I work weekends and some evenings but married guys are able to get away? My married lover finds time to see me during the day because that's the only time he can, but single guys I meet don't want to meet on any of the evenings I have off, they only want to meet on weekends when I work long hours. Why can't a single man get away from work during the day to meet for lunch or coffee? Are they just not willing to accommodate someone else, is this why they are still single?
2006-09-25 17:33:38 · 14 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
correction, MY schedule
2006-09-25 17:34:31 · update #1
Believe me if I could find a single guy who would make time for me, I would stop seeing the married guy, but I haven't seen that yet.
2006-09-25 17:40:16 · update #2
In my 20's, I worked weekends and evenings too. It is terrible for your social life. Can't you get a regular job? That would help you so much. Sad to say, I also had a married lover for a time back then. Besides being immoral, it is a terrible trap. It certainly brought a nightmare of troubles and heartaches to my life.
With a single guy you have a chance for a future. If you fall in love with each other, you can get married and have children. That may not be important to you now, but it will in the future. You will only fall in love with someone you are dating. If you fall in love with a married man, what a mess!
Marriages are so hard to make work and last. Why make it harder by falling in love with someone who has such baggage?
2006-09-25 17:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe the single guys are making up excuses because they don't want to see a chick who's screwing married men. Just a thought...
2006-09-26 00:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, they do not like commitment, the guys you are attracted to. Why are you with a married lover anyways? I would like an explanation for that. Maybe it is the way you approach them, you are too shy or outgoing, guys are easily intimidated.
2006-09-26 00:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Norah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it means there not that interested in you to put effort int o you like that, the married guys are intersted and want what you give them. the singles are just being players and are playing the field. Keep the married guy around up until you snag a single one for yourself.
2006-09-26 00:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by chula1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
married guys see you as side meat single guys they are lose and free and dont care thats why they are single
2006-09-26 00:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by captain ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not attract for the single guys...
married lover meet you because they may just felt boring with their wife...
2006-09-26 00:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by Pessimist 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I couldn't read past your 2nd sentence .. you are a FLOOZY
How would you like it if you were married and some chick was sleeping with your husband?
GET A LIFE !
2006-09-26 00:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Email me and let me know where you are from. If you are near by I am sure I can make time for you.
2006-09-26 00:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will answer this,
But I can't do it right now.
Check back with me this weekend when I have more time.
2006-09-26 00:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you just need to find the right man..
the right one is out there....
keep looking...
2006-09-26 00:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jason S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋