i have a friend on myspace who i like a lot. before everyone gets all weird on me, yes i do know him personally, we have been real friends for a while then i moved and found him on myspace. anyway, he sent me a message saying that his ex (my friend) was going with his friend. then he said that he needed a g/f so i kind of asked him out. i havent gotten a response yet cuz i just asked him a while ago. part of me wants him to say yes cuz i really like him but part of me wants him to say no cuz im not into the whol long distance relationship thing. so what do i do now? and if he does say yes will my friend (his ex) get mad cuz my other friend said that she has been really bitchy lately and i havent talked to her in a while so i dont know. thanz for the help.
2006-09-22 15:55:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She said, he said, I said, they said. Oh the drama of a teen's life. I kind of miss it in a way. And I am actually jealous that I didn't have the internet when I was in highschool.
When it comes to friends & boys the bottom line is always, who is more important to you, your friend or a boy?
As far as a long distance relationship, you're too young to try to have one. You will both see other people that you want to go out with. Do not tie yourself down to a guy who you can't be with.
2006-09-22 16:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distant relationships can work, it just takes a lot of care to keep it in tack. As for your friend, if you havent talked to her in a while then that's her problem. She hasnt taken care of the friendship that you two had. If you are not going back to that place for a while I wouldnt worry about what she thinks or says, once again...if she was trying to keep the friendship with you then you wouldnt be in the situation. Why dont you just ask her if she minds, if she does, oh well she can get over it. If she doesnt mind, then she can give you her blessing on the relationship and you will feel better. Best of luck!
2006-09-22 16:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a few breaths and relax.
Center yourself and feel what you really want - do you really want to try the long distance thing with this boy?
If you don't, write him back and say that you thought about it and changed your mind, and apologize.
If you do still have interest in him, call your friend (his ex) and talk with her. Let her know how you feel about him, and see how she feels about the idea of you dating him.
If she doesn't care - then go for it. If she does care - then decide which is more important to you - her friendship or the possibility of the relationship with the boy, and make your choice.
Good luck.
2006-09-22 16:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do what ever your Heart desires. If you really like this guy and he likes you the same way then it doesn't matter how far apart you are or how anyone else should feel it's your life not theirs. Go for it!!! Don't let happiness pass you by.... but if he says no then don't get upset it just wasn't ment to be. Remember there is someone for everyone.
2006-09-22 16:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by naddy4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right about the long distance relationships i know for sure.....the rest is really going to be up to you....maybe just stay friends for now and see how that goes...i would not rush into anything until you know what you want for sure...and about the other girl well she is his ex....but i can not really understand this friend and that friend...but the bitchy one stay away from...if she can not be nice to you....you do not need her.....i have tried long distant relationships and you have to be able to really trust...and that is almost like not caring what they are doing...and where are they when you need them...so i would think about this for sure...
2006-09-22 15:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships are hard enough especially with friends involved i mean sometimes the guy seems like he would be perfect for you and that just mite be tru...but perfect guys dont always live in perfect places...its just not always a good idea unless you can trust the person 100%....but with you friend mayb you should talk to them about it see what they think...they could have no problem with it at all...good luck!
2006-09-22 15:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by aly86 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend shouldn't be mad at you, it's yours and his decision, not theirs. They will get over it if they are mad. Long distance relationships can work- I've been in one for almost a year now. you just have to have a strong ability to trust your bf.
2006-09-22 15:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by CrazdSquirel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if shes okay with it. u need to decide who u would rather be close to-ur friend or the guy friend. u need to tell her u thought it was over between them and it wasnt ur fault. if shes a true friend shell understand if not...oh well
2006-09-22 16:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by rebecca_colee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all who cares what your friend thinks!
second are you ready for a long distance relationship?
2006-09-22 15:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? this is myspace and its barley a question\
2006-09-22 15:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋