I am friends with a lesbian couple,we were best friends actually, then i moved to the eastern cape,now we are just friendds, one night the 3 of us gos extremely drunk, and we had a 3sum, i know im not gay and i dont have a problem with gay woman, nothing ever happend after that, except for Crystal she fell inlove with me, i told her how i felt, but it's as if she just ignore's what i say... Two nights ago she phoned me crying saying that she loves me and wants to be with me, i told her that i am straight, but she is still calling me her "baby". I know it was stupid to have the 3sum in the first place, and it's proberly my doing, i dont want to loose her friendship, but i dont want a relationship with her... How can i make her understand that?
2006-09-23 05:17:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell her straight out that you're not a lesbian.. unless you are and refuse to admit it.
2006-09-23 10:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Trinity♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL first of all it is your fault.. if you believe you are not gay.. then why did you engage in the threesome. low morals? curiosity...stupidity. you may not be a lesbian but that was a lesbian act. what about telling her... that you are not only NOT GAY..but you do not intend to take part in hurting the other friend. who also deserves what she gets for allowing you into her bed with her lover. sometimes we use drinking as an excuse for things we really want to do. other times alcohol and drugs take away our wits and inhibitions. that is why you should drink socially or not at all..and stay away from drugs. if i was a betting person.. i would put money on you doing this again. sorry but as the saying goes.. if you lie down with dogs ..you come up with fleas. you are living on the edge.. when you do not control your actions.
2006-09-23 05:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you're not straight. You're bi.
You need to keep yourself away from this person. Continuing any sort of relationship with her, including friendship, will only send her the wrong message.
That's why you never sleep with your friends. Male or female.
2006-09-23 05:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to keep telling her over and over that you aren't a lesbian...eventually, (hopefully) she will stop bugging you about it. Until then, just make sure you are nice about the whole situation.
2006-09-23 05:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with her for about a week and then tell her its not working out.
2006-09-23 05:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Leah k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat her the same way you would if it were a guy. if she keeps bugging you then you got a stalker.
2006-09-23 05:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by desert_kats 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,for one thing,don't lick her p*ssy anymore!
2006-09-23 05:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it again, bring extra beer.
2006-09-23 05:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel.
2006-09-23 05:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋