My uncle and I had sex once and we got caught by one of my aunts. She told everyone in my family and now nobody talks to me. I'm completely mortified. how can I change this ?
2006-09-23 04:48:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nobody talks to you? I say your uncle is more to blame than you... he's older and should have known better. Whatever the case... it was wrong. And I'm sure very embarrassing... but like said before, there are worse things. You could have been caught sleeping with your Aunt! Seriously though, there's no undo button in life, so just suck it up and move on. (Prayer always helps too.) Honestly, you don't have much choice. Don't let it affect you so much. Learn from it and call it another one of life's lessons.
2006-09-23 04:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is unforgettable for your family and if no one is talking you even you parents then they probably kinda blame themselves because the don't know why that happened so give it sometime most likely you father will say something to you about it first but you mom. It depends on whose sister your aunt is but just wait and stay out of there way give them time but the mom or dad that sister that is wont talk to you about probably never will or talk to you so don't blame them it's there sister.
WHAT DID YOUR AUNT THAT YOU HAD SEX WITH SAY AFTER?
2014-01-21 09:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although this isn't acceptable in our society it happen more than many people are will to admit and since the action is known and discussed it will take time for it to settle among those who know .so be patient don't dwell on it and keep liveing life as you have and don't get caught doing it again!
2006-09-23 12:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by Herman W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you ,and have you lost your mind, they is wrong and you and your uncle need help,if it would have been one of my brothers they know what i would have done,and yes you should be mortified,you and him will live with this the rest of your life was it worth it,i hope you learned something
2006-09-23 12:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by mensert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I CAN'T SAY THAT I BLAME THEM. THAT WAS PRETTY LOW OF YOU BOTH.
IF YOU ARE TRUELY SORRY, I SUGGEST YOU HAVE A FAMILY MEETING AND POUR YOUR HEART OUT. BE HONEST THAT YOU MADE A MISTAKE, IT WAS STUPID, ETC. AND ABOVE ALL DON'T BLAME THE OTHER PERSON. YOU COULD HAVE SAID NO. THINGS MIGHT NEVER BE THE SAME. HOPEFULLY YOU HAVE LEARNED THAT FOR EVERY ACTION THERE IS A REACTION.
I DO HOPE YOU HAVE GROWN UP
2006-09-23 15:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duhhhhhhhhhhhhhh there is nothing you can do to change this...... just don't do it again>>>> no offends.. what kind of a sick person would have sex with his uncle>>>>that is so wrong its unbelievable
2006-09-23 11:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by mike s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it would take a while for everybody to talk to you and forgive you. Apologise and tell them you wont do it again.
2006-09-23 11:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex with you uncle that might help
2006-09-23 11:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋