She went out with this guy for 5years and he dumped her and she told me she has no love to give since it is broken. I like her. We hang out and have a great time but I know she is not ready to jump back in the game. I know it will only take time for her to heal, but is there a book about how to recover from a brokenheart that i could give her? Someone told me about "a women's worth" by M. Williamson. I would like some input, thanks.
2006-09-20 04:47:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I appieciate all your answers, but do i tell her how i feel? i think she knows i like her, but thats not what i want her to know. i want her to know that i care for her and i want her to be happy and not hurt.
2006-09-20 05:23:44 · update #1
That's really sweet of you to want to help her heal first. Just be a friend to her and trust me, she'll figure out that you care for her and she'll love you for it. Don't rush it.
2006-09-20 04:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Since I'm Only 14 i really don't know about love but you should tell her how you feel about her but at the same time don't rush into having another relationship and have respect for her. When you tell her this it will let her know you care about what shes going through. Also take her to a real nice spot and tell her what your feeling.Good Luck and Have Fun The Best Way To mend A Broken Heart Is To Help Her Heal with a New One.
2006-09-20 04:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by DreyLuvsMe!000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First up..you are doing what is really best for her right now..You are being her TRUE BEST FRIEND that she will ever encounter in her life !!..Not many in this world would be as compassionate or caring, and she will come to realize this as soon as she has some time to get over the hurt..I am guessing if you gave her that book, it wont take her too long either..You, would have to be her soul mate, so stay with her, support her all you can without smothering her..talk to her about everything as openly and deeply as you can about this subject and while doing this, also start building memories of good times shared with you two..like, take her out to dinner while talking, to the park, beach anywhere...
She will never forget you were the glue that held her together..and who wouldnt fall for a guy like that..!!
Thankyou...from me...for her !!
2006-09-20 05:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look give her sometime to get over this bad relationship she had,at same time try keep her Happy so that she dosen't goes back back to all those sad feelings.If she likes ur company hanging out with u then u have a chance just don't rush into things it will take time.Give her so she can really trust u and can tell or share her every feeling with u.And for the love of god don't give her any book on how to recover from broken heart instead u read it and try those things and keep making her feel that u like spending time with her and u can be a good Friend.If u really like her and wanna have a relationship with her then just give it a little time.Ever heard of patience
2006-09-20 05:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by rohit p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u should always keep her happy, make her laugh
second u could buy her a sweet gift
third u should give her lots of attention like calling her and wishing her gd night, remember the special moments of her life like her birthday, make sure u knwo what she likes to eat so that u can take her for lunch and order same, gd luck to u n dont forget to praise her as girls luv this
2006-09-20 04:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have gone through tough break ups and i am still not ready to get into another relationship. just give her time and she should come around. the best thing you can do it let her know that she is safe and surcure around you and then she will be able to get more comfortable and things go from there.
2006-09-20 04:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you care about someone its best that you tell her, it always feels good that knowing somebody cares for you more so when somebody loves you. tell her that you love her and that you could wait and that you'd be grateful if she'd let you love her. yes, you could tell her but dont just expect yet anythinig from her. tell her "IF YOU'D EVER HAD A BROKEN HEART, I PROMISE YOURSELF TO NEVER LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN"
2006-09-20 10:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by smooth criminal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All she needs now is a good friend and then she'll come around.
2006-09-20 04:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of it, but just be patient and kind to her
2006-09-20 04:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very difficult she wiill never believe anyone so easily.
2006-09-20 04:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋