Hi: 45 male here my girlfriend and I have been together for over 6 years for the first 2 years it was sex all the time but then she just stopped. She told me her kids were getting older so we only did it when they were at there father every 2 weeks. But then after a time the oldest one did not go so I we were not doing anything for weeks on end. I don't even care about me so much I just love touching her body. Can someone please tell me how to spice up are life. Mike
2006-09-20 05:33:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WHY DON'T YOU SET UP A NICE CANDLELIGHT DINNER OR HAVE HER BATH WATER READY FOR HER WITH CANDLES, ROSE PEDDLES,AND SEXY SLOW JAMS WAITING FOR HER OH YEAH, AND SOME VICTORIA SECRETS FOR HER TO PUT ON WHEN SHE GETS OUT, AND THE HAVE THE ROOM SET UP THE SAME WAY WITH CANDLES, CHAMPAGNE AND MUSIC.
GOOD LUCK
2006-09-20 05:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ipsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she on any medication? because there are ALOT of medications that will decrease your sex drive. As for children I have 4 ages 11,8,3,1 and if i can find the time then anyone can. You may have to watch the door and keep it down but there is always time. Try romancing her, if i am totally not in the mood my hubby will run me a hot bath and have some candles going and bring me wine. (well this helps becasue I know how much effort he is putting into it, and it gives me an hour to get away from the kids)
2006-09-20 12:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by momof4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DON'T YOU SIGN UP FOR SALSA DANCING CLASSES, OR THE TANGO? THINK ABOUT IT. IT IS A FORM OF PERSONAL EXPRESSION FOR BOTH PARTNERS, AND THEY HAVE TO WORK TOGETHER TO MAKE THINGS HAPPEN. IT IS ALSO A WAY TO SHOW RESPECT FOR YOUR PARTENR, AND MANAGE YOURSELF SO THINGS WILL WORK HARMONIOUSLY. EVEN IF YOU FEEL STUPID OR AWKWARD, DOING THIS FOR/WITH HER WILL GO A REEEEAAAAALLLLY LONG WAY WITH HER. PLUS, IT IS GREAT EXERCISE, AND EXERCISE RELEASES ENDORPHINS AND BOOSTS SERATONIN. TRY IT, SERIOUSLY. YOU WILL NOTICE SOMETHING MAGICAL HAPPENING.....
2006-09-20 12:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a bit on the side.
2006-09-20 12:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋