An example.
You are married.You have a sister in law (husbands sis)n brother in law.Both are baastardds.Your hubby is working with his brother in law.Both these Baastardds hve ruined your life after marriage.Your husband is not speaking up,he says let the time come,then he will speak.But the luck always favours them,good things happen to them,they lie,they cheat on each other,they ruin ur life,etc.What do u feel?Who is wrong?Are sis n bro in law wrong or ur husband?his wife is feeling insecured with him since few weeks now,also its affecting her health n work both.Her hubby is planning to leave their business since more than 2 yrs now.But something or the other comes up n all in vain.How can a girl live when she has no one around n she stays away from her parents w/o any friends here.She is shattered with the insecurity she feels frm her husband very recently now. She has no good colleagues too. All are busy in their own world. She has also done counselling but no help. Help her pls.
2006-09-20 05:42:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nature is beautiful..there is lots of things around u just enjoy...If that exapmle is belongs to you.tell her to find what her husband's needs?..what does he want to do?why is he attached so much with his owns??his responsibility is taking care of her wife too..why can't he leave them if they are not good to you and himself.......
2006-09-20 06:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
I read ur problem,if u think about ur problem very seriously,so get a problem very difficult.so frist take not much hard,be soft ur problem.ur problem is mainly concern to the money & position of ur husband in a family?.so for 1st problem of money,if ur well qualified & right now not small kids,find a nice job from this ur thinking of lonly gone,u got many good friends & financially also u self support.or start a small bussiness from home.
for 2nd thing u want more love in ur relationship with husband,try to build a more confidance in ur hubby & always he believe ur always with him.
My English is not too good ,but i try to ans ur problem.
I know giving a suggestion is easy but follow is not easy,
but if we related to suggestion with hope & patience,definately we got a good solution.
so take care,keep smile.
ok bye
ashu
2006-09-20 13:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by prince007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should not spend much time thinking about both brother and husband. she has to be herself. join some ladies club. join bhajanmandals. social service. visit old asrms. there r more peolple inthe world suffering. learn tolearance power. of facing situations. defifinitely guru help thie situations. be incompany of good ppeople . she will get what ever she want. learn pranayama yoga meditation . sure help. block emotions transfering from others. be a financial machime to the world. its easy..
2006-09-20 16:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by meenakshim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simi C if you please do not mind I can say that you are your own problem. It has been rightly said "nothing good and nothing bad, it is thinking so." To my opinion you are not ready to tackle/handle the situation/problem before you, rather you are expecting to happen something on its own to solve your desired problem. Secondly, you are not having a nature to work in tandem with other people nor you have the capacity to turn the situation in your favour/your liking. Rethink yourself, start loving others to get love from others.
2006-09-20 13:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing to do is keep working and dont let anything affect ur physical n mental health. have faith in god, do meditation. practise yoga or get urself busy with some hobby. time will heal all. These bastards will finally give up to ur strong will power.
2006-09-21 01:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by queen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would definitely be sad and unhappy but the same time i would promiss my self to be practical in life, be independent and also financially independent. i would work very hard to make a good position in the society and would try to be open minded and peace minded.
2006-09-20 13:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by suchetana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with the paper boy. And then smoke a joint.
2006-09-20 12:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by jessie_goines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand your problem. yes, you are in difficulty now. but i have one question for you--------ARE YOU GOD?? if YES---- then PLEASE TRY TO SET OTHER'S RIGHT. but if NOT.... then the LEAST you can do is to SET YOUR LIFE RIGHT....&stop worrying about other's....ok... whatever happens DO NOT LET GO OF YOUR FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE(JOB).&stop worrying about your husband.he is a big man &he can take care of himself....i hope this will help you.....take care of your self,
2006-09-20 13:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by ariesgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her hasband is wrong.and she also is wrong, becoz y she is facing this problem,she can do many thing
2006-09-20 13:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by some 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no idea
2006-09-21 07:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋