the last time i had a girl friend was a little over a year ago scence i graduated high school it seemed so easy in high school to get a girl but its so hard now its like i lost my mojo douse any one know how to help
2006-09-23 05:22:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your THAT desprite i guess u can go to an online dating service or something. but if you like doing it the old fashion way have u ever heard of a place called oh i don't know THE MALL!!!!!!!!!!!! that is a girl's sanctuary dude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dum dum
2006-09-23 05:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by genius13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be out there looking and making a big deal of it. it always has a way of finding you when you least expect it. dwelling on it, and trying to make it happen, will just make it take a lot longer. girls can tell when a guy is trying to hard and will run from that every time. love just happens, not something you have any control over.
2006-09-23 05:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by metalman269 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enroll in community college, and take as big a load as you can. You'll find girls there who did not get married right out of HS.
It'll be a better selection, too!
If you don't find someone there, then go on to a 4 yr college. Lots of girls there.
2006-09-23 05:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of hobbies do you have? Spend time on the things you like to do and you will meet people with similar interests. If you just go bar hopping, you are most likely to meet people who want to party, not those who want commitment. Good luck.
2006-09-23 05:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are more selective the older the get. they want a partner..that is educated;;; with position goals... and future. some are too busy making their own career to be bothered with dating at the moment. so you have to come to the table,... with a whole lot more to offer. also... the dance scene and bars.. are not as popular for finding mates.. women and men are looking for partners at board meetings.. and other places of that caliber. keep trying.,. in the meantime.. keep improving you.
2006-09-23 05:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go out with some friends, that should help. When you go places you tend to meet more people. Perhaps as you finished high school you dont seem to want to go out. I know that feeling but go out, throw a small party, go to a dance, theatre etc
anything to get out of the house.
2006-09-23 05:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to go out and mingle,from your job to night life but make sure you go to the right places you have not lost it ,it is still with you just learn to use it in a different way, the Lady's out here are not the same as school girls word respect
2006-09-23 05:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by mensert 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking like a kid in high school might help.
2006-09-23 05:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by brenda c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are trying to hard. dude give it time. when the time is right. you will find a good girl. dont rush enjoyed life ok. good luck.
2006-09-23 05:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things come to you, but if you see someone you like - go for it without fear.
2006-09-23 05:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋