ok this guy and i are trying to start dating and all, he says he really cares about me and that i am the one girl in his life that he has ever been happy with. he is living with his ex g/f and her mother until he leaves for basic tranning and AIT. he tells me that there is nothing goin on between the 2 of them anymore and never will, but he does want to keep her as a friend (i honestly dont have a problem with it). but he hasnt told her about us at all and i just want to kno if you think he is with her or not?
2006-10-03 08:42:33 · 20 answers · asked by SS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i really dont think he is with her(considering he is 21 and has only had sex with 2 girls). and i dont thin he would be having sex with everyone, but you never kno. just need to hear someone elses opinion.
2006-10-03 08:56:32 · update #1
i think he is not being loyal to both of u.
he should clear his relationship with u to his ex.
and dont u think if he is still living with her then he is not totally out of that relationship.
2006-10-03 08:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by shalin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe he is with her... Do not take his word until he makes a move to leave..... If they were just friends, she would not have a problem with him having a girlfriend, therefore, she would have known about you already....
Remember that men, sometimes will tell you things you want to hear, so that they can have their cake and eat it to....
Be real careful and smart about the decisions you make... Don't let any one play you for a fool...
Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-10-03 08:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know before I headed off for basic training I wanted to bang everything that moved and I am sure that he is the same way. It sounds like he is going to tell you everything you want to hear to get laid without cutting himself short with the other girl.
2006-10-03 08:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're sharing the same house there's no telling what else they're sharing. And if the ex doesn't know he's seeing you now, then she may be crossing the line at home and she doesn't even know it. If I were you i'd proceed with caution.
2006-10-03 08:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by caramellatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he STILL was not involved with his "EX" in more ways than one, he would not be (still) shaking up with her. Plus the fact, her mother lives with them. Girl, you are there in his eyes as= distraction, feel-good-potion, self-esteem-boosting, "crisis intervention distraction," BOOTY CALL, etc. The second they work out their issue(s), you will be HISTORY!!! Because, NO MAN WANTS TO BE ALONE!!!!! He is USING you and do not think it is ANY more than that!!!!
2006-10-03 08:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is living with her because he has you on the side and his woman at home. He will never tell her about you until he gets caught. Don't let him use you like that.
2006-10-03 08:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mary C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be innocent but wonder why he hasn't told her about you. Maybe he is trying to keep the peace with her until he gets out of her house. I would give him the benefit of the doubt.
2006-10-03 08:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for some one else because you dont know what he is telling them you shouldnt be kept a secret if you are so important to him
2006-10-03 08:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by raudidave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the girl doesnot need to know and he probably sees it the way too..don't worry that's why she's his ex
2006-10-03 08:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by busybeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be interested in you but if he is still with her then he is probably being close to her if you know what I mean.
2006-10-03 08:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋