I am a nice guy, I have been told many times from many girls that i am sweet and romantic, i am a good listener and understanding and would never hurt my girlfriend in any way.... Why can I not find a girl while many buttheads out there that treat girls like crap get tons? (I want only serious answers, anyone saying stupid crap or just plain being insulting will be reported)
2006-09-22 15:58:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant really tell you the answer to this girls just seem to like those dickheads. i did when i first started dating but i then wised up and am with the most amazing guy. dont worry youll find someone. until then just give it time dont look for it. Good Luck
2006-09-22 16:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The buttheads might have the girls, but what kind of quality are these girls? A fool can get a bunch of skanks who don't care about themselves, but that don't mean it's a good relationship. Stop looking at what's bad, thinking it's good. That's a lie. Don't fall for that crap.
You sound frustrated because your relationships don't last or are not good. Please don't stop being sweet and all the other good things you mentioned. However, if you are over doing it with the super-sensitive guy thing and trying to make sure everything is perfect for her so she won't leave you, then you are doing yourself a disservice. With any relationship it ain't all about just one person. That's imbalanced.
Next time you meet someone, let it be give and take because you are worth it! Let her listen to how you feel sometimes. Let her do romantic stuff for you and by all means let her know what you like. This will make you feel wanted, loved, and cared for, too. My best to you!
2006-09-22 23:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by meillee44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. But I feel the same way alot of time, but I'm a girl. You have to know that usually a girl won't just walk up to you and ask you to be their boyfriend. You have half or more of the work. As for the girls with jerk boyfriends that treat them like crap, well I guess they're a good match. You don't want those girls anyway. Don't change anything about yourself, you sound nice, you'll get a girl, the right girl soon enough.
2006-09-22 23:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because all girls have a "thing" in them that draws them towards the buttheads...the bad boys, the freaks, etc. And you my friend, are the boy-next-door who they have yet seen to be as more than a good friend. This is the way it always it...but the good news is this: Girls eventually learn that they really can't settle down with someone who is a rebel, weird, whatever his crazy self may be. Deep down every single girl knows that they need to settle down with someone normal, funny, sweet and will make one amazing husband and possibly father too. Guys are always one or the other...but just wait for the right girl and I promise you, she'll fall in love with you big time once she realizes that it's really time to find someone for real.
2006-09-22 23:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you've heard the expression that nice guys finish last, right? Well, unfortunately it's true for some of you. My advice is that you just be patient. The right girl for you will eventually come along. Just don't spend all of your time searching for her. She will find you. I promise. It happened that way for my guy and we are really happy now.
2006-09-22 23:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by sexy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some strange psychological reason, girls are attracted to bad boys and boys are attracted to bad girls. Although that is not always the case.
2006-09-22 23:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to life. most girls go for the men that will hurt them because the man seems more exciting (an answer from one of my female friends). I have battled this for years. there is also the thing of the girls you are drawn to. if you are mainly looking at the wrong things
2006-09-22 23:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got the same problem. Just answering to see responses later. Good luck dog.
2006-09-22 23:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls consider you more of a friend than a boyfriend.
2006-09-22 23:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where do you live?I am lookin for guys like you,but how old are you too?My email is FriskyH92@yahoo.com email me...
2006-09-22 23:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by frisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋