Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

what do i do to keep a man

2006-09-23 04:48:42 · 15 answers · asked by lulu m 1 in Singles & Dating

My uncle and I had sex once and we got caught by one of my aunts. She told everyone in my family and now nobody talks to me. I'm completely mortified. how can I change this ?

2006-09-23 04:48:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've never been married; when I met my bf I didn't know anything about his past and after 2 months of our relationship he told me his story that he had been married for more than 10 years and have 3 children! We love eachother and we enjoy of being together; but sometime I worry about our future life becuase of his past life and his children.

2006-09-23 04:48:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 04:48:08 · 5 answers · asked by veet t 1 in Friends

Has had certain numbers blocked from my phone???????????I just realized i can no longer text message people anymore??????she said she cancelled it?Or should i just ask her about it?I really do not tryst her though i use verizon and my friend said it would come up as a blocked call? can i call up someone in the company and ask?

2006-09-23 04:47:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it normal?

2006-09-23 04:46:19 · 50 answers · asked by Garmonbozia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

whats the best present you can get your girlfriend or wife?????

2006-09-23 04:45:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 3 litte sisters ranging from 6-14 years old, and twin two year old brothers. The problem is my mother was sick of being a mother when my 12 year old sister was about 4 so I end up taking up the slack. She just can't handle it anymore. The question I have though, is after I graduate highschool at the end of this year should I stay in house for a while and help her take care of my sibling or should I go to college and stuff like I planned?
P.S. It's not for her, its for my brothers and sisters cause if it's left up to her she just yells.

2006-09-23 04:45:16 · 9 answers · asked by motoprincess16 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi im a mom of four boys been there primary care taker for 10 1/2 yrs.there ages are 16 14 13 my oldest is now 18 .

ok i was only recieving 50 aweek in support for four boys cause when he left he said if i would sue him for support he would give up his rights well i didnt know he couldnt do that so he said he would give me 50 aweek i said fine as long as you see your boys.

well one day he grabs his son by the throat hurts him so the two little ones decided they didnt want to see their dad anymore .yes i reported the incident to the doctors ,school counsler and women in crisis i should have called the police and children and youth .

so when the kids stopped going he stopped his support so i sued him then he sued me...

he never wanted theses kids before he only had them on his ordered weekends he was suppose to take them every wednesday but dropped wednesdays cause he said it was too much ..i had them boys all the time did everything took them to all there appts.

Additional Details

4 days ago
so i finally sued him for full support now he wants to take my sons . i am a good mom i dont do drugs i dont go out party i am a full time mom ...here for my sons all the time .
everytime i use to ask him to help me with something for the boys he would tell me i have plans ...or if i would have to run our sons to the er cause they got hurt in sports
he is like oh just call me and let me know what happens you know what after a while you dont bother.

he got married a second time to a great lady they had a son together then he bagged her to get pregnant again and walked out on her one nite to go to a bar and never came home.so she called me crying and scared thinking he was dead ..he wasnt dead he was with another women he was shacking up with her so he left his second wife with a 2 yr old boy and 5 months pregant ...it seems to me he isnt a family man left two families already.

now he is with this women and her kids in a 2 bedroom home her kids are 1o and 5

4 days ago
the 10 yr old has his own bedroom the 5 yr old girl sleeps in with my ex and his gf and then when he gets his kids from wife number two there also in the room wit the ex and his gf and when our sons go there on the floor in the living room no beds for my kids .nice isnt it.

now we are going thru a custody battle ,,,,we are going to have a home evaluation soon i hope.

i do everything i can for my sons i take them to all there docs,dentist,everything

he never ever took them to anything .

when my son would get hurt in his care he would wait till the kids came home and had me take him to the doctor.

then when we were at the court house for support the lady got mad at him cause here he had insurance for my sons and never told me nor gave me the cards for my sons.

she is like you never gave your ex the med cards he said no ...she is like you never took your sons to any apptments he said no that is her job she has custody and the lady said its your job to provide medicial

4 days ago
he is something that upset me this past sunday my 13 yr old walked up to the football field where his dad was coaches other kids at a game ,,he was suppose to keep the boys till 2pm dropped them off at 1130 cause he had football which he didnt spend anytime with them all weekend ,


but anyway my son was at the game went up to his dad and said dad can i have money for a drink and something to eat his dad looked at his watch and said its after 2 pm you are no longer my responsibility,
i couldnt believe he said that to him since when is there a time period for your kids there my responsibility 24/7 no matter if there with there dad or not,i would give him the last of all my money ....that really made me angry .i told my son he should have came home to eat something or money the football field is only like 5 blocks from where we live.i just couldnt believe he said that my 13 yr old told me this i was in shock .he said to me dont worry mom i will remember what he said.

4 days ago
my question is can someone who has taken good care of her kids for 10 1/2 yrs lose them .i dont do drugs ,i dont beat my sons ,i feed them clothed them and take care of them 24 /7 .go to school meetings always talking to guidance counslers doing this there whole lives....i lived on my own for 9 1/2 yrs raising the boys just moved in with my fiance last year been with him 10 1/2 yrs him and only him ...if you are wondering why we waited so long is cause my kids were my focus and they are whats important i wanted to take care of my boys on my own and not put it on someone else but the boys and i talked about it and we all decided we were ready to live together with my fiance ,they call him there step dad cause he was always there for him i mean they call him by his first name not dad ..

they have a dad i guess if you want to call him that ,,sorry i am just upset and angry

2006-09-23 04:44:42 · 3 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1 in Family

he can not have babys ,and i want them . we got togather when i was 15 im now 22 and he is 43 . i am at the point i cant even stand to go home. he is very jealous, and controlling.he tells me i cant to better even if i try . accuses me of sleeping with people while i am at school(COLLEGE) i have now anly been with three people in my life . one before him , him and now 6 years later another man , and i have gotten pregnant ( ITS TRUE< it only takes one time) He is mental abusive and treats me as if i am a child . WHAT WOULD YOU DO ? tell him and stay or leave and dont say a thing .

2006-09-23 04:44:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

help please so last time my friend pushed me on him n well yeah he didn have a good look on his face wich has me worrried

2006-09-23 04:43:42 · 6 answers · asked by elizabeth 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 04:42:57 · 3 answers · asked by Dayandnight 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay 1 is really nice he calls me before work showering eating walking his dog and after all that. #2 guy calls me but not that much as #1 but he does get me things as a surprise and sits with me at lunch and walks me plces. #3 guy tells me he loves me and that he wants to be with me and marry but they all that and he takes me out to dates when ever he has a break. Who should i choose? Help me please help me.PLEASE!

2006-09-23 04:41:40 · 16 answers · asked by ¤мαяînзz Gîяℓ¤ 2 in Singles & Dating

A few years back my husband was caught in a lie by me. He claimed he was visiting a friend in the hospital that was injured at his work. He kept visiting each day for a short while. I decided to call and ask his supervisor for the name of his friend that was injured so I could send a fruit basket to the hospital. The supervisor laughed so hard and told me that never happened to anyone at the company. I confronted my husband and he admitted he wasn't telling the truth. To this day though I will never get a complete confession out of him of who he's been with. He refuses to even talk about it. Did I mention he told me he was visiting this so called friend at the hospital my father past away in. What do you make of this and how do I get passed it. My son tells me he's heard him talk to someone on the phone that sounded like he was talking to another woman also. My husband totally denies it. This happened about 3 yrs ago.

2006-09-23 04:40:21 · 22 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 04:40:07 · 8 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 04:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by buddy s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have to drive miles and the wife of this friend is loud and obnoxious. I don't enjoy these visits and they're always drinking. I'm an alcoholic and this makes me want to get blotto. He sulks or worse if I don't hide my feelings.

2006-09-23 04:38:01 · 11 answers · asked by restraining order 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 04:37:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For those who answered my last question about how fake can a friend get. Help me out with this one? Lataja has been so fake I decided to let her go. She's mad and said she was never involved with the other girls at all. Now she is telling people lies about me. And tells them other things too. So now everyone is aganist me. What do you think she told them?Should I just ignore her?What to do I'm clueless?????

2006-09-23 04:37:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Everyone thinks im a bch and i dont know why one minute there like "awwww we are soooooo best friends" and the next there like what-ev
what do i do?

2006-09-23 04:36:47 · 4 answers · asked by JPUP 1 in Friends

this guy named mario is in my p.e class and he's in 7th grade and he has a girlfriend and he's always starring at me and i do like . do you think i should forget about him or keep on trying.

2006-09-23 04:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i would like ur opiniom on this...guys only....

2006-09-23 04:36:16 · 5 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi there:
Since this is online, I there can initialize this question. The question is stated as follows. I still like to
see nude women even when I have a girlfriend. And sometimes, even want to screw them. I do not like this feeling and want to ask around if someone can explain this to me and provide some possible solution.
Thanks/

2006-09-23 04:36:14 · 10 answers · asked by cat_ca 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I Have been unfaithful many times to my wife and past girlfriends.
but I can't just break it off with the one that I'm cheating on them with. Think of all the blood and pain I would suffer if I just chopped it off What should I do ?

2006-09-23 04:35:37 · 15 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 04:34:09 · 7 answers · asked by buddy s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My significant's daughter just quit her job due to some negative comments made by her boss. My advise to her was to confront and face the reality and take corrective actions. Instead now she wants to work for her future husband who as offered her a $ 400 a week job working in his restaurant. I am not sure if this arrangment is formal or otherwise.Is this a smart move leaving a career to working for him ?. What are the pit falls ? Did she do the right thing ?. Your opinions please.

2006-09-23 04:33:45 · 11 answers · asked by US 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like for him or myself to tell him to f**k off and not call any more. My boyfreind says he is not interested, but will not say anything to him.

2006-09-23 04:32:57 · 9 answers · asked by debrasu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Whenever my mom takes me to get a cricket box fitted she makes me take off all my clothes.Then she makes me lie on a coush so she can slide it on my penis.But I don't want her to see me naked.I say that then she says if you don't take all your clothes right off now I'm going to spank you.

2006-09-23 04:32:54 · 9 answers · asked by Chris S 1 in Family

I really don't have much luck with girls in my school but then when i go away like camping or to a hotel i can pick up mostly any girl I want. I just wonder why all the girls in my school don't like me. I am not a jerk, I am usually kind of shy and I am obviously not that ugly because I can get any girl outside of school.

2006-09-23 04:32:14 · 15 answers · asked by Red Sox fan 1 in Singles & Dating

Divide the guy's age by 2 ,then add 7. i.e. a guy with the age 40 is suitable for a girl age 27.
40 divided by 2 = 20 + 7 = 27
30 divided by 2 = 15 + 7 = 22
They say 90% of relations succeed with this difference in age.
Agree or diagree ?

2006-09-23 04:32:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating