guys....what do u look for in us girls? and how can we make u feel more comfortable?

Question

i would like ur opiniom on this...guys only....

Answer 1

i look for the heart and what she is like about herself and others
if you are the one that touch the right spot in me then i know thats the girl for me and i hope that i do the same with her and to make us feel comfortable you all ready do!!!!

Answer 2

My first thing to look for is if she has a personal relationship with Jesus. Her spiritual side would be the most important part of our lives. If I knew she wasn't going to Heaven with me, then I couldn't go on with the relationship (Bible writers said not to marry unbelievers.). If she would become a believer, then we could go on from there.

The second thing is personality. There is a saying, "Beauty is only skin deep, but ugliness goes straight to the bone". I can live with an unattractive person as long as I know she isn't going to be having attitude problems all our lives. I do make allowances for an occasional "bad day" but if it is a constant thing, I couldn't live with her.

The last big item on the list is her attitude and abilities concerning having children. She would have to want to be the mother my kids and help me raise them.

These things, openly and calmly discussed would make me feel comfortable and at ease with the other person. They are the reasons I married my wife 28 years ago and we are still married.

Answer 3

First thing we see is sex appeal, overall sex appeal. The whole package has to be right for me, so ultimately you have to know how to look regarding dress sense. Next comes grooming by way of hair, and also how you carry yourself. Good clothes instead of tarty stuff. OK, everybody likes to look at a slapper who is showing her body to everyone, but no one wants to be seen with that slapper....except in a very dark room, and then somewhere remote.
After that its up close appeal, this means smelling good and able to talk sensibly. No cigarette smells and a good vocabulary, with nice teeth.
But everyman is different, so you need to know what kind of man you want to attract in the first place, don't you ?

Answer 4

I look for a woman who really listens to me, and doesn't "talk over" me when I'm saying something.
The ability to REALLY LISTEN to someone, is a rare thing these days. The longer I'm with my woman, the more I notice she doesn't really listen to me, but is already deciding what she wants to say next. A lot of times she won't even let me finish what I'm saying before she starts talking.

Oh geeze.........I'm ranting again, aren't I?

Anyway, that's my little bit of input.

Answer 5

Looks at first.

But most important- How we feel about our selves when we are with you.

Selfish but true.