Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

He said his mother didn't breastfeed him as a baby and he just wanted to see what it was like. Now he wants to all the time! Before the baby he loved sucking my breast. Now that I have milk. He's so turned on all the time. When my son's not feeding my husband wants to. And he wants to have sex, a lot! Is this wrong. Should I tell him to stop?

2006-09-23 08:57:33 · 18 answers · asked by Lulu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My grandson was not raised property and he's very disrespectful to me. I'm the only one who helps him in his need. No mother, father, uncle, other grandparent, friends or anyone does as much for him as I do. I'm beginning to hate him. What should I do?

2006-09-23 08:56:30 · 17 answers · asked by Hilpar 1 in Family

I keep getting followed around by this geek at my school. I tried hiding behind something when he passed by me but he found me and touched my leg in a very creepy way so I kicked him but he still wont leave me alone. help me get rid of him!

2006-09-23 08:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by wants anwers 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

does bang me baby mean?

2006-09-23 08:53:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don’t understand why all of my significant others including my present one always ***** about money.

I mean really, even when I was the only wage earner I was still bitched at.

This relationship I am in now is the only one where I haven’t been the only wage earner.

I do not “ask” for everything and I do not want much, rent a few movies once a month or so, maybe take me out to dinner now and again, just general spending time with me.

That must be way too much for all of them.

The current one is ending up so much like the first that it is getting hard to distinguish the difference between the two, except that now it’s with a female and before it was a male.

A lazy male , sleeping all the time, computer junkie, who didn’t care if we were together or not cause we lived together what more time can you spend with someone. “We are together all the time, what do you mean you want time, how much more can you want?”

He used to say that, and now she does…

Is it me? Am I the one that is doing something that they don’t like, to the point they do not even want to be seen with me in public, or what?

She says I am reading too much into it and granted I probably am to a degree, but really what else am I to think about the whole situation?

She doesn’t like what I like, the music, the movies, the games, nothing… Why does she like me if we have nothing in common at all? Yea, I know differences attract but there has to be something there that the couple can do together even if it’s just playing a game of cards sometimes, but she doesn’t even like that either.

I have never loved someone as much as I love her, Never…

I love her children completely as if they were my own.

But saying that, the ole additive comes into play… “Is Love always enough?”

I say it could be, if she could just stop fussing at me about stuff that just doesn’t fit all the time.

I could understand if we were destitute and had nothing and I wanted something, but it has never been that way I am not stupid, but she thinks so. That is not a guess I assure you.

Maybe if she spent a few hours with me every evening, I don’t know …

But I did try that with the “Male” and it didn’t work.

I don’t know… I just don’t know what to do anymore.

Maybe just do nothing, yet everything, never ask for a thing, never complain that’s there’s no communication, Nothing.

Why?

2006-09-23 08:53:16 · 20 answers · asked by krystinah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know everybody will say they are very important, but think about it twice, will you? I mean, in comparison to love and career, how important are they? I don't feel they really fit in the top 3 of the most important things in my life, because there is no such thing as a "good friend", at least I haven't found any. To be a good friend is a give and take relationship, but it's not often that people understand that. That's why I believe they are not so important. What do you think?

2006-09-23 08:52:24 · 12 answers · asked by Livia 2 in Friends

2006-09-23 08:51:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 08:51:57 · 37 answers · asked by KAL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but she wants to be freinds again .and none of my other friends like her.but should i give her another chance

2006-09-23 08:51:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am totally in love with a 30 y/o man, and I am only 18. I have a boyfriend. My 21 y/o boyfriend knows i've liked this guy forever. But yeah, the older guy has been around for a really long time. I don't know if he likes me or not, but he always talks to me and i'm pretty sure he knows I have the hots for him because he is best friends with one of my mom's friends husband. He called me about 2 months ago on my birthday and we talked about 10 minutes. He's never called me any other time but yea. He always asks my boyfriend how I am doing, and asks if we are still dating when he sees him. Which would seem a little weird if he WAS to like me. I would never say anything to him (the older guy) first about the way I feel about him. I wonder if he just talks to me because it makes him feel good a younger girl likes him or if he really does have a thing?

2006-09-23 08:50:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they see australian's american's easy cash free flow
i was getting that bad that i nearly killed myself over this frauded love it wasn't love at all it was lie's to help them thrive as they do not get much money in nigeria as we do (oz and us) i have learn my lesson in a big heart felt loser im big hearted thinking it was love it wasn't "LOVE IS BLIND ILL GUESS ILL BUY MYSELF A CANE" sitution they taken me for granted of telling me lies lies lies please guy's dont make me feel so bad as i am all ready in i have been crying very hard all the money i lost and never have found true love get this nigerian's GO TO HELL

2006-09-23 08:50:32 · 4 answers · asked by shotgunblues_98 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an angry teenager. Of course, he is angry because he is a teenager, but he is also angry because of his dad (being an alcoholic and depressed, and divorced from us, and currently in a homeless shelter). He is a Senior this year, and he hates school, does not want to wake up in the morning, has been late 5 times this year, and announced he does not want to graduate. Not only does he not want to go through the graduation ceremony, but it looks like he will not have the credits this year anyway. He is angry all of the time, mostly with me. Why? I am not really sure aside from the fact that I want him to be successful with his life and he is blowing a lot of it off. He is not working, either and depends on me for all monies. I have him in therapy, but he wants to quit. I get him to go by saying I will take the car back if he doesn't. I am trying to relax, but feel like crying. I have a tough time being an assertive mom, and I am very tense. Any advice....

2006-09-23 08:50:21 · 4 answers · asked by anny 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I said this question before but I still need help!!! This boy I like whenever were playing this definition game in Science class he always stares at me and doesn't take his eyes off me!!!! Does he like me or not. HE also likes to make me laugh and likes to make me smile. BUT he also likes another girl.

2006-09-23 08:49:14 · 9 answers · asked by Sami 3 in Friends

Exactly like this, without any pauses, he posted this:

got to go now
love you
if i could
i would.....
but i cant
because
doesnt matter
bye

this was on an msn conversation so that could be a factor why he said that to me - usually he's just a joker, and it was definately to me because he said that all in one go

A lot of you interpreted this as him trying to say that he has fallen for me

But i was thinking, maybe it meant he was trying to make fun of me, like saying he couldnt because im too ugly or something!! Because usually he does say things like "you're fat" just to make me get worked up, but uaully he just says "laters" when he's leaving.

He's single but i've got a b/f - and i already asked him what he meant when he said that and he just replied shortly "i forgot"....so what am i meant to do now?

2006-09-23 08:49:09 · 36 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

my boyfriend is known for just going out with girls then making out, then dumping them...he always goes to this skating place and makes out with girls, but he hasnt yet to me...so does he want an actual relationship with me??? He even skateboarded all the way from his house (which is far away) to my school to say hi, cuz he wasnt there that day... im just nervous that ill get hurt if he cheats on me




im his GF, but i dont want to dump him cuz i REALLY like him and it sure seems like he actually wants to be in a serious relationship, he hasnt cheated on me yet tho


he told me that i need to trust him, but even tho i say i do...i really dont feel that i do, knowing his past

2006-09-23 08:47:58 · 23 answers · asked by semicharmed life girl 1 in Singles & Dating

my niece keeps having night mare's and she say's a man keeps talking to her my sister asked her the other day if she had,had any more night mare's since she said yes and that the man was talking to her right now so my sister asked what he was saying to her she said mummy he's told me to tell you to mind your own business. What do you think this could mean could my niece be lying she's only 9 i don't no what to think spooky

2006-09-23 08:47:45 · 13 answers · asked by lyndsey H 2 in Family

i have this crush and he is 16 im 13 well we like each other but im in jr high in 7 grade he is in high school in 11 grade i really like him but he is a littel hard to like we only c each other on the bus and durin the summer what do i do should i wait til the summer to tell him how i fell or should i tell him know idk but i need some help?????????

2006-09-23 08:47:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 08:47:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is internet sex cheating when: a) pictures are exchanged b) instant messaging is taking place c) they are having phone sex d) when they are using a web cam to see each other for sexual purposes d) any of the above e) none of the above

2006-09-23 08:47:26 · 30 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you know if a certain person you like is right for you? How do you know that he is "the one"?

Do you actually get to know if he is the one you are meant to be with or not?

2006-09-23 08:47:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what am i missing out on? what does it say about me? what should i be doing?

2006-09-23 08:46:59 · 12 answers · asked by welshchick 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this guy he stares at me in my class but before at lunch time which is 4th period my friend asked him out for me but he said no and he already had a gf. Weeks later, It is true cuz I sat next to her at a showcase thing but now he stares at me and like shows off in stuff. Is he suddenly realising that he wants to be with me now cuz I like him back but the bad thing is that I don't want to ruin the relationship between the two, what should I do?

2006-09-23 08:46:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the two of u broke up

2006-09-23 08:45:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok theres this guy and he likes me but my friend likes him. Shes all mad at me because he likes me and shes trying to guilt me out of liking him so he might lie her, what should i do???

2006-09-23 08:45:22 · 9 answers · asked by Me 3 in Friends

and how did you know that they were the "one"?

2006-09-23 08:44:03 · 64 answers · asked by stokegal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does bang me baby mean?

2006-09-23 08:43:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He asked me to marry him when he joined the Army. When he got stationed in Hawaii he dumped me and he is now in Iraq, but writes me. Recently wrote that "you gave me a smile..that I didn't have before and haven't had since.." Say's he's gonna come back for me and many other things hintin at the fact he made a mistake. Question is..should i really believe all this and stick around and wait for him or move on like i've been tryin to do until he says things like above?

2006-09-23 08:43:02 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

i been ripped off close to $65 thousand dollars ....
ok ill give you a quick tip on nigerian love
1.send 1500 so can love you more when i get there (lies)
2.i been deported back (lies)
3.i really need to be with you fast (lies)
4.the consultant can help us out to get paper work done (lies)
5.family member has ill (lies)
6.how much money u have left as i need for my trip please i want to be woth you (lies)
dont worry i been a escape goat of the internet lieing love especailly www.hothoockups.com.au
this is a good example of nigerian fraud posing to be australian's as i caught 18 of them trying to make love to me which it wasn't
NIGERIAN'S = BIG FRAUDED LOSERS
so please guy's be careful of nigerian's they thrive on good people like me
also i had declaire myself bankrupt
i was looking for love but i was there at the wrong time and wrong place
all i need is love in my life that's all
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2006-09-23 08:42:54 · 5 answers · asked by shotgunblues_98 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i seduce my gfriend without stress

2006-09-23 08:42:13 · 6 answers · asked by fortune 1 in Singles & Dating

Well this is just a simple gernal question. I will use myself as an example. I have a boyfriend (24) who is friends with such assholes. There is this one guy that is so annoying he constantly calls him or contacts him on "myspace" almost every night asking for him to go to a "titty bar" or other bar in general when he knows my boyfriend is dating me. I know so many girls that have this problem in that their boyfriends remain friends with the asshole friends despite the fact of their girlfriends opinions. Guys and girls welcome to respond.

2006-09-23 08:42:07 · 6 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Singles & Dating