Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

tell me what it is

2006-09-21 07:17:21 · 10 answers · asked by justin_ambray 2 in Friends

I'm 23 and my fiance is almost 25. He asked me to marry him two years ago and we've been together for five years. We never started to plan the wedding because we were financially strapped. Well, now we have the means to have a wedding and he doesn't want to talk about it. I try to talk to him about what he wants to do and everything and he won't answer me. If I keep trying to talk to him, he says I'm bugging him. I don't know what to do. I know that I am ready to settle down, get married and have kids, but I'm not sure that he's ready yet. If he's not ready though, why would he have asked me?

2006-09-21 07:16:41 · 11 answers · asked by sundragonjess 5 in Singles & Dating

i wish people wouldnt tell me things that are secret it gets on my nerves id rather not know then i cant get dragged into anything how do i do this and does any1 else have this problem

2006-09-21 07:16:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 18 yrs old very shy as a person nice to everone , always trying to be friendly, and quiet unless i now you. I dont think at 110 pounds and 5 ft 5 or 5ft 6 that i am short or fat. My face is clear i dont get pimples that much anymore. I wear very little makeup and make sure my hair is always neat and dresses neatly too. So i dont think i am ugly but i always attract guys that treat me like property and are possesive/controling/manipulative. Is it me?

2006-09-21 07:16:27 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 07:16:27 · 13 answers · asked by Me 3 in Friends

I have 2 cousins who are older than me by 4 years or something..when I was klittle they used to complain at me ..like the way I did my hair or the way I pronounced some french words..(coz they went to french schools) .. and now when I'm older I think they hate me..they're always good to my sister but I feel like they don't trust me to say anything personal as they do with my sister..they made me cry I think..who gave them the right to do that? I think they judge me too behind my back..like the way I dress and stuff like that..what did I ever do to them to treat me like that? they're coming tomorrow anyway..so how shall I react towards them..coz it's always been difficult for me to meet them??I'm always uncomfortable when I'm with them..

2006-09-21 07:16:16 · 12 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Family

I'm getting married in July. What color shoe should I wear white or black? I've included a link to a dress that looks similar to mine. I found some really comfortable and cute black ones but just don't know if black would be ok. What do you guys think? Thanks. Oh the color of the trim will be black.

http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=1210&prodgroup=127

2006-09-21 07:16:09 · 39 answers · asked by tpurtygrl 5 in Weddings

what are your views and opinions on this subject?

2006-09-21 07:15:49 · 12 answers · asked by mony 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-21 07:15:35 · 1 answers · asked by wrfab 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

has anyone else heard the term 'dry sex'? what is it?

2006-09-21 07:15:06 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A) drunk
B) tipsy
C) Neither. I just have a couple to relax me
D) Don't drink at all.

I'm meaning at your home with your husband or wife. No friends are over or anything.
Please if you don't mind could you state your age or close to it. Thank-you very much:)

2006-09-21 07:14:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What appeals most to a man, a skinny woman with shape or someone that is thick, chunky and shows signs of future fatness (that's of course if you can tell).

2006-09-21 07:14:13 · 6 answers · asked by humm 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this really cute girl who lives in my area & whom i like alot. Problem is we don't know eachother & never spoken before. She drives & i walk & so we never get the chance to meet on the street.
But the good part is we attend the same church on Sundays & so i think to talk to her then. But i want to do it in a way that will leave a really nice impression on her because she's a very decent girl & i can't afford to make a fool of myself.
Some nice advice please ... Thank You.

2006-09-21 07:14:06 · 4 answers · asked by kabira 1 in Singles & Dating

how can a girl tell you that she loves you so much and that you are so special. How she can never imagine me not in her life and that im all she could ever wish for and more and she hopes we spend many years together and then decides she never ever wants to be with me even though i just carried on being that special person to her, giving her all the love that she needed. Did she ever feel anything for me or was it all lies? i need help cos im broken hearted at the moment as she gave me so much hope for the future.

2006-09-21 07:13:52 · 44 answers · asked by the faceman 2 in Singles & Dating

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOUISIANA I. RIOS

2006-09-21 07:13:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 07:13:02 · 6 answers · asked by sexxymamma86 2 in Singles & Dating

He lives in CA and I in IL. He sent me an email and did not even call me to tell why he didn't want anything to do with me anymore. He said he was in love with me and I in love with him. My heart is broken. How can I get him back and make him listen to what I have to say? I paid for 4 round trip tickets and I lost all my airline money due to this. What a joke this is

2006-09-21 07:12:54 · 7 answers · asked by jebbie4u2006 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 07:11:57 · 46 answers · asked by Valkyrie 4 in Singles & Dating

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOUISIANA I. RIOS!!

2006-09-21 07:10:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If so, what makes and models are deem attrative? I perfer a man who drives a Range Rover or an Ferrari or a Bentley. They tend to be cream of the crop...just the best. No domestic brands, or cheap imports ie Hyundai, or honda...yuck. the second tier guys are the Lexus, Porsche, BMW, Benz, Infiniti brand. I personally drive an 2005 BMW M3 convertible...I need a man that has at least that, right??

2006-09-21 07:10:06 · 11 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it okay for me to still play Pac-Man, to still put sequins on my clothes with my Bedazzler, to safety-pin my jeans around the ankles, so they aren't "Bell Bottoms", and to still be in love with Scott Baio??

2006-09-21 07:09:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel i am trapped. i've recently come out of a 4 year relationship 8 months ago and still love this man but 5 months ago i met this lad at a moto x event and he is so sweet, everything about him is so perfect. i'm going through this stage where i want to move on with him but still have it in my head that my ex will come back, i called it off with the nice guy to sort my head out and he sid he would wait cause i'm worth it.. i want him but just can't forget my ex.

2006-09-21 07:09:42 · 10 answers · asked by Tori 2 in Singles & Dating

Never so much as looked at a younger guy before but got a huge crush on a guy who is 12 years younger. I am 34. He is very interested in me but not sure whether to pursue it. Is this madness?

2006-09-21 07:09:28 · 33 answers · asked by Stella 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 07:09:22 · 11 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 07:08:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

to go to Philippines next year for a visit and for our wedding. My problem is, i told him that i dont like him to talk with anybody else on chat anymore but "i think" he is not listening and still talking with his other female chat buddies. I have all of his passwords on email and i feel that he love me as well as i love him. I do not know if he is really serious of loving me or just playing with me because i found out that he still have pictures of those ladies she had talked to on chat before, even i told him to delete them. This is my first time to have commitment on a muslim so i am very scared that he will dump me soon when we marry or get another woman to love to. i am not criticizing muslims but i do not know much about them. please help me people.. thanks!!

2006-09-21 07:08:40 · 17 answers · asked by BABAE 1 in Weddings

he is trying to eliminate as much time that i spend with my son as possible. When i asked him why he is doing this he said "i miss you" i dumped him like 6 yrs ago and now he is using my son against me. he has favor with the judge because he is a sheriff deputy i guess but this man has gotten away with so much in the court. i was never ever declared unfit mother at all the only thing is that im poor income is about minimum wage and dad makes $20.00 hr 12 hr shifts. he also lives with his motherr at age 35 yr i have my own place which is very nice both my boys the 5 yr old im fighting with my ex for and my 12 yr old have their own rooms i have food for them and clothing etc... the judge recently changed our custody arrangement with me having to pick up and drop off my son from school pick ups at 11:30 am every wed then i have to drop him off at 7:30 am for school thurs which is the next day and every 1,2,4 fri i pick him up after school and take him back to school on mon at 7:30am this

2006-09-21 07:08:38 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-21 07:08:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is going to be a groomsman in his best friend's wedding. I'm not part of the ceremony at all. Would I be invited to the rehearsal dinner, or would it be just my husband? I thought it was just those who were in the wedding, but my sister in law is telling me otherwise.

2006-09-21 07:08:31 · 24 answers · asked by brevejunkie 7 in Weddings

I recently moved to a different state with my fiance. I have no family here and haven't really made any good friends yet. My fiance is a police officer at our local police department. My fiance hit me last week, it was the first time it had ever happened. It has since happened three more times. I am very scared and I don't know what to do. I don't feel like I can go to the police because is he is one and they all really like him so I don't think they will believe me. I also don't have enough money yet to leave the state. I am also afraid to call my family and tell them what is happening. I am afraid that my brothers will kill him in their anger and that they will get in trouble. Someone please tell me what to do or where I should go for help. I have to get away from him and leave here I just don't know how to do it...

2006-09-21 07:08:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating