Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

Do some of you women who made the mistake of marrying an older man regret it ? Isn't Madonnas first father of her first child a lot younger.Due to his youthfull vigour ? Why aren't more women a smart as she is ? Howcome,women in their 30's-40's aren't into guys in their teens.But, Men in their 30's-50's are ? Or am I wrong ? If so,why don't I see a lot more Older women with younger boys running around.While I see a lot of much older men with a lot of really young girls ?

2006-09-25 17:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by sandwreckoner 4 in Singles & Dating

my fiance & i keeps on arguing about his friends. i don't like them coz they don't influence him right. they drag him to do things (of course, those i don't like) and him, knowing that i would get mad once i get to know about it, tends to lie about it. i've told my fiance thousandth times that i don't like them but he still keep them.
what should i do?

2006-09-25 17:46:17 · 12 answers · asked by enigma 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 17:45:01 · 8 answers · asked by Kelly J 2 in Family

ok, i have about 1 month to basically win the heart of this guy, well, first let me explain, well were on this holiday called "ramadan" n by da end of "Ramadan" its a celebration, n most people go to this amusement park, n My crush will be there, he's never seen my hair b 4, becuz da gurls have 2 wear a scarf(its an islamic school, dont ask, lol) well, i was thinkin about losin sum weight, (i have 2 admit i am atleast 10 pounds over where i wanna b) n getting this cute outfit, n everything, because he knows i like him, but he likes my friend, n he kinda broke my heart(totally different story) but wen he sees me, i want him 2 be like, DANG! i missed out on this, lol, but n e advice, wuts a fast way 2 lose weight(keep in mind im only 13, n my parents wont let me take those weight loss pills) n wuts a cute hairstyle dat i shud use (ex. juss straight down, or wavy, or curly) i kno this maybe a little 2 much 2 ask, but i really like this guy, so please give me advice...THANX

2006-09-25 17:44:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has gotten on the sites that have the local live girls. He has even checked out eharmony. I found this by accident, but when I ask him about it he tells me I am wrong for confronting him and it is driving him crazy. We are just fine as long as I don't ask questions, but that is not what I want in a relationship. I like open and honesty. I would rather know the truth.

2006-09-25 17:44:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you like dating someone of a different race than yourself or someone of the same race of yourself? hows your relationship with that person if youre dating someone of a different race?
my boyfriend is latino and im white. i find it more exciting dating someone who is a different race than me.

2006-09-25 17:44:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 17:43:56 · 4 answers · asked by chinita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 17:43:28 · 16 answers · asked by chinita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should I be worried?=

Ok so today i peeked at my bf (of 3 years) 's email (out of curiosity) + i saw some emails from some girl that I don't know.

Out of dumb curiosity, I open them. Here's what I found:

EMAIL #1, from GIRL:

Hi...

I found your email in my friend's address book, and like a snooper, I looke dyou up on Myspace. I like what I saw.

I'm looking for a guy to hang out and chill with, maybe a couple nights a week. Maybe go on the road on weekends if we get along. Nothing real serious, just fun.

Well, that's all...write back soon, please...


EMAIL #2, from MY BF

hi... how are you and where are you from and how old are you and all that info you have seen me now i got to see you send me a pic at this email well i g2g right back maybe we can hook up

I really don't know what to make of this

Should I be worried? It could be nothing. I've NEVER had any reason to worry about my bf cheating....or anything even CLOSE...for many reasons.

2006-09-25 17:43:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 17:42:23 · 8 answers · asked by Sandi 2 in Singles & Dating

what will you do if you find out?that they both cheated you for a long time?

2006-09-25 17:41:24 · 9 answers · asked by LilyflowerChinne 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the situation. We're both in our mid-30's. We've been dating a month. I accidentally suffocated him with text messages and nagged him. He joked about it but then I think it does irritate him a bit as he doesn't always respond now. I think he fears it will turn into a text-conversation. How do I fix this? I really, really like him. I'm supposed to see him on Friday. I think I should not contact him until he contacts me---even if it means waiting until Friday. But I have a fear (that I must get over) that if we don't have contact, he'll forget about me--yes, another issue I need to work on. I also nagged him a bit too much and asked him (at least 4 times) if he's interested in sleeping with me vs. dating. I think it's because I slept with him too early and am concerned about that. Can I still fix this? How?

2006-09-25 17:40:15 · 22 answers · asked by Jenny J 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 17:40:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently started dating this guy. I have just started my career and he is in grad school. He doesn't work and I would like to go out with him places. Got any ideas of what we can do with a limited budget? I don't mind paying for things, but I won't do it all the time. Plus I don't know if that will hurt his male ego.

2006-09-25 17:38:57 · 28 answers · asked by D City 2 in Singles & Dating

okay i was in bed and heard my parents arguing really loud i then heard that my dad is cheating on my mom i was crying for about an hour and now im on here i cant fall asleep too my dad is a nice guy and i wouldnt picture him doing this but im still so sad help!!!!!!! im thinking tomarrow at school to talk to the guidence counsoler it seems like they are getting a divorce

2006-09-25 17:38:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 17:37:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-25 17:36:33 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to know whether the relation between bani and jai will continue orelse they will be still more seperated from eachother?Why you have shown that bani had got aborted?Idon't think that this turn in the serial is good.

2006-09-25 17:35:59 · 7 answers · asked by raja_ s 1 in Family

2006-09-25 17:35:05 · 17 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Weddings

I started as a very conservative person, marrying when I was only 19. That was a very long time ago. Stayed married and faithful for 15 of the 20 year marriage. I was very straight laced until I began playing music out in bars and getting paid for it. I have no formal training other than a highschool graduate and decided after my youngest child started kindergarten that I would start playing singer/songwriter stuff and try to get paid for it. Well, I met this young guy who claimed that if I listened to him he could manage my carreer and I would go far in my carreer. Eventually we did start sleeping together, I guess here is where I should mention my husband was sleeping around already, and since i hadn't really had sex in probably a year, I got kind of obsessed with the whole thing. Nex thing ya know, I am going through divorce and trying to make it with my new manager. now we are married and he is a very hard person to live with. our morals are not the same. he is a porn fanatic also.

2006-09-25 17:34:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met someone on my work bowling league that I really like and I thought about taking a rose to work with a card to her from a scret admirer. And in doing this I am wondering should I wait longer before I do this and if so how long. Or should I go ahead and do this now and how should I play this as far as should I do anything else or is that enough and how long should I wait before saying anything about being her secret admirer. We have had two nights of bowling on our league. I don't know really know much about her.

2006-09-25 17:34:33 · 14 answers · asked by bucksolutions1 2 in Singles & Dating

A co-worker (female) left him a message today on his cell phone, "Hey Doug it's me".....telling him she still works there (which means he has inquired about it!!) and she see him @ work on Tues. which is tomorrow!!!! what do I do.
I always check his messages to see if he's gotten mine ,and I was surprised to hear another girls message. please help!

2006-09-25 17:33:59 · 18 answers · asked by Jax 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I work weekends and some evenings but married guys are able to get away? My married lover finds time to see me during the day because that's the only time he can, but single guys I meet don't want to meet on any of the evenings I have off, they only want to meet on weekends when I work long hours. Why can't a single man get away from work during the day to meet for lunch or coffee? Are they just not willing to accommodate someone else, is this why they are still single?

2006-09-25 17:33:38 · 14 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if I should be mad about it or not. I'm hurt because it feels like I'm not good enough. On the other hand....I know I probably shouldn't be mad because "it's a guy thing".

Girls - would you be mad?

Guys - why DO you keep those magazines around? My bf says it's "for the articles". That sounds like bullsh.t to me....

2006-09-25 17:33:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

its flattering but what i want to know is why do they prefer this and can people only feel attracted into one race, there own or another, i dont really have a preference but ur thoughts please, cos im surprised these men are incredibly attractive (well to be fair the ones ive seen so far cant really judge yet) they can easily pull who they want, have any of u had similar encounters so be it different races ill love to hear ur thoughts and experiences

2006-09-25 17:32:46 · 9 answers · asked by life 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my girlfriend of two months. We had a pretty close relationship, but there were issues of trust and jelousy from both of us. She is 41 divorced with two children and I am 32 never married and no kids. I wonder now did I make a mistake. She 'melted down' this last Saturday night after we had drinks. The 'melt down' was over her making comments about a woman in the bar who happened to be a friend of mine's wife. I went to say hi to my friend and his wife after I recongnized them. Shortly after we were talking to a friend of her's and we discussing my boat. He made the comment he wanted to get to know anyone with a boat better. I pulled my phone out to show him some pics from the lake, which include women friends of mine, who are just friends. She filpped out and and said to take her hom now. We went back to my house and she collected her things and drover home drunk after I said that was not a smart move. Did I make the right decision? She wants to stay togth

2006-09-25 17:32:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy isn't all about the looks, he's different, not experienced with girls, liked them hasn't had 1 interested back in him. I'm interested in him, 4 about a year, lately I'd say we've been more close. I want to know what signs can I look 4 that he cares 4 me and might want to go out with me and be my boyfriend one day? he's a real good friend but I want him 2 want more from me. if guys aren't so complicated then let me know what are general signs that he's into me

2006-09-25 17:30:58 · 7 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 17:30:43 · 16 answers · asked by Kelly J 2 in Friends

i just came home after having a good time with family and friends to find my cat dead on the floor iam having a hard time with this.... just to let you all readers know i cant handle this bull......

2006-09-25 17:30:29 · 13 answers · asked by diamondrose 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 17:29:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating