Family & Relationships - 20 September 2006

I always wondered what effect it has on daughters, who know that their dad goes to strip clubs and watches porn?

Does it make you feel bad? Do you resent him for it? Or does it feel ok for you?

I mean for those of you who have close loving relationships with your dad, would you be able to love him the same way if you found out he enjoys porn and going to strip clubs?

2006-09-20 04:52:58 · 21 answers · asked by livinglife 1 in Family

I am worried if I tell him exactly what I expect outta him as far as a relationship he is gonna tuck tail and run. We have been gettin closer every time we are together and the sex is so mind blowin between us. This is gettin deep fast we have been gettin together for like months now and I wonder if its too soon to speak up or wait a while till he says something on those lines, but I am tired of waitin on him to bring it up.

2006-09-20 04:52:04 · 17 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in love with a guy since my 7th standard n we r in college now..he likes me very much n i too ..but i love him also but i m not sure that he loves me or not..each time he makes me feel that he likes me much but he says that he dont belive on love bcoz love hurt mostly it ends very badly..first time when i go for a date with him he requested me to let him kiss my cheeks only..im frm a very strick family so it was much or me but i let him then he said me to french kiss but i refused n he said ok as u wish..he always appriciates me , he luv to talk about my family , my problems he consults me on everything, sometimes i feel that he is comin on hot topics with me but not awkward topics,but indeed he says that he dont belive in love ,he says that i m his very nice friend n he likes me...but he never said "i loveu"does he loves me or not?wat do u poeple think.ur opinion will really does a matter to me.to my knowledge he dont have any gf else than me..plz suggest how to deal with him..?.

2006-09-20 04:51:49 · 18 answers · asked by stranger 3 in Singles & Dating

Can sexual attraction extend past the physical for men?

2006-09-20 04:51:44 · 4 answers · asked by thebuffettour 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have an ex boyfriend who I broke up about two months ago. We had a very serious relationship and even lived together for a year. About two weeks ago, he has asked me to get back with him saying that he was still deeply in love with me. So, I decided to give it a chance with him but told him that I was not ready to get back into really serious relationship. Although we agreed on being exclusive, we decided to take it slow and just date for while. Last night, I went to dinner with him and after we ate, he wanted to come up to my room. I said I was not ready and wanted to wait until next time. He got upset. Then, a hour later I found two ads written by him on Craig's List: one was in casual encounter section, one for men looking for women (he was looking for someone to actually date in this one). I talked to him this morning and he still claims that he loves me and wants me to be his girlfriend. SHould I confront him about the ads? or should I just ignore the fact and let it go?

2006-09-20 04:51:35 · 5 answers · asked by lalala 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend called me on my way to work last night and well he asked me if i was sleeping with someone else...i was like um def. not since the last 3 weeks i have been grounded so there is no way i could have. The whole 3 months we have been dating i have not even looked at another guy...when i am at work i make sure i bend the oppsite direction so other guys dont check out my butt so yea i am in love with my boyfriend but he wants to be hardheaded and wont listen to me...so what should i do to get him to listen to me and believe me?

2006-09-20 04:51:31 · 4 answers · asked by crazybayb20 2 in Singles & Dating

my girl talks to me on the phone then another guy call her on her phone she says it is just her friend do you think she is cheating on me what can i do to see if she is cheating on me with out her finding out

2006-09-20 04:50:29 · 10 answers · asked by dmoney 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are going through a messy divorce that has been going on a long time. I got engaged November 2005, and I waited a while to set the date so they could figure things out. The date of the wedding is October 14, 2007. I thought that would give them enough time, but it seems like this is the never ending divorce. They are not coming to a decision on splitting their money and I am afraid this will effect the wedding. The agreed to split the costs of the wedding, but my mom doesn't know a lot about money- so I have a feel me and my fiance will end up paying the other half. I would be content going to the court house, but I don't want to regret it. I want a nice wedding, but without the conflict! Any ideas?

2006-09-20 04:50:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a Boxer who is always happy, loves to run and play, is always happy to see me, and just has mannerisms that make me laugh. She is a source of unconditional love and constant entertainment . She actually makes me happier and better than I might otherwise be, because I'll be damned If I'm gonna let a dog be a better person than I am!!

2006-09-20 04:49:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 04:48:39 · 20 answers · asked by Hi 1 in Singles & Dating

http://www.fathers-4-justice.org/

2006-09-20 04:48:07 · 15 answers · asked by DO HER BUM HOLE 1 in Family

She went out with this guy for 5years and he dumped her and she told me she has no love to give since it is broken. I like her. We hang out and have a great time but I know she is not ready to jump back in the game. I know it will only take time for her to heal, but is there a book about how to recover from a brokenheart that i could give her? Someone told me about "a women's worth" by M. Williamson. I would like some input, thanks.

2006-09-20 04:47:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 04:47:32 · 23 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

This isn't a "is the baby mine?"situation.He knows the baby's his.He left for a week(staying God knows where)only calling me from work,so I went back to my hometown in Ohio,leaving him in NC.1 1/2mnths later he's calling saying how he made the biggest mistake of his life and that I need to just give him 1last chance to be a family,but he's made lots of mistakes in the past with being faithful and honest so I'm skeptical.Now he says that he wants to be a family with me and his son,and that he misses us.He sounds really sincere,and trust me I never thought I'd consider being with him,but I love him even though he's hurt me.I don't know if I should give him another chance.He tells me that he is willing to fight for what we had because he knows now that if he passes it up, he may never be happy again.I'm also thinking about my 10 week son.He deserves to have his family complete, but I want him to be in a good environment.Should I give him one more chance or should I move on?

2006-09-20 04:47:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a) I always hated you because you were scum. I am so glad you are dead....burn in hell

b) better you than the other children

c) my life is much better now that you are dead.

pick one!

2006-09-20 04:47:03 · 5 answers · asked by Life Isn't Fair 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in a marriage that has been plagued by both verbal and physical abusive. (more verbal than physical) I feel like I am dying inside and need to get out of my marriage. The problem is I have been a stay at home mother for the past 13 years to 4 wonderful children, and live in fear of the threats that he makes in regards to him taking my children from me. ( I do not drink or do drugs) His parents have money and mine dont, and I had one attorney tell me that money talks in child custody. I have called many victims help lines and really dont get anywhere. I have no money and need to get a attorney, I have called and talked to several attorneys and they all want very high retainers.... What do I do.....

2006-09-20 04:46:53 · 2 answers · asked by grace2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can u date a gal that is richer than you? can u marry a lady that is richer than you? Can you work under a lady in your office?

i need to know.
thanks

2006-09-20 04:46:35 · 19 answers · asked by daniel65ng 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 5 months and hes always saying I better not be cheating on him. I tell him I have never been with anyone since we met but I am wondering he don't say that hes faithful to me never seem to get to that subject. Give me your advice.

2006-09-20 04:46:13 · 15 answers · asked by wildrose 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible for two people to be together, let eachother go, and be drawn to eachother with just as much love if not more then the time before? If so, can a person learn to live with another persons flaws and habbits, no matter how bad or frustrating they are, just because that person truly loves the other one? What stops a person from moving forward and looking else where and keeps them tied to the one they let go of?

2006-09-20 04:44:34 · 12 answers · asked by shy&gental 4 in Singles & Dating

my bf lives 45 minutes away from me. we usually see eachother on the weekends and maybe once during the week if we can bc we both work all day. i really wanted to see him on a certain day, and was availabe (bc since i quit my 2nd job, i have more time) im kind of looking to make up for that time, and just really want to hang out with him and have some one on one time. we always hang out on the weekends but its always around other people or something and i just want us to have some "us" time. so i called him and after a bunch of stuff we started arguing bc i tol dhim relationships are more than just hanging out on the weekends and talking on the phone during the week...i have an emotional need, and its just to spend some more time with him...he told me that we dont have "time" to hang out and that he's too tired to come to my city when he gets off work ( traffic is a biatch) i understand his point of view, but im still allowed to be upset that i cant see him right?

2006-09-20 04:42:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my b/f of 3 mos a few weeks ago. He is not over his ex g/f but we still continue to talk on the phone and see each other. I know that he is very dishonest but I am still drawned to him. I am trying to date but he is very jealous... he makes me feel guilty. Also, I wonder if I would find someone else. I love Latin guys but I havd bad relationships... jealousy possesive but I am sprung. I also love Italian men but the same thing. Should I give up both or are there any good Latin Lovers and Italian Stallions?

2006-09-20 04:42:04 · 24 answers · asked by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 in Singles & Dating

Technically, my son DID force sex on a girl, but he swears that by the end she started enjoying it. He said she orgasmed before he did. My son may be a rapist but he is NOT a liar. We plan to sue her if it comes to that.

2006-09-20 04:41:36 · 13 answers · asked by Dialup, Avatar, Jones! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 04:40:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 04:40:23 · 16 answers · asked by CINDERELLA 1 in Friends

I heard about www.buythestars.com ?
do u think its good!
what other website might be better than buythestars?

2006-09-20 04:39:52 · 5 answers · asked by Lona aa 2 in Singles & Dating

a) being murdered by a serial killer

b) being killed by a drunk driver

c) dying a slow and painful death from cancer

pick one!

2006-09-20 04:39:50 · 20 answers · asked by Life Isn't Fair 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my b/f is jewish and i met him in a chat room. we arranged a date and met in singapore. now we are madly in love and who says internet dating is dangerous and wrong?
(then again because it worked for me it cant be the same for every woman right?)

2006-09-20 04:39:06 · 7 answers · asked by country 1 in Singles & Dating

Without having sex, how to tell if a girl is a virgin just by looking at gesture or apperance?

2006-09-20 04:39:05 · 15 answers · asked by AAA 2 in Singles & Dating

two people in my life i have had contact with, would like to know their names. one was in my life at his birth, mother brought him over to my house when he was 5 days old, she had let him slip under the water & was blue, i breathed onto him and saw the pink go up his body, he was ok in minutes. where is he now, what has he done with his life, the other one picked me up on a cold winter night of 10 degees, took me home in his van, was very polite, never ask him his name, what is he doing now, where does he live?

2006-09-20 04:38:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is short term starting in April, back-off abit and now the group starts exercising and we have instant messagining andI have learnt an told her I not bug her but the friendliness seems great outside our homes but I like to visit her an that. I have sort of showed her that I a crush but I wait communication cause of not knowing past history plus. Were on a trip 21/ of sept 06 so I will be close by one way or another and I do bring or speak up but just npt ready to cry! !

2006-09-20 04:38:49 · 6 answers · asked by David H 3 in Other - Family & Relationships