Family & Relationships - 22 September 2006

My husband gives everything he has to his daughters and I. He needs a new pair of glasses very bad but each time I bring the subject up he tells me they are fine and changes the subject. I have to sneak behind his back and buy things for him. If he needs a new pair of shoes I have to do it because he would rather walk around in his holely shoes and buy things for the girls or me. I know men like this are few and far inbetween and I feel blessed for a man who provides for his family so well, putting our needs ahead of his own. Are there any other women who have men like this, what is a good way to trick him into going to the eyemasters to get him his glasses? What are some good tricks to get him to the store?

2006-09-22 16:00:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is 36 A small for a 14 year old?

2006-09-22 16:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so I've seen her every now and then in the halls. I even say hi and smile. But she walks past me without looking at me. I don't mind, but I really want to get to know her. Any thoughts?

2006-09-22 16:00:26 · 6 answers · asked by stephenjlb 3 in Singles & Dating

helppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp

2006-09-22 16:00:02 · 4 answers · asked by jennybawich 2 in Singles & Dating

My associates at work complain about how we need to have more bonding time and do stuff together. So I have a family picnic at my house for my daughter's birthday. Only two families out of 12 are coming. I am so tired of lame fake people. I don't have any family who live in this state and "friendships" are all I have. I will always remember I am not important to most people I work with.

2006-09-22 15:59:10 · 3 answers · asked by chieko 4 in Friends

well ok 5 years almost tell she broke up with me and i found out she was going out with another guy after a week i was mad but still miss her we still say we love each other miss each other but she made up her mine but she came to see me like 3 weeks after we broke up and she was still going out with the other guy and started talking and before we know it we had sex and then cryed it was missed up now we going to a concert in about 3 weeks
was it wrong?

2006-09-22 15:58:55 · 21 answers · asked by abcboyohboy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 15:58:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a nice guy, I have been told many times from many girls that i am sweet and romantic, i am a good listener and understanding and would never hurt my girlfriend in any way.... Why can I not find a girl while many buttheads out there that treat girls like crap get tons? (I want only serious answers, anyone saying stupid crap or just plain being insulting will be reported)

2006-09-22 15:58:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why?

2006-09-22 15:57:19 · 9 answers · asked by Dr.Feelgood 5 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I try to test her love, I get a strong feeling that she is not up to me. Everytime she just fails not knowing it. She does not care. Am I acting immaturely or what? She seems to be just sure about our marrital bond but I feel may be I should break it even if it will very difficult.

2006-09-22 15:57:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-09-22 15:56:31 · 25 answers · asked by godknows 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is 50 and will be retiring next year. I am 31 and have been in my career for 5 years. My earning potential is >100,000. His earning potential doesn't even come close to that. He argues that hes not used up and will continue to work (which I agree with), but at the same time, I believe that my income is going to be the one that carries us after he retires and we should focus on mine more than his. This means I believe we should move to places based on my career potential. I really don't mean to discount what he does, but to me it seems logical that as a family we go where the work is for me, and not so much based on him. Any thoughts? Am I wrong for thinking this way?

2006-09-22 15:56:29 · 13 answers · asked by kiltedbiker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what should i do and will he say yes?

2006-09-22 15:56:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a friend on myspace who i like a lot. before everyone gets all weird on me, yes i do know him personally, we have been real friends for a while then i moved and found him on myspace. anyway, he sent me a message saying that his ex (my friend) was going with his friend. then he said that he needed a g/f so i kind of asked him out. i havent gotten a response yet cuz i just asked him a while ago. part of me wants him to say yes cuz i really like him but part of me wants him to say no cuz im not into the whol long distance relationship thing. so what do i do now? and if he does say yes will my friend (his ex) get mad cuz my other friend said that she has been really bitchy lately and i havent talked to her in a while so i dont know. thanz for the help.

2006-09-22 15:55:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

guys:

how many girls had you slept with by the time you graduated high school?

answer HONESTLY!!

.. i am just wondering (i know..its random)

2006-09-22 15:54:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-22 15:53:56 · 16 answers · asked by g_playa_gent 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 15:53:48 · 7 answers · asked by I ♥ SUGARLAND! 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 11 and my friends have been going out for a year now. I want a boyfriend too, but I'm kinda nervous, and nobody's available. Only one of my friends doesn't have a date yet, but she admitted her love to a guy, but he doesn't like her back. She tells me to tell my crush I like him, but he's on vacation, and I'm not sure what to say when he comes back. I'm not even sure if I REALLY like him, or if it's just puppy love. Any suggestions?

2006-09-22 15:52:39 · 24 answers · asked by ~Ali~ 2 in Friends

plz be honest guys do u all relly want to be a plaboy instead of being w/ ur gf/wife and be sweet and say i love you jst to get sex and don't mean it and always dream of other hot girls especailly when ur having sex with another person and r u guys thtperverted and etc. if it is true why do u have gf's and wives thats something i never get

2006-09-22 15:52:37 · 5 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is not a player but she does't want a boyfriend at the moment,and she doesnt have the same feeling for that guy,But he is so nice to her,always want to take care of her,now she feels guilty coz she won't be with him.What should she do?

2006-09-22 15:52:35 · 10 answers · asked by MIssalli 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has ADHD and she's been taking medication for 4 years. Everyday at school at lunch, she'll either get an ice cream, carrots, or a smoothie. I asked her if she was hungry and she said "no, not at all" at shes starting to scare me. shes SOOO skinny. TOO skinny. so one day i rode the bus home with her after school. after school, i always tend to have a snack. so i had some easymac at her house. she had NOTHING. and for dinner she has plain noodles. im so worried for her. she also shakes and stuff. what should i tell her? she is also vegetarian.

**PLEASE NO RUDE COMMENTS

**PLEASE NO ONE SAY "GOSH ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!" becasue I would be asking if i didnt care.

2006-09-22 15:52:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-22 15:51:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-22 15:51:43 · 1 answers · asked by sunries81 1 in Singles & Dating

the person i love more than anyone and i want to spend the rest of my life with left me 5 months ago but we still act like we are together. they always say they know i am the right one for them but are in the middle of another bad relationship and they kinda dont want that one to end. yet at the end of the day i am the person being told we are going to have a family one day and that its always going to be us. i want to stick around but some times it getts very hard and i have tried other relationships but they are never good enough all i want is this one person who means the world to me. what should i do?

2006-09-22 15:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by billabong 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so one of my ladies, Sarah or Sheila or something like that, was over at my place last night. Cindy, one my other ladies, called the next morning. After I talked to her, I told Sarah or whatever to make some breakfast and start the laundry. She got mad and left, without making breakfast! What is her problem?

2006-09-22 15:51:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

other.used 2 b just frends but jokingly flirted n all.now since last 2 days its been difficult for both of us not to take it seriously.he's engaged n my boyfrend livs in another city.i dun wanna ruin 2 lives bcos of thz playful flirting but its gettin more n more complicated.m totally confused.plz help me as to wat i shud do.

2006-09-22 15:50:50 · 7 answers · asked by abc 1 in Friends

She juz met this weird guy during a school campus activity.
I think this guy is an addict. ( m not being judgemental but my sister confirmed that this weird guy is using some prohibited drugs)
I think my sister's being hypnotize by this afro man... ( do you believe in gayuma?)
My sister acts very weird this past few days.
She often go home late at night (and that's unusual for her)
She's not the same anymore.
She often tell lies juz to be with this afro man.
She can't exactly and directly tell her 5 years bf why she's dumping him..
Her 5 years long bf is already known and accepted in our family.
We trust him betther than this weird afro man.
This afro man have no parents. Both parents have past away when he was a kid. (accdng to my siz)
He works as a henna & tatoo artist.
He don't go to school anymore.
He smokes a lot... I've seen him...
Very weird Afro man.... UGGGHHHHHHHH.....

2006-09-22 15:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by Trixie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes you feel like a nut sometimes you dont. Which do you perfer? (Sorry people not tring to be nasty, just bored)

2006-09-22 15:49:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, now that it is over with my bf and I, he wants me back because Im showing him what he is missing. Everytime I see him he wants to talk 2 me and thats not my cup of tea, But I still love him so what sould I do But I dont want to hurt myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-22 15:49:11 · 5 answers · asked by cj05 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 15:49:07 · 64 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Marriage & Divorce