For those who answered my last question about how fake can a friend get. Help me out with this one? Lataja has been so fake I decided to let her go. She's mad and said she was never involved with the other girls at all. Now she is telling people lies about me. And tells them other things too. So now everyone is aganist me. What do you think she told them?Should I just ignore her?What to do I'm clueless?????
2006-09-23 04:37:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, she is not a true friend and she is a mean girl particularly a plastic! Ignoring her will make her more angry and see that the issues doesn't affect you so she would stop. It would also reduce the probability of fighting 'cause you already have a bad reputation and you better not let it grow. You can also talk to her because this is a really serious matter so that she can understand what you feel and you can tell her to stop doing it. If these things don't work, well your friends just a lame one and you better start forgetting her. (her if she is a girl)
2006-09-23 05:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by prettylovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE A BIGGER AND BETTER PERSON AND LET IT GO.
HOW SAD THAT YOUR FRIEND HAS NOT HAD BETTER UP BRING.
IF ANYONE APPROACHES YOU REGARDING THE LIES, JUST SAY THAT IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE, BUT BELIEVE WHATEVER YOU WISH.
GOSSIP AND LIES ARE SO HURTFUL, BUT JUST TRY TO IGNORE. PLEASE, DO NOT STOUP TO HER LEVEL. THIS WILL JUST CAUSE YOU MORE PAIN. EVENTUALLY SHE WILL GET TIRED OF HURTING YOU, ONCE SHE REALIZES IT DOESN'T BOTHER YOU AND GO TO SOMEONE ELSE. THIS IS HOW THESE PEOPLE WORK. DON'T EVEN TELL ANYONE, NO ONE THAT IT BOTHERS YOU. THINGS HAVE A
WAY OF GETTING BACK TO PEOPLE.
GOOD LUCK .
2006-09-23 07:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her the best you can. She's not a real friend. A real, true friend sticks by you when others walk away. Talking about you behind your back shows her true colors. Move on.
2006-09-23 04:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the same thing happened to me.......
you really only have 4 options and they are
1:ignore it eventually people will find out that shes totally lien and they will take your side and her plan will backfire
2:try talking to people and ask why they believe her and not you
3:try switching schools (running away from your problems don't make it all better so i wouldn't try this one)
4:talk to her..... ask why and maybe she will tell you
if she was your best friend she will tell you why and will apologize
2006-09-23 04:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by JPUP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a concern like that years in the past in highschool I purely left out the lady and spoke to the chums who left out her crap interior the tip i found out she purely saved one buddy becuase she stabbed everybody interior the decrease back that is hard yet constantly extra effective to be the bigger guy (or female)
2016-10-01 06:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your school guidence counselour. Lataja hasn't been a good friend latley. Just drop her as a friend. She is SOOOO not worth it. Also tell your principal on her and your teacher (s).
2006-09-23 04:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Vanessa<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She manipulating everyone around you for social status. you can either
1. fight her
2. do same thing shes doing
3. ignonre her
or you can mix 2 and 3
2006-09-23 04:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ignore her,that's just words, words cant hurt u,if everyone is against u,time to get new friends,i would lose the old and get new ones.
2006-09-23 12:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jelouse just ignore it and let her see it doesn't bother you and she will stop. shes soing it to hurt you if she sees it doesn't hurt you she wont have a reason to do it anymore.
2006-09-23 04:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore it she is only trying to get to you and when she See's that it doesn't faze you she will stop.and things will go back to normal for you and she will look like the lire .
2006-09-23 07:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋