Ok this guy he stares at me in my class but before at lunch time which is 4th period my friend asked him out for me but he said no and he already had a gf. Weeks later, It is true cuz I sat next to her at a showcase thing but now he stares at me and like shows off in stuff. Is he suddenly realising that he wants to be with me now cuz I like him back but the bad thing is that I don't want to ruin the relationship between the two, what should I do?
2006-09-23 08:46:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
blah blah i think u talk too much no offense though
2006-09-23 08:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by ★HigHTƹcH★ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had this situation happen to me before too when I was in HS. I have now grown up, and have since learned what it is. I am sorry to say this, but he is probably just being a jerk. He's staring at you because he is cocky, he is a teenage boy who is like...."Oooh, this girl likes me, ain't I hot stuff." That kind of thing. And the showing off thing, is just more of the same thing. He is just cocky now. Guys who are taken just have a tendency to think they are HOT STUFF when another girl likes them. It's the total child side of them. When I was in HS I had a friend ask a guy out for me and when we were walking inside from lunch, he grabbed another girls head and pulled her to his crotch in a symbol of...well, you know. And from that day forth he was constantly staring and showing off. Another guy did this too, he actually starting telling everybody..."Oh, that girl has the hots for me." It's all just so childish.
I would hope that I'm wrong and that he likes you, but if he did, he would ask you out. I would just let it be and see what happens. Don't take it as anything more than a grain of salt. Sorry. I hope this helps.
2006-09-23 16:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok all you have to do is find the right time to talk to him and get to know him better. Ask him a few questions. Once you get to know him better you will know if you still like him. If you do, ask him if he likes you too. But don't pressure him. He wont like that. Hope it works! Rachee
2006-09-23 15:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOur going to drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out, never go behind someones back and steal their boyfriend, if he wants you he will come to you, in the meantime take care of yourself and just be nice equally to everyone, and always act like your having a great time if he's watching you.
2006-09-23 15:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by trajan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You owe it to yourself to see if he really likes you. Ask him is he and this other girl serious. If not, go ahead and do your thing. Don't let a good thing pass you by.
2006-09-23 15:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luckily I never had these problems in high school because no chicks really liked me.
2006-09-23 15:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first let him prove that he likes u than tell him that he should not cheat on his g/f and if he still duz tell his g/f he has to stop before he hurts one of your harts
2006-09-23 18:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you then he will ask you out.
2006-09-23 15:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to him yourself and see what he has to say
2006-09-23 15:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by jazzjazjazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not give a f*** about the other girl, if you really like him GO FOR IT..REALLY!!!
2006-09-23 15:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋