Family & Relationships - 20 September 2006

Hi: 45 male here my girlfriend and I have been together for over 6 years for the first 2 years it was sex all the time but then she just stopped. She told me her kids were getting older so we only did it when they were at there father every 2 weeks. But then after a time the oldest one did not go so I we were not doing anything for weeks on end. I don't even care about me so much I just love touching her body. Can someone please tell me how to spice up are life. Mike

2006-09-20 05:33:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to play a song for my daughter on the radio on her birthday and am having trouble finding a good song, help!

2006-09-20 05:32:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 05:31:20 · 22 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-20 05:30:44 · 6 answers · asked by philanthropic 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 05:30:32 · 10 answers · asked by drunkenbozo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I've given in and gotten a myspace account recently. I feel that it's an easy and acceptable way to meet cool girls in my area. For those that don't know, you can search girls within a specified distance of your house. It's also nice because you can can find out as much or as little as they make available on their site. Then I usually send them a message? Any advice on what types of messages work the best to get them to respond and potentially go on a date with me?

2006-09-20 05:29:39 · 16 answers · asked by dom 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 05:29:35 · 11 answers · asked by Eata 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 05:28:31 · 12 answers · asked by philip_29_us 1 in Singles & Dating

Well im off to my First day of College .... i just turned 17 like 4 week ago and i would like to know how many of you are in the same position as me.......... and whats cracking to day on yahoo answers lol!

2006-09-20 05:28:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But it's my parent's money. Should I feel guilty? (I'm in college and I am too young to start earning)

2006-09-20 05:28:27 · 27 answers · asked by Eata 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it normal for him to want to go out once or twice a week without me? We work different schedules so his "weekends" are different. I trust him - but girls, how often do your men go out with the boys?

2006-09-20 05:27:44 · 17 answers · asked by girlfromNY 1 in Singles & Dating

well my x and have been seperated for about a year thing i don't get is how come she won't pay for the divorce we both agreed that if we were to split up the one who wanted it would pay for it which was her

2006-09-20 05:27:11 · 14 answers · asked by dan b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-20 05:26:31 · 7 answers · asked by martythepigpilot 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife and i have ben seoarated for almost a yr now .the only time she would call me is when she need cash.and when i ask here about the guy's se hanging out with she would lie and say that are just friend . but she just called me to talk to me. and that she was thinking on moving back in with me .but she still with this guy that she said was just a friend.but thay owen a car to getter.and she with him all the time . is she playing a game with me or what. i need to know because im trying to get my life back and to start dateing agian .is it because she don't want me to have a new life. what sould i do . she lie's to me all the time

2006-09-20 05:26:29 · 15 answers · asked by bluehair_79 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend seems to have completely rejected me at the moment, anyone got any ideas to win back his attention from his mates and back to me?

2006-09-20 05:26:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the men are usually married or "unavailible" at the time. i know these things, but still, i continue with the unhealthy relationship.

2006-09-20 05:26:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do men lie to us. why do they tell us that they love us and then just lie to us to our faces like were nothing to them

2006-09-20 05:25:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I might not have th quote word for word, but how bad does she have to be to be considered contentious?

2006-09-20 05:24:02 · 7 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At my work, I have the most experience in my dept. I am friends one on one with each of my coworkers. But, when it comes to group activities it is as if I do not exist. Does this happen as adults? I thought this was high school stuff.

2006-09-20 05:23:52 · 12 answers · asked by just me 2 in Friends

Ok, it doesnt mean i will actually work out 3hrs, but i was just wondering, if some1 works out 3hrs a day!! for atleast 4months.. and eating rlly healthy!!
will they lose so much weight? and if so, how much weight would they lose... is 50pounds possible... ive heard that the most important thing is working out, to boost metabolism, and burn fat.. cardio/ nd weight training.... anyway 3hrs a day.. 50pounds in 4monhts? is it possible.. thanks guys~ muaah
appreciate all ur answers!!! good or bad.. i got used to that hehe

2006-09-20 05:23:35 · 20 answers · asked by trusty 1 in Family

my girlfriend and me broke up about a month ago or so,because me and her mom got into it. we talked for the first time 3 days ago,
she couldnt talk cause she was at work,.but we chatted for a little bit she broke down crying telling me how much she misses me and thinks about me....she is 6-7 months pregnant with my kid and she feels its over because of everthing that happened with her mom and me,.she told me she loves me and wants to be with me but she just doesnt know how to go about this with her family,...i just want to know a good gesture to do ,(for my ex) send flowers,..or something...but i dont just want to pop up ,..any suggestions?

2006-09-20 05:22:50 · 6 answers · asked by joe p 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, it doesnt mean i will actually work out 3hrs, but i was just wondering, if some1 works out 3hrs a day!! for atleast 4months.. and eating rlly healthy!!
will they lose so much weight? and if so, how much weight would they lose... is 50pounds possible... ive heard that the most important thing is working out, to boost metabolism, and burn fat.. cardio/ nd weight training.... anyway 3hrs a day.. 50pounds in 4monhts? is it possible.. thanks guys~ muaah
appreciate all ur answers!!! good or bad.. i got used to that hehe

2006-09-20 05:22:37 · 18 answers · asked by trusty 1 in Friends

strict farm families?
I know some rural farm type parents that will whip and use other types of corporal punishment on their kids no matter how old they are esp males. i know of one 17yr old who got the strap as the family watched. is this normal in those areas? i was the one who got him the smoke and im an adult.

2006-09-20 05:22:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 05:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by birdwings_65 2 in Friends

I have received a message today from a lady and I am wondering that is she right or not?

Message: This is a quote from what you sent in an e-mail to me “But I still confused for why I should stay in a marriage if I can't love my husband anymore and I just feel like I have to leave him again if my love for him is gone. So, please tell me what can I do"? Part of your duty to him is to never divorce him. Love is not just a feeling but also a commitment to stand by your husband no matter what. Leaving for a short time, which is called “separation”, is perfectly fine. The only problem was when you were vulnerable you became intimate with another man while being married. Stay with your husband not based on your feelings but to receive the blessing of God and your marriage will begin to prosper.
1 Peter 3:1-6
1Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. 4Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. 5For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful. They were submissive to their own husbands, 6like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her master. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.

My answer:

Thanks for writing and your advice! But I am wondering that should wives submissive to their husbands no matter what, even without mutual love? One of my best friend (she is a Christian) who tell me that it is wrong to stay with my husband if I don't love him and especially it is wrong to accept his love when he's trying to make love to me - actually have sex with me. That's the main point for me to think about I have to leave him again as soon as possible because I will be going crazy to doing this with him and it is unacceptable for me now. I don't mean to against you or God, but it is just the way it is. I am sorry for saying this but it is the truth.

P.S. I loved my husband before but any more now but love him in family way.
I have a story on my page here: http://360.yahoo.com/my_profile-.1D8ZsM8erQzBETkA1iUS_ABtSSpjg--;_ylt=AsNQfoy35Yj4TVZXaOolTzXaAOJ3?cq=1 so, please give me some of your opinion and thanks!

2006-09-20 05:21:32 · 5 answers · asked by Marilyn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-20 05:20:57 · 1 answers · asked by brokenruller 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 05:20:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 05:20:16 · 8 answers · asked by enav 1 in Singles & Dating

I started talking to this guy a few months ago. I met him thru a friend of mine (they are related). We had been doing fine, although this is a long distance relationship, then he didn't call for a few days. When I finally caught up with him, I asked him why he was breaking up with me without telling me. I told him that if that is what is going on, just be honest with me. I hate mess. He assured me that that wasn't the case, but that some things had been going on that was taking a lot of his time and stressing him. We talked for a few days and while I our conversation wasn't long, it was still meaningful. He was still assuring me that he wasn't going anywhere, we were going to be together. I haven't heard from him in two weeks. I would have preferred him tell me the truth two weeks ago, because I hurt and am PISSED because I put hope in a liar. I had no reason to doubt him until recently. Any thoughts???

2006-09-20 05:19:34 · 32 answers · asked by jt-tex 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 05:18:59 · 16 answers · asked by Jeffery K 1 in Singles & Dating