my boyfriend is known for just going out with girls then making out, then dumping them...he always goes to this skating place and makes out with girls, but he hasnt yet to me...so does he want an actual relationship with me??? He even skateboarded all the way from his house (which is far away) to my school to say hi, cuz he wasnt there that day... im just nervous that ill get hurt if he cheats on me
im his GF, but i dont want to dump him cuz i REALLY like him and it sure seems like he actually wants to be in a serious relationship, he hasnt cheated on me yet tho
he told me that i need to trust him, but even tho i say i do...i really dont feel that i do, knowing his past
2006-09-23 08:47:58 · 23 answers · asked by semicharmed life girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for helping me out, i can use all of the advice i can get for this one!
2006-09-23 09:00:20 · update #1
Well sorry to have to tell you this but once a guy is known for cheating more than once it's a pretty good chance that he will do it again. He may be sweet but if he gets the chance to hook up with someone else while he's dating you he probably going to take it and there's nothing you can do to stop him from hurting you expect break up with him
2006-09-23 08:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about It this way maybe he only takes the girls that he's about to dump to the skate park thing and doesn't know how to let them down easy so after that he dumps them using a line like "Sorry we just can't be together" maybe he hasn't took you because he probly actually likes you and doesn't want you to seem that he is taking you only to makeout with you trust me he is thinking about a realtionship a serious one
2006-09-23 08:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by caramel_hispanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is take it slow. Start by getting pregnant and then think about marriage. Don't do anything foolish. get a prenup before you get married cuz you ganna half of that skateboard. Hope this is helpful.
2006-09-23 08:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what's wrong with u youngins always tryin 2 get hooked 2 1 guy! Why your young, pretty, smart have a whole lot of boyfreinds go on lots of dates why be tied down 2 one person. just think of all the presents you'll get on holidays! LOL!
2006-09-23 08:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by finstre337 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance. He cheats, you dump. It also depends on how long your relationship has been. If its been a long time and he hasn't cheated all that time, trust him
2006-09-23 08:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby move on cuz what is a relationship without trust.
2006-09-23 08:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by jeremy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Dr Phil says, the best indicator of future behaviour is past behaviour. I think you are setting yourself up to get hurt. Sorry.
2006-09-23 08:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by sticky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you 12?
Go watch some cartoons and stop worrying about things you can't control.
2006-09-23 08:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Kinzel99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG. u dont deserve him. there is alot of cute guys out there that r not like him.hes no good for u.he needs to spend more time with u.and i know u know u see alot of cute boys out there.so breake up with him.
2006-09-23 08:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dump him and move on, i mean after hearing what he does wit other girls then you should break his heart before he breaks yours.
2006-09-23 08:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋