Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

I'm at my wits end here. Does anybody have any suggestions for me because I'm at a loss here. We both live in two different stat es. She has both ovarian cancer & HPV; she's taken chemotherapy for the ovarian cancer but the meds make her feel drained and terrible. I feel so helpless, yet I wanna help her but without knowledge & money what can I do?

2006-09-23 05:34:51 · 9 answers · asked by warriorpoet72002 2 in Singles & Dating

i called my crush this summer. i asked him if he liked me. he said "as a friend". he told everyone that i called him. thats not very "friendly" how do i get my mind off of it?

2006-09-23 05:33:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just write whatever u want and share with others the grand secret.

2006-09-23 05:33:22 · 12 answers · asked by Justin Case 1 in Singles & Dating

I was raised by a very Italian man whose name would have been Salvatore Cannizzo and he will be remembered as such in my eyes. He was a good father, excellent provider and a good businessman. Hence, he influences me everyday and when I work, I can hear him. As a family, we owned and operated an Italian Restaurant in Homestead Florida in the 80's. I grew up in Homestead Florida, where hurricane Andrew obliterated my home town neiborhood (I wasnt' there when it happened). In Florida, I learned to like the beach, oysters, Jimmy Buffet, and lots of swimming. If I had stayed in Florida, I would have turned into a dope-smokin, mango eatin, deep-sea fishin, scuba-divin, hammock sleepin parrothead. I was good at track in high school and ran the hurdles. My good father is poor and lives somewhere in rural Okeechobbee. My good mother is semi-quasi rich and own a million dollar home in Urban Orlando. With all that I experienced in Florida, living in Montana has really taught me to appricate a nice weather day when it happens. I have typical generation x values: I distrust big institutions that I don't know about, I don't like living by too many rules, I am a non-conformist, I don't like it when people wear the same clothes as me, I did (at one point as a teenager) have an identity crisis. I reject status, money and social climbing so typical of baby-boomers. I personally only want what I want out of life and since luxury is alot cheaper, I only have to worry about having fun at work and enjoying what I do. I put a higher priority on happiness. I HATE lables. I can't stand them. I definetely embrace risk and I am highly independent, sometimes aloof. It has been said that I lack interpersonal skills but that maybe because I do from time to time. I place a high priority on parenting and I think I might have overindulged my children. Oh, Well, I'll work on that. Im not a work-a-holic but I do try to work hard if I really want something.
Who I'd like to meet:
If you like pina-coladas, and gettin' caught in the rain, if your not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain, if you like makin' love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape, I'm the love that you looked for....write to me and escape. Yes, I like pina-coladas, and gettin' caught in the rain, I'm not much into health food, I am into champaign, I got to meet you by tommorrow noon, at the bar in O'Mallys, where we will plan our escape

2006-09-23 05:32:36 · 7 answers · asked by Jeff W 3 in Friends

I love him so much two weeks ago he broke up with me and this week i told some of my friends to go ask him if he still likes me and if he misses me and why he broke up w/ me...my friends told me he does miss me he does still like me and he didn't like when i flirted with guys. then the next day my friend told me he said he was going to ask me out this week or next week because he wasnt ready for a realationship...?i had no idea what that meant so now im waiting...but also after school on another day my friend was talking to him again and he told her that he does want to go out with me but he said how is he supposed to trust me... but its only flirting nothing really serious i really like him a lot he seems a lot more happier since the day my friends went up to him he smiles a lot more and yesterday he kept on staring at me at the bus stop.... how can i show him he can trust me i have tried to stop talking to guys what else should i do plz help!!!!!

2006-09-23 05:32:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 05:31:41 · 15 answers · asked by veet t 1 in Friends

Please don't write alcohol or pot -

2006-09-23 05:31:41 · 9 answers · asked by weswe 5 in Family

what do i do when all i think about is my boyfriend, we've been going out for a year and my mom says i have to much of a one track mind what do i do?

2006-09-23 05:31:09 · 5 answers · asked by ~_Jillian_~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I was raised by a very Italian man whose name would have been Salvatore Cannizzo and he will be remembered as such in my eyes. He was a good father, excellent provider and a good businessman. Hence, he influences me everyday and when I work, I can hear him. As a family, we owned and operated an Italian Restaurant in Homestead Florida in the 80's. I grew up in Homestead Florida, where hurricane Andrew obliterated my home town neiborhood (I wasnt' there when it happened). In Florida, I learned to like the beach, oysters, Jimmy Buffet, and lots of swimming. If I had stayed in Florida, I would have turned into a dope-smokin, mango eatin, deep-sea fishin, scuba-divin, hammock sleepin parrothead. I was good at track in high school and ran the hurdles. My good father is poor and lives somewhere in rural Okeechobbee. My good mother is semi-quasi rich and own a million dollar home in Urban Orlando. With all that I experienced in Florida, living in Montana has really taught me to appricate a nice weather day when it happens. I have typical generation x values: I distrust big institutions that I don't know about, I don't like living by too many rules, I am a non-conformist, I don't like it when people wear the same clothes as me, I did (at one point as a teenager) have an identity crisis. I reject status, money and social climbing so typical of baby-boomers. I personally only want what I want out of life and since luxury is alot cheaper, I only have to worry about having fun at work and enjoying what I do. I put a higher priority on happiness. I HATE lables. I can't stand them. I definetely embrace risk and I am highly independent, sometimes aloof. It has been said that I lack interpersonal skills but that maybe because I do from time to time. I place a high priority on parenting and I think I might have overindulged my children. Oh, Well, I'll work on that. Im not a work-a-holic but I do try to work hard if I really want something.
Who I'd like to meet:
If you like pina-coladas, and gettin' caught in the rain, if your not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain, if you like makin' love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape, I'm the love that you looked for....write to me and escape. Yes, I like pina-coladas, and gettin' caught in the rain, I'm not much into health food, I am into champaign, I got to meet you by tommorrow noon, at the bar in O'Mallys, where we will plan our escape

2006-09-23 05:30:42 · 8 answers · asked by Jeff W 3 in Friends

What do you think of tattoos on women? And to what extent can she be tattooed before it's a turn off?

2006-09-23 05:30:36 · 13 answers · asked by Genevieve 3 in Singles & Dating

got to go now
love you
if i could
i would.....
but i cant
because
doesnt matter
bye

this was on an msn conversation so that could be a factor why he said that to me - usually he's just a joker

A lot of you interpreted this as him trying to say that he has fallen for me

But i was thinking, maybe it meant he was trying to make fun of me, like saying he couldnt because im too ugly or something!! Because usually he does say things like "you're fat" just to make me get worked up, but uaully he just says "laters" when he's leaving.

He's single but i've got a b/f - and i already asked him what he meant when he said that and he just replied shortly "i forgot"....so what am i meant to do now?

2006-09-23 05:30:17 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

My wife and I love to sit down for quality time by playing cards, or trivia games, we love our board games, football, college basketball, and crosswords, and we love to watch Jeopardy! So, what are your favorite ways to be close to each other?

2006-09-23 05:28:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 05:28:28 · 13 answers · asked by su 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering since this is an anonymous place how many people over 30 men or women tehre are and why are you still a virgin if you are... scared?? ..waiting for marraige.. havent found the one who "does for you yet" u know the the right one.. cant find anybody who will..not intosex.. what????

2006-09-23 05:28:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so there's this guy who always looks at me and stares at me and obviously seems to be attracted. Well I don't feel the same way...and yesterday i saw him at this meeting and it was at the end of the meeting and he started walking towards me ( i just flat out ignored him..i kinda feel bad) and than he kinda seemed to hesitate so he quickly pulls out his cell phone and he's talking to someone...well then a little later he gets off and i happen to be walking in his direction to go talk to someone and he he kinda looked around at me and he seemed to think I was coming over to him.
I feel kinda bad for the way i'm acting cus even though i don't attracted right now, if i really got to know him i'm sure i would fall for him.
So what did you think about what he did and what do you think he was going to say to me?

2006-09-23 05:28:10 · 10 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Singles & Dating

People seem to depend on the government and their employers more and depend on family less.

2006-09-23 05:27:16 · 13 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Marriage & Divorce

he gets into a lot of trouble at school but he doesn't seem to care, it was the school whom asked me to get him tested for it although i had my own thoughts that there is something wrong.the psychologist just say he is a bit hyperactive but im extremely worried that he is going to end up in real trouble if i cant find the right help soon.what can i do to help him before this happens,i'm really worried he's going to end up in a residential school and talkin to him is not working!!

2006-09-23 05:27:03 · 4 answers · asked by lisa m 1 in Family

so , are u all here to help me with my emotional problems? haha. ok, so yesterday at recess, these "so called friends:" of mine weretelling me everything that they didnt like about me, and they siad this was the reason i couldn't get a guy. after, when i was alone, ii started cryin, and tehn i headed to my next class. we were workin on a project together, and she was ignoring me, so i asked whats wrong..and she said that she was mad at me cause i cried, then she said, katie, I HATE ppl ho cry, i HATE them. u were never really my friend (she called me her bff for goopdness sakes)...were goin to the movies today with a whole bunch of ppl, i wanna show her i can lvie without her...and tehn shes all over this guy, shes trying to persuade him to not talk to me...and hes really nice...etc...GUys!!! what should i do bout the guy,a dn what should i wear. my atitude is already to deal with this crap, what should i wear say. my mind is so in to showing her, that i am FULLY capale of doin stufso?

2006-09-23 05:26:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm a senior in Highschool. There is a guy i go to school with who is so amazing but he's a sophmore. Is it totally wierd and inapropriate for a girl to date a guy that much younger than her?

2006-09-23 05:25:37 · 36 answers · asked by Ophelia19 1 in Singles & Dating

my second cousin is getting married she has 2 kids and already lives with him,theyve been living together for awhile now,but my question is what is a good gift for them,they are still young like 21 or 22 yrs old any ideas would help

2006-09-23 05:25:33 · 14 answers · asked by alwayssmiling 2 in Weddings

What is the best way a girl can approach you let you know that she loves you? Just one way, that if she does it (or did/has) that makes your heart melt and you just melt lke puddy into her. Please help!

2006-09-23 05:24:02 · 8 answers · asked by iLoveHugs 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my partner a month a 2 weeks ago and we only went out for four months and a half. I can't seem to forget him. What can I do to not think of this person?

2006-09-23 05:23:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the last time i had a girl friend was a little over a year ago scence i graduated high school it seemed so easy in high school to get a girl but its so hard now its like i lost my mojo douse any one know how to help

2006-09-23 05:22:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to love looking at porn, but when my husband went to Iraq I discovered some disturbing things on his computer. I found out he was paying for porn and looking at it while i was asleep. I also found out that he had "forgotton to remove himself from several online dating sites even though we were together for two years. When i realized he had saved pictures in his folder of nude women but none of me i was crushed. He says he doesn't chat or look at webcams but I cant seem to trust that when i have found webcam files on his computer. This drives me insane when i have alone time and cant resist checking his computer. He gets insanely mad when i do and has password protected it. How do I make him understand that I know when he lies to me and I wonder sometimes to what extent? The thing is, I used to share my porn with him, we have made videos but he never watches them or looks at my "sexy" pics, how can i not be hurt? What can i do online without crossing the line to make him feel me?

2006-09-23 05:21:07 · 27 answers · asked by wise red pheonix 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've seen countless friends and family get married and most of them say that their mates changed for the worst. The men say the women start getting comfortable and going to bed looking as unsexy as they can possibly look every night, they say they start gaining a lot of weight and not try to loose it and they say they start nagging and being control freaks which eventually turns the man off and makes him want to go out and cheat. The women say the men become unromantic, they start not taking care of themselves and they start being slobs which makes them want to go ou tand cheat. All of these marriages started off good and they both remember what it was that attracted them to that person and vise versa.

I've never been married but I have been in serious long term relationships before and I have always remained constant with my sexiness and behavior. Why is it so difficult to keep that attraction going in a marriage and be what you were when you started dating that person?

2006-09-23 05:19:13 · 10 answers · asked by chocolatebabycakes 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We are going to be sending our wedding invitations out soon and want to know how we should broach the subject of receiving wedding gifts and having a list. I have received inserts with the wedding invitation from friends where they have said that a gift is not expected but if you would like to give one please selct from our lsit held at e.g. John Lewis. Advise on the wording to use would be greatefully received.

2006-09-23 05:18:36 · 25 answers · asked by Kelsey J 1 in Weddings

2006-09-23 05:17:43 · 7 answers · asked by crzyCtrpllr 1 in Singles & Dating

I am friends with a lesbian couple,we were best friends actually, then i moved to the eastern cape,now we are just friendds, one night the 3 of us gos extremely drunk, and we had a 3sum, i know im not gay and i dont have a problem with gay woman, nothing ever happend after that, except for Crystal she fell inlove with me, i told her how i felt, but it's as if she just ignore's what i say... Two nights ago she phoned me crying saying that she loves me and wants to be with me, i told her that i am straight, but she is still calling me her "baby". I know it was stupid to have the 3sum in the first place, and it's proberly my doing, i dont want to loose her friendship, but i dont want a relationship with her... How can i make her understand that?

2006-09-23 05:17:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend was in front of me the other day talking to his friend about these other girls he goes to school with and how hot they are. I got really upset because I feel like I am not pretty enough for him. I also cut myself, and ever since he said that I have totally snapped and basically butchered my ankle. He knows how I feel, but I was wondering, if a guy talks like that should a girl take it personal, or was he just stupid for saying that, especially in front of me.

2006-09-23 05:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by italianbaby 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you believe in loving someone just because you are in love with them. Do you think that in a world where everyone is cheating on everyone and people think of marriages as long term dating with the possibility of divorce as a backup plan that it is possible to live "Happily ever after"?

2006-09-23 05:17:01 · 17 answers · asked by Alexia S 2 in Marriage & Divorce