of a department store think. Do yourself a favor and keep strong to what you think is right and, above all, don't let other people try to live your life for you.
2006-10-04 18:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kumori_Akki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them down?? What do you care about letting a bunch of jerks down?
You should never succumb to pressure... if you don't feel ready or right about it, don't do it. If you do, you'll have to answer to your conscience even more than your co-workers. It's not fair for the girl too, if she is agreeing to go out with you because she really likes you and all you want is to get into her pants
2006-10-04 18:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, I WOULD NOT LET ANY PRESSURE YOU TO DO SOMETHING THAT YOU DONT WANT TO DO, AND FOR
THE YOUNG LADY IF YOU DONT WANT TO GO OUT WITH
HER THEN TELL HER, AS FOR THESE GUY, THEY NOT WORTH YOUR TIME. AND FOR LET THEM DOWN. WHO
CARE. YOU DONT OWE THEM NOTHING. GOOD THAT'YOU
FOUND A BETTER JOB.. GOOD FOR YOU. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-04 18:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick her in her butthole and tell me all about it!
2006-10-04 18:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Bobby Bob 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋