Family & Relationships - 20 September 2006

What a wonderfull thing hate,,,,,,to have so much emmotion built up inside of you.,,,, so much power aimed at one person,,,,,You almost feel that if you pushed your mind hard enough the worst might happen,,,,,,,,But nothing becomes of it nothing then turns to thought.,,,,,,,,then to ponder,,,,then to the reason,,,,,if you love someone.. and heres my point, should you learn to hate them aswell,,, so you feel the whole spectrum of feelings. is that love... you tell me....should lovers hurt each other in order to move forward...

2006-09-20 05:55:57 · 20 answers · asked by edlangmead 1 in Singles & Dating

Does it stem from poor compromising? Where one person makes a compromise and doesn't feel the other person is making a equal one so resentments build up over time? (Being valued)
Or is it getting comfortable and not putting any effort into what your partner is going through? (To value)
Or is it some other thing I can't think of?

2006-09-20 05:55:33 · 12 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-20 05:55:04 · 40 answers · asked by blueyedimpledguy 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm a great kid...I'm an A honor roll student. I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, sneak around (well I do to hang out with my friends but only because they won't let me do anything), I don't have sex with random people or anyone for that matter...I don't yell at them. I do what I am told useless I forget but as soon as I remember, I go do it...Why must they treat me badly?... How could I get them to lighten up a little?

2006-09-20 05:54:29 · 11 answers · asked by lil_sweetie_812 1 in Family

2006-09-20 05:54:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well?

2006-09-20 05:54:15 · 9 answers · asked by Duh! 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-09-20 05:54:14 · 7 answers · asked by bxdesirable 1 in Singles & Dating

My Wife and I have been married for only about 6 months.
She has always talked about once a month on the phone with her ex, she says its normal friendly conversations and she is still friends with him.
They broke up because he did not tell his parents that they were engaged.
I dont feel that that there was closure in that way.
Her ex now has a girlfriend and she wants to meet her.
I dont like it one bit. does she have a right to meet her?

2006-09-20 05:54:09 · 22 answers · asked by Night Guru 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i always go for guys who r not 2 gd looking, a bit geeky or have no social skills. i just never believe in myself and only when i've flirted with them enough for them to be interested do i realise what ive done.

has happened 3 times now... post ppl any ideas, opinions, ways to improve my self esteem?

2006-09-20 05:54:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a 15 year old boy knows how to manipulate his parents in getting what he wants all the time. How can you change someone like him who needs to be more grateful, appreciative and earn his way of getting what he wants?

2006-09-20 05:53:20 · 15 answers · asked by ladyinblue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 05:53:02 · 16 answers · asked by shantel g 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 05:52:59 · 14 answers · asked by danchip 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend i've known many years we used to date long ago but he still wants me ,he still tries to get with me...i doubt if it happens..LOL...but me and him are goooood friends....what do you think....

2006-09-20 05:52:21 · 11 answers · asked by Gemini 3 in Friends

Hey,
I'm a girl and have a girlfriend. A year ago I cheated on her with a guy (we live two hours flying distance form each other), and i broke up with her to be with him (at a distance, seen him once). I got back with my girl cause i still loved her and she's lives close. Now I'm talking with him on msn a lot again and I'm afraid I'm falling in love with him again. He told me he misses me and would love to see me again. I don't know if I should break up with her, she sais she'll die or be lonely for ever if i do. We're arguing a lot these days..we see each other 24/7, I'm getting quite sick of it. We are about to go live together...but actually I think we're a bit too youngh for that anyhow. Main problem is that i love her, but she's difficult. Anyways, I need advise :)
P.S. i do love her...gay-haters: dont even start..

2006-09-20 05:51:49 · 28 answers · asked by so_highly_evolved 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 22 year old white male. I was an army brat and lived with tons of different people in different places. I am a college graduate and am a juve delinquency counselor. I need some advice though. You see, throughout most of my life, I have always related to and got along with and made friends easier with black people. Its not a conscious thing like I try to make it this way either. I have a sister who is married to a black man and they have 3 kids. She has always said she feels black inside. I kinda feel like I do too in a way. I am not that "white" either(wear jordans, got diamonds in my ears, got a fade haircut). I have always wanted to date black women but never have taken the step. I am not even into white women that much anymore. They just arent that attractive to me- on the inside or outside. I was wondering, is this normal-considering my background, etc. and are there that many black women who would date a white boy? I don't see race i SEE PEOPLE but the world does

2006-09-20 05:51:21 · 15 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Singles & Dating

im in 11th grade and hes in 12th and hes super hottt!!! well...i think so! but yea...i gave him a note last year telling him that i liked him but he never said anything else! he might have tried to IM me, im not sure!!! But i dont know what to do! i really like him.

2006-09-20 05:49:51 · 7 answers · asked by laughjustalittle16 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl like at my girl who like stares at me and well like pulls her pants down and then like sticks three fingers in like her poo sy and then like puts them in her mouth...all while like staring at me. Well, do you like think she like likes me, or what???

2006-09-20 05:49:33 · 9 answers · asked by HughGRection 3 in Singles & Dating

Just trying to get ideas. I'm a pretty open minded spontaneous guy. I want the girl to think I'm creative and am trying to get away from the "traditional" dinner dates. I want her to know that I'm different (in a good way, of course) but I don't want to scare her either? Thanks.

2006-09-20 05:48:46 · 8 answers · asked by dom 1 in Singles & Dating

About 3 years ago, my wife and I joined a church. My job prevented me from going to church as often. My wife became friends with one of my mother's cousins in the church. He is an older guy, about 30 years older than my wife and I and I thought nothing of it. Well my wife gets it into her head to introduce this guy to her single mom. He meets her mom and says that she's nice but that he can't have any kind of romantic relationship with her because he's in love with my wife.

Well my wife tells him that he can't be in love with her because she's married.

My wife tells me this and says that she doesn't think that he's in love with her and that he is probably just glad that she talks to him. Well, my wife and I got into an argument and the first thing she does is go hang out with this guy until like 4am. We had some money problems and he gave her in excess of $4000 without me knowing..and now my wife tells me that she may be in love with him even though she still loves me?????

2006-09-20 05:48:23 · 23 answers · asked by maccleod1074 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently just broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months. I cannot seem to get over him! It's ridiculous! Ilove him so much we went through so much together and now Im 5 weeks pregnant by him! We constantly fight and argue especially abotu the baby. I dont want it to be liek this. I want our old love back. How do I let him know how I feel? Oh and he has a girlfriend now too, but still calls me!

2006-09-20 05:47:59 · 17 answers · asked by BabyDoll 2 in Singles & Dating

When a man violates his vows he justly gets cleaned out for his moral short coming, but when his wife cheats, he gets cleaned out for hers, why then be faithful, marriage vows aren't worth the time it takes a priest or minister to administer the worthless promises in today's modern society. There should be penalties for violating the contract you vowed to before God, family and friends. But hey I guess this is progress..........

2006-09-20 05:47:53 · 8 answers · asked by John H B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've heard this suggested a couple of times, but I've never actually seen it. The idea is that the officiant has his/her back to the guests, so that everyone can see the bride and groom (not just a profile or the backs of their heads).

I'd love to hear from anyone who has been to (or who had) a ceremony like this. Did it work? How did people react? Was it weird/distracting for the couple, looking out at all the faces?

I'm considering this for my wedding, but would like to hear from anyone who's experienced it.

2006-09-20 05:47:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It is just that they all seem to like girls who smoke and have a bad vocabulary and who drink...etc.
Why do they like girls who cheat?
I just don't get this!
Why?

2006-09-20 05:47:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I would love to hear responses...i'll speak for myself and say that I fear getting old and all that goes with it MUCH more than death. Death just happens, and we obviously aren't aware of it(duh!).
Age creeps up, and keeps on happening, and, needless to say, you are VERY much aware of it.

2006-09-20 05:47:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 05:44:49 · 3 answers · asked by Inma E 1 in Friends

2006-09-20 05:44:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am trying to remember the company name that put out a catalog when I was a kid. The way it worked, kids would sell things out of the catalog, and earn prizes or 1.00 per item they would sell. First you would collect the money, then order the products. I think it might of started with the letter S...but I'm not sure....Anyone know?

2006-09-20 05:43:48 · 4 answers · asked by me 3 in Family

I am hesitant in meeting up with strangers so i am taking my t ime chatting with varios people. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to go about it safely . ?????

2006-09-20 05:42:53 · 12 answers · asked by sofora k 2 in Singles & Dating

every time i go to the store and i might want to buy alighter or matches a female will ask for my i.d. im 25 and all this stuff with the older women is screwing me up and the even ask me to go on dates its crazy.im tired of being a pet to older woomen is there any way i could just get haur bumps on my face and look monsterous. i must admit i do love the attention i get.

2006-09-20 05:42:26 · 19 answers · asked by Daryl L 1 in Singles & Dating

An example.
You are married.You have a sister in law (husbands sis)n brother in law.Both are baastardds.Your hubby is working with his brother in law.Both these Baastardds hve ruined your life after marriage.Your husband is not speaking up,he says let the time come,then he will speak.But the luck always favours them,good things happen to them,they lie,they cheat on each other,they ruin ur life,etc.What do u feel?Who is wrong?Are sis n bro in law wrong or ur husband?his wife is feeling insecured with him since few weeks now,also its affecting her health n work both.Her hubby is planning to leave their business since more than 2 yrs now.But something or the other comes up n all in vain.How can a girl live when she has no one around n she stays away from her parents w/o any friends here.She is shattered with the insecurity she feels frm her husband very recently now. She has no good colleagues too. All are busy in their own world. She has also done counselling but no help. Help her pls.

2006-09-20 05:42:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family