Should I be worried?=
Ok so today i peeked at my bf (of 3 years) 's email (out of curiosity) + i saw some emails from some girl that I don't know.
Out of dumb curiosity, I open them. Here's what I found:
EMAIL #1, from GIRL:
Hi...
I found your email in my friend's address book, and like a snooper, I looke dyou up on Myspace. I like what I saw.
I'm looking for a guy to hang out and chill with, maybe a couple nights a week. Maybe go on the road on weekends if we get along. Nothing real serious, just fun.
Well, that's all...write back soon, please...
EMAIL #2, from MY BF
hi... how are you and where are you from and how old are you and all that info you have seen me now i got to see you send me a pic at this email well i g2g right back maybe we can hook up
I really don't know what to make of this
Should I be worried? It could be nothing. I've NEVER had any reason to worry about my bf cheating....or anything even CLOSE...for many reasons.
2006-09-25 17:43:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK, either he is just going along for the fun of it, or if he sees the pic, and likes what he sees, he could act on it!! Its hard to say, you know him better than we do.... Its hard to say with some guys, cuz some can be so dishonest!
I'd say be careful, because this girl sounds like trouble, and is definitely out for exactly what she said... See where things go, if you get to a point where you need to, then tell him your findings.... Either that, or email the b!t@h and tell her to back off!
2006-09-25 17:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it could be nothing. Sounds like though someone recently started looking to get the collection started. Stay on your guard.
There is nothing wrong with snooping if u r concerned about your partner! Noone is just going to say "hey, he is doing this>".
The only other way is hire a private detective.
Wow, I would lay low, keep quiet and snoop.
I checked my b/f computer one night also---a picture popped up--
and the date was on it----this guy was dating me-saying he was going to marry me??? There is an old ugly lady kissing him????
Geez???? If a guy is cheating can not it at least be someone nicer looking than the person cheating on???
Anyway messed up world..........do what u need to....
2006-09-26 01:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by kay w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was wrong to snoop but you had good intentions. I would check this girls myspace out. And then maybe change your boyfriends myspace so that it says taken, maybe leave a message about how much you like him and glad that hes in your life. Make it so that it's obvious he has a girlfriend. But if worse comes to worse....well never admit that you snooped into his email, that breaks trust even if he was cheating.
2006-09-26 00:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by faintmemori_eternalsunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf is up to no good his response should've been along the lines of "I have a gf for the past 3 years and some other information letting this chick know that its not going to ever happen."
2006-09-26 00:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by russ77478 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question him and if he accuses you of invading privacy then just remember you have very right to since you guys have been together for 3 years and if he doesnt have anything to hide then he shouldn't even be getting mad in the first place.
Good Luck
2006-09-26 00:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by native_lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was spam normal for my space. and his response is wrong. He is a cheater. You looked into his e-mail because you had concerns. Stick with your gut. do you plan on having him as your husband? why is he just a BF of 3 years. something isn't right. GET OUT
2006-09-26 00:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by eagle4life69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all. you shouldn't be snooping on his email but i understand sometimes it gets to us and we want to see if our bf is cheating or not.. but it doesnt give u the right to snoop.. if u suspect he is cheating or not... best thing to do is.. talk to him .
and about the emails... i dont like the idea of it... i think you should talk to your boyfriend about this.. he may be upset that you snooped.
"communication/trust is the key in every relationship"
Janella
2006-09-26 01:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually i say snooping is bad because u could find something like what u found
what worries me is the "maybe we can hook up" line i would say calll him from time to time and get him to say ur name and how much he loves u any guy who is not cheatin and loves their girl would do that without hesitation
2006-09-26 00:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you did suspect something and that is why you looked....If I found E-mails like that in my mans E-mail I would consider him thinking about cheating.....have you confronted him? If not just wait and see what happens, don't give him the heads up and bust him in the act.
2006-09-26 00:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by fanofozzyosbourne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY I WOULD OF LOOK TO IF I THOUGH MY MAN WAS CHEATING I HAVE BEEN WITH MY B/F FOROCT. WILL BE 8 MONTH IF I SEEN SOMETHING LIKE THAT I WOULD LEAVE FOR ABOUT A WEEK JUST TO KEEP FORM HURTING HIM REALLY BAD
2006-09-26 00:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋