Family & Relationships - 3 October 2006

I'm kinda afraid top ask her out. So now I want to know how to tell if she likes me. We are friends right now. But, I'm afraid if I ask her out It will become awkward between us. Help me!

2006-10-03 08:43:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do I risk it to make the move for a first kiss if I know tonight will be the last time I see her until after the weekend. Sure I may talk to her on the phone but she will be heading out of town this weekend and I am wondering if I dare wait...or I know I at least should make a move even though the dates have been more of the informal type...plus there was a gap of a couple of weeks since our date before last so Im wondering if she wants me to make a move yet or not

2006-10-03 08:43:32 · 9 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Singles & Dating

ok this guy and i are trying to start dating and all, he says he really cares about me and that i am the one girl in his life that he has ever been happy with. he is living with his ex g/f and her mother until he leaves for basic tranning and AIT. he tells me that there is nothing goin on between the 2 of them anymore and never will, but he does want to keep her as a friend (i honestly dont have a problem with it). but he hasnt told her about us at all and i just want to kno if you think he is with her or not?

2006-10-03 08:42:33 · 20 answers · asked by SS 1 in Singles & Dating

oh well yesterday i just went shopping cuz in 3 weeks im going to visit my bf to the states and i was buying some presents for his family. ok. me my friend and her bf went out after shopping and my bf didn't knew it. he called me but i didnt answer the fone cuz i thu he would get mad at me for havent get home yet. oh well my friend told me i should call him back and i did and i explained to him. when i got home he started askin me what i really was doing but i told him the true and he was like not believin it at all. i got mad bc i told him the true and i let him know i dont feel bad at all cuz i know i did said the true instead of sayin that i was in the "bathroom or somewhere else"...... hes lack of self-trust and he doesnt trust ppl too much but he "does" to me "apparently".....

what can i do?

his family loves me and they know that if bc his fault he loses me, they will kick his ***. in other hand, i love him and i know he does but i really want to help him

2006-10-03 08:42:29 · 9 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am dating a guy that has been hurt by love, as have I. And he can't open up or talk about us or even what he likes about me. He is thoughtful, gentle and affectionate. But verbally, there is this big wall when it comes to emotions.

usually in dating, guys are all 'you are so great' and then it calms down. With him, I feel like I am holding out for a 'someday he will tell me something that he likes about me', he is not ready.

I don't believe I should compromise in my choice of a man.

What would you do.

Stick it out for his potential and the hope of someday?
Break up with him and find someone more ready?
Or tell him this, and that we need a break until he is more ready?

2006-10-03 08:41:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As a woman, I feel I can be just friends with men. I have absolutely no difficulty with it. But I am learning that men don't seem able to be friends with a woman.
What do you think?

2006-10-03 08:41:01 · 17 answers · asked by medium_of_dance 4 in Friends

I need to get him something, but i have no money.My family hates me and my friends are just as bad as me!HELP!

2006-10-03 08:40:58 · 16 answers · asked by Candi T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Too bad I didn't ask for her number, and her hair smells really nice. Perhaps if I see her again tomorrow I'll talk to her.

2006-10-03 08:40:27 · 14 answers · asked by Sans Sucre 2 in Singles & Dating

well he is involved with someone else

2006-10-03 08:39:59 · 15 answers · asked by DIMPLES 2 in Singles & Dating

Just like me!!!!!

Only 2 hrs to go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-03 08:39:48 · 22 answers · asked by The Dude 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and I think he likes me. I had my first kiss with him at a school football game. Were Freshmen in High School. My friend asked him if he wants to go out with me. He said no but hes thinking about it. Later in art class he started telling perople that we weren't going out were just friends with benefits. I didn't know what that meant and I didn't even agree to it. (I know what it means now though). I don't want to have sex with him. I'm one of those people who will wait until I'm married or atleast can hold up a sturdy relationship and support a child. I don't know what to do. One of my friends told me to tell him no, but I like him so much and just want to be boyfriend and girlfriend or just friends. We joke around and flirt, tickle each other, and hug (Not the "only a friend" kind). I don't know what to do. Please help.

2006-10-03 08:39:40 · 15 answers · asked by Monkeyboots92 3 in Singles & Dating

If an in law is cheating on spouse with an in law isn't it just best to keep it quiet? Especially with children involved? To tell would tear up an entire marriage and destroy the children. Any answers greatly appreciated.

2006-10-03 08:39:24 · 17 answers · asked by BBHEY 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

it was on channel four yesterday and the poor guy had like 20 inches plus yes 20 inches plus would women actually be turned on by that. and o yeah the reason i said poor guy is because all his blood must flow down there lol and he didn't exactly have large feet so that puts that theory out of action.

2006-10-03 08:39:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband came home late last night from drinking with his friends and I asked him if he would stay home more at night with me because I get scared at night all alone. I mean I have the baby, but I still feel alone because the baby usually sleeps. He got angry with me and told me to shut up and he would go out with his friends if he wanted. Then he grabbed my arms real hard and took me into the bedroom and threw me on the bed and spanked me. He told me never to tell him what to do. I guess I was being a little selfish, so I guess I deserved it. Plus he had been drinking and I don't think he knows his own strength sometimes. He apologized this afternoon and said he was sorry and he was going to bring me flowers so I know he loves me. Well I'm supposed to have my friend and her fiance over for dinner tonight and I am planning on wearing a long sleeve shirt to hide my arms but I know I'm going to have to roll them up when I do the dishes and I think she might see. What do I say?

2006-10-03 08:39:11 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just moved to a new city, and you wouldn't believe how many good looking, smart girls, with good jobs are with these losers. Guys are mooching off their girls, hitting them, not paying attention to them, I don't know whats going on. Should I start beating up on girls? Or maybe I could cuss them out, or stay at home while they go to work, would that help me look better?? Isn't there any girl out there that wants a guy to take care of them, and treat them well? If so call me...

2006-10-03 08:38:44 · 15 answers · asked by metevs 2 in Singles & Dating

he has a big ,big play ground just out of town.he has been know to go play on brakes lunch. then at home on time. what is he doing?

2006-10-03 08:38:31 · 4 answers · asked by stressedouttothemax 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 08:38:21 · 14 answers · asked by fancey 2 in Friends

If i picked you up to go to dinner,where would you most want to go? I'm very curiouse to see what the satistics are of where ladies like to eat.I'm aware of the fact that all people M or F have seperate choices as to what they preffer to eat.

2006-10-03 08:37:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont get it she says she wnated to go to the movies yesterday now when i try to talk to her she completely ignores me

any ideas? : (

2006-10-03 08:37:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It's only once or twice a week, but I get the feeling she is not into me as much as I am into her. What can I do to bring her around?

2006-10-03 08:37:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A guy has just asked me out but i don't want to go out with him. how can i say no with out hurting his feelings?

2006-10-03 08:37:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work first shift in an office and my husband work second at a factory. I hate never seeing him and the kids miss him during the week. Anybody else have the same problem? How do you handle kids time with him and also your time with him?

2006-10-03 08:37:09 · 5 answers · asked by dr's mom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 08:37:00 · 1 answers · asked by mohini n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is not to be taken offense to, but I have never met one female in my life ( that includes my own mom ) who had emotional stability, a rational mind, and were cool when something bad happended. It's like their brains are incapable of handling stressful circumstances and they go overboard with emotion's. I only say this because of my messed up dating life. I am a nice guy but with alot of backbone. I am good to them and that scares them. It shouldn't but they always come up with reason's why they can't talk to me anymore and it hurt's me. It is like I am not allowed to voice my own opinions, have anything my way, and they just don't know how to have a genuine argument or conversation without having issue's arise. I know I am smart to be single but I think God really messed up when he constructed female's from the male body but who know's. I just want an answer preferable from men and non feministic women who have something valuable to say, nothing rude or smart a@@.

2006-10-03 08:35:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 08:34:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Your just started having a long distance relationship and now ur pregnant how would u tell ur boyfriend?
Who should move? but look i left him to be with my family for the first time and now i cant leave them now because we are nowing getting tha feeling of being a family
what should i do

2006-10-03 08:34:40 · 2 answers · asked by ~Tranell~ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i feel shakira is too hot to handle ooooo!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-03 08:33:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it says what i would like to say, can i just sign the card or is that not appropriate, should i Wright a message before signing...am so bad at this stuff, i just don’t want it to be too much.

2006-10-03 08:33:11 · 9 answers · asked by melinda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I meet this guy, and he is very sweet and kind, he has even published a book and is very smart, but he still lives with him mama, I think the reason for this is that he likes to have money and his mom has a beautiful house. Should I be worried about this, or is it just sweet and shows he has respect for his mom? My mom always told me that a man who has a good relationship with his mom knows that a woman should be respected? Is this considered bad or good and should it influence me being in a relationship with him?

2006-10-03 08:32:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love him and he loves me too.I feel a bit embarased to be a virgin at the age 22.I know it's not a common thing thesedays but I don't know how to tell him that I want to wait till mariage.
How is he going to react?
What if he wants someone with experience?
Girls,what would you do?
And men how would you react?

2006-10-03 08:32:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships