the person i love more than anyone and i want to spend the rest of my life with left me 5 months ago but we still act like we are together. they always say they know i am the right one for them but are in the middle of another bad relationship and they kinda dont want that one to end. yet at the end of the day i am the person being told we are going to have a family one day and that its always going to be us. i want to stick around but some times it getts very hard and i have tried other relationships but they are never good enough all i want is this one person who means the world to me. what should i do?
2006-09-22 15:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by billabong 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on with your life. if "the person" doesn't want their other relationship to end then why in the world would you give them another seconds thought?! obviously you don't mean as much to them as you thought you did. if they really wanted to be with you and have a family with you then they'd be with you now. it's as simple as that. go out and find someone that will treat you with the love and respect you deserve!!
2006-09-22 15:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am terribly sorry for your condition billabong. here's my suggestion. just stay un-attached with the person you love. because that is when you guys are happy, no commitments, no rules, no arguments. but at the back of it all, you guys are happy. a commitment does not make a relationship. but relationship make commitments. yes, both of you have other relationships, but look at the relationship not to forget the one you love, but use it for you to love more. if all go well, you'll be fine. good luck.
2006-09-22 22:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Doctor Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to tell you , but you are just the other woman. He gets booty from you when he wants it and tells you sweet nothings that he knows you want to hear. You need to find a real man not an asshole because you are just his play toy.
2006-09-22 22:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by caramel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only going to get harder it sounds to me that your the one this person runs to when there not doing so well with the other.don't be the one on the side you can do better,lose them and move on.
2006-09-22 22:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to mend your relationship first perhaps it's not late to reconciles your difference!
2006-09-22 23:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Dogman 61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋