my girl talks to me on the phone then another guy call her on her phone she says it is just her friend do you think she is cheating on me what can i do to see if she is cheating on me with out her finding out
2006-09-20 04:50:29 · 10 answers · asked by dmoney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should have faith
2006-09-20 04:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think she's cheating on you? Is this a friend who she has known since before you two dated? It is possible to have platonic friends. If she's going on dates with the guy alone then you may want to start worrying. If all she does it talk to him on the phone then you are being a little paranoid.
2006-09-20 11:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by camus0281 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if you have to worry about this stuff then it's time to move on... I know "easier said than done"... Been through a few changes in life myself... I pretty much don't think about infidelity... If they are going to cheat then they are going to cheat... Eventually it comes out... Just remember that there are allot of people out there and people come into our lives for a reason. Try to be smart and figure out why they touched yours, learn from it, and then take the lesson with you... Life is to short Bro, live well and treat people like you would want to be treated... Learn from your mistakes (we all make them check my previous questions) and smile allot. Remember that we are "a work in progress"... You'll live a longer and happier life if you do... Good luck...
2006-09-20 12:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by BECB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a guy calls her doesn't mean she's cheating. Women have male friends all the time. I would suggest that you ask her to meet her friends. If she says no or hesitates then you will know something ain't right!
2006-09-20 11:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worrie and calm down. Im with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we just started to live together and I have a lot a lot of friends!!!!! Just yesterday I had a dinner with one of them and it means nothing!!! absolutely nothing. I love him very very much.. Just trust her. I mean, I you have no reason, if she never cheated on you before or something like this you should trust her. If she cheats you, you will know it!!!!
Beside that I sure that you also have a lot of friends - girls. Or not?
2006-09-20 11:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Monika H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done that before. I wasnt cheating but I just wanted to talk to the other guy b/c he could lift my spirits. Just ask her if she is. Tell her if she wants him to let you know instead of waisting your time.
2006-09-20 12:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was cheating on you ,she wouldn't have told you there was another guy on the phone.
2006-09-20 11:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just try talking to her about how you feel but dont accuse her of it because she will get mad at you...i wouldnt suggest spying on her because that can cause her to break up with you or actually will cheat on you. good luck!
2006-09-20 11:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you think she is cheeting is your problum .enjoy the life you have with her and stop worrying .worry i a sign of lack of trust
2006-09-20 11:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be telling the truth
I have male friends...that are "just friends"
2006-09-20 11:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋