I met someone on my work bowling league that I really like and I thought about taking a rose to work with a card to her from a scret admirer. And in doing this I am wondering should I wait longer before I do this and if so how long. Or should I go ahead and do this now and how should I play this as far as should I do anything else or is that enough and how long should I wait before saying anything about being her secret admirer. We have had two nights of bowling on our league. I don't know really know much about her.
2006-09-25 17:34:33 · 14 answers · asked by bucksolutions1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-25 17:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This secret admirer stuff can go bad. What if she kinda likes someone else & gets your 'secret admirer' rose, thinking another guy sent it? What if she contacts some other guy over it, only to find out she just made a fool out of herself? What if she thinks its from some other guy she has hoped to date & she contacts him, thinking he sent the rose, thus making herself look like an idiot?
If you go through with this, I suggest you tell her soon after that you are the secret admirer. Be prepared for an answer you didn't see coming. You may get rejected, but hey, taking risks is what dating is about.
2006-09-25 17:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by Bronweyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd try to get to know her when your bowling. use the information she tells you in your secret admirer idea. maybe she'll put two and two together figure out its you possibly not. i've done the admirer a few times i usually did 1-3 SA's ( sercret admirer things ) a week when i did it with a co worker then on the day of revealing i sent her a letter telling her to come to my complex building go to the roof. on the roof i had a table set roses candles and a note addressed to her. i watched till she arrived took the stairs up i followed climbed up my steelwell to the roof behind her very silently or you could of hidden up there. the ending of the poem was " long since i first laid eyes on you ,stole my heart so turn around to see your sweet prince" after that i invited her back to my apartment i cooked dinner we took it up to the roof and ate by the stars. assuming you dont have a roof can put a single red rose a note simply telling her to turn around and be behind her. depends on the woman some really hate secret admirers others love it.
2006-09-25 17:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by sugrdady03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should get to know her alittle bit more, then start flirting, but if she doesn't flirt back after a little bit then shes not interested, but if you start flirting and she just smiles and flirts back then maybe you should after a while of flirting give her the secret admirer rose, maybe put a clue on it that mentions something that you uys have talked about. She might get the hint that it was you because she would remember talking to you about it, but if she doesn't get the hint maybe try doing something else from a secret admirer. See how it goes. Good luck!
2006-09-25 17:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by faintmemori_eternalsunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get caught off guard. Someone else may come along and she may think it is from them. Approch her and ask her out after bowling if it is not really late. Small talk with her during bowling to find out a little more about her (married, BF, living with someone, etc...). Don't wait too long, it's going to cold soon and all of the good ones will be taken. Good luck!!
2006-09-25 17:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by fijisun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you barely know her then you should just man-up and ask her out.
If you are going to go the route of giving her a rose and a card, write your name and then cross it out, but make sure it is still legible and then write secret admirer next to it. Hopefully that made sense.
2006-09-25 17:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by Trust me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 02:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by ganiban 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we women love intrigue and as long as your not stalker dude its okay she might need alittle excitement in her life wait a minute before you let her know its you strike (no pun intended) a conversation with her see if you have anything in common send her a bunch of roses like a dozen and invite her to a public place for lunch if she comes that's great you guys might hit it off if she comes and dosent like you never show your face at bowling again people will think your creepy
2006-09-25 17:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women love secret admirer stuff. Give the rose, write a note, string her along a few weeks and she will be putty in your hands.
Very romantic!
2006-09-25 17:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Skip the theatrics. Seize the day!
2006-09-25 17:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋