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i called my crush this summer. i asked him if he liked me. he said "as a friend". he told everyone that i called him. thats not very "friendly" how do i get my mind off of it?

2006-09-23 05:33:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Hi there, you did the right thing by calling him- you had to try & see how he felt about you.When he said he liked you as a "friend" that was his nice way of saying he didn't want a relationship. You know it really hurts when you love someone & they don't love you back, but you have to let him go & get over him- love is a choice that two people must make not one -that can be heartbreaking but you have to move on & look for a new love..There is nothing wrong with you ,it just means that he wasn't the one ,as much as you would have liked him to be.So make a decision to start over & look for that special guy who will love you totally - because you're special & you deserve someone who is devoted to you with all their heart & when that happens you'll be so glad... because love is a journey.. this isn't the end but a new beginning!.... I'm wishing the best for you ,ok? bye bye & good luck

2006-09-23 06:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0 0

A long time ago, when I was in junior high (not saying you are), but a friend of mine had this boyfriend. One day they kissed at her house. He had just popped a mint, and she told him that the kiss tasted good. Well, the next day, I guess he told a few people, and she got all ticked off, and told a bunch of people why she got ticked off. So basically, she is the one that told everyone.

My suggestion to you, hold up to what you did. Most girls don't have the nerve to call the boy they like. Nice work, even though it didn't work out the way you planned. At least you know, and can start to move on. And, you should feel good that he told a couple of people that you called him. He is trying to be the man! Own up to it girl, you did something that a lot of girls can't do even in their twenties. I am proud!

2006-09-23 05:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 4 · 0 0

Always avoid anything painful if you can. Don't ever again leave yourself open like that. Always let him be the first one to say if he wants to be friends or something more. Get busy during the summer. Work out, run, jog. Surround yourself with people who are going somewhere and who will not be defeated by small minded people who should never should have been in your space in the first place. He will realize his mistake later in life because it will take his small mind that long to realize what he did wrong. You on the other hand are way too smart to fall for this again. Aren't you?

2006-09-23 05:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ardessa S 2 · 0 0

My personal philosophy on "friendship with a girl" is she better be married other wise nope. and I work with woman all day.

There is a reason for that. You are not in love, You are obsess with the ideal of love. be it with this guy or next. In another word you just have the "break up blues", Go out with some friends, meet some people and start dating as soon as possible.

And Don't talk to this guy no matter what. If it is over IT'S OVER.

2006-09-23 05:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0 0

Well, first of all, you need to confront him about going around telling everybody that you called him---that was nobody else's business. Then, you move on with your life and look (or not), for someone that's more worthy of your heart, OK? By your crush's actions, that should be a clear red flag in your mind that he's not "The One." May God bless you.

2006-09-23 05:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by warriorpoet72002 2 · 0 0

yes, absolutely that's not good on the part of your crusher. so now do you want to leave him . i think that if you r angry with him and want to forget him then, the best thing to do is to move away from him -- don't go to the places where he goes , avoid to be in that company. this was one side & now the next side of your situation . look humans only make mistakes & it is very good if you forgive him. if you really like him then start doing things which interests him and do things which makes him happy.
i'm sure he will start liking you as a "girlfriend/ life partner".

now it is up to you to decide what to do.
think from your heart & not from your brain.

best of luck!

2006-09-23 05:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by beautiful babe 2 · 0 0

Don't worry about it he probably wasn't special anyway.Just think of him missing out on a good thing,you should tell him to get it off your chest and find somone else,there's plenty fish in the sea Good Luck:)

2006-09-23 05:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Hispanic Rose687 1 · 0 0

Forget about him.He is not a mature man .He has not a clue,about how to deal and how to treat a lady like you.If he can not deal with you as a gentleman,he can not deal with nobody (women).Forget about him,he does not deserve you waste time thinking in that bad moment.Be happy,life is going on,smile.Have a nice weekend,God bless you.

2006-09-23 05:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0 0

Who cares if you called him, if anyone says anything to you say, yeah so what? Obviously you guys weren't meant for each other. I know how hard it is though, I have been through similar situations. Just keep looking for other guys, there are plenty out there

2006-09-23 05:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by italianbaby 2 · 0 0

Okay best thing to do is find someone who can keep secrets and second find someone else. Obviously he doesn't like you even as a friend because if he did he wouldn't have told anyone or anything.

2006-09-23 05:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by ¤мαяînзz Gîяℓ¤ 2 · 0 0

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