other.used 2 b just frends but jokingly flirted n all.now since last 2 days its been difficult for both of us not to take it seriously.he's engaged n my boyfrend livs in another city.i dun wanna ruin 2 lives bcos of thz playful flirting but its gettin more n more complicated.m totally confused.plz help me as to wat i shud do.
2006-09-22 15:50:50 · 7 answers · asked by abc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ASK HIM OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-22 15:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ally A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to reassess the pros and cons.If your boyfriend has been wtih you 20 years you would know more about him than you would in 20 days.Perhaps your philosophy of life is 'friends come and go' but as you grow up you would want to make the most of life,not a rollercoaster ride that stops at every point and goes round and round.There are times in life when we feel like letting loose,but you have to think of the consequences and the future.The best thing for you to do now is to ring up your steady boyfriend and tell him you are having a hard time,and say to him your relationship is on the rocks but don't tell him why!Just let him respond and then tell him honestly that you love him (or hate him as a matter iof fact) and that you just need some time to figure out what you wanted in life.He 'll be surprised at your maturity and if not,then just tell him you respect him and hope he would respect you the same way.If things don't sound too good (I hope not!) then you had better tell him you want your relationship with him finished.But try your best to win back your steady boyfriend's heart sweetie!Don't ruin the good times that you shared just because of one new hottie!Take care not to hurt anyone and all the best.
2006-09-22 19:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by fadly j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you both are obviously attracted to each other, you personally need to decide who you feel more attracted to, even if your new friend isn't going to be there for you forever it would be wrong to continue with your boyfriend if you fancy another, there would be something missing. You young folk tend to rush into relationships. The whole point of dating a person is to see if you are compatible, don't try and make every relationship 'the one', and don't feel bad if it isn't 'the one' be honest with each other and move on until you find the right person to spend your life with. In your 20's it feels like a mad rush to get your man or be left high and dry, believe me, find the right man because you are gonna have to wake up next to him for the rest of your life!!!
2006-09-22 18:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 11:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by briscoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest you stop flirting with him and try and find a common ground with your own man, because if things become more complicated it could be ruining your friendship and and loosing both guys. try and see your guy more often
2006-09-22 16:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by blade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just end what u two have going on even though its really nothing but just an attraction
2006-09-22 15:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by lilsis2576 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about this r u sure it will work out if u two were together
2006-09-22 17:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋