I recently just broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months. I cannot seem to get over him! It's ridiculous! Ilove him so much we went through so much together and now Im 5 weeks pregnant by him! We constantly fight and argue especially abotu the baby. I dont want it to be liek this. I want our old love back. How do I let him know how I feel? Oh and he has a girlfriend now too, but still calls me!
2006-09-20 05:47:59 · 17 answers · asked by BabyDoll 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please move on. This relationship can only bring you and your baby further pain. Please place the baby for adoption to save her the lifetime of feelings of rejection and hurt caused by an absent and uncommitted father. Let her at least experience the love of a two parent family and the stability that will bring. I'm so sorry *with* you. This really sucks, doesn't it?
2006-09-20 05:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't drink cause that could harm your baby. You should realise what triggers the arguement and tread easy. Try to stay calm at all times. What you need to do is sit him down in a calm manner and talk about the pregnancy. Tell him how you feel and what you want. tell him that the least that he can do is give your relationship a second chance, even for the baby sake.
If he choses to be with the current girlfriend you need to move on. I know that it will not be easy, especially with the baby and all but you've got to be strong and take care of yourself.
2006-09-20 05:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by q_ri_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, he has a new girlfriend. he will continue to call you until you tell him in no uncertain terms, to get lost. you will never get your "old love" back. this guy doesn't love you and probably never did. That might hurt a bit, but, it's the truth. You need to move on and decide what is best for you and your baby, and i don't think bringing a baby up in an environment of constant fighting is the best thing. Life is too short to spend it being miserable. Move on.
2006-09-20 05:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by tgood367 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to decide if you are going to keep this baby.
If you are.. then you need to forget about him and start working on your life.. how are you going to support yourself and your child? who will take care of you child when you are at work? Stuff like that.
he obviously no longer has interest in you. that doesn't mean he shouldn't be held responsible for this child and should help support the child via child support. but beyond that I wouldn't look to him for anything.
I know this will sound tough but its time you grew up and started looking at taking care of yourself now. You will never get him back - chances are he never wanted a baby and when you told him he bailed. did you have a discussion about what you would do if you got pregnent? did you know if he did or didn't want kids? Are you doing the right thing by continuing with the pregnency? Even knowing that he will never be in your life again?
2006-09-20 05:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should forget about yourself right now and think about the innocent baby that you are having. first of all think if you really want to have a child in this situation? Is the father going to be around for your kid? After you decide about keeping the baby then think about yourself. You guys always argue and fight plus he has a girlfriend. In my opinion this relationship won't get anywhere. You need to get some professional help and please think about the baby more than anything else.
2006-09-20 05:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Niki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what were u guys arguing about, whatever it was it's probably not worth da break up, sit him down and talk 2 him about it, tell him how u feel, i'm sure that girl is just a rebound thing, good luck
2006-09-20 05:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he still calls you then he obviously still loves you. tell him that you really want to have a relationship for the sake of the baby and start a proper family.........y u break up wit him anyway......but hey chin up soilder pray to god bout it and dnt worry things will work out for the better
2006-09-20 05:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by bigboicj08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back if you can agree with him, make peace for the sack of the baby, get married, and put the puzzle together to make a family picture
2006-09-20 05:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by ed46324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always have fights with my hubby about our children. mostly about how to raise them. it is quite natural to be fighting about the baby. you both love the baby and want to do what is right for him/her. if the fights are over nothing serious but about who knows better in raising the child...then its normal. i advice you to talk to him. include him in you lamaz classes and tell him your true feelings. if he really loves you then he will dump everything and rush to you. and if he doesnot come back...then you are better off without him.
2006-09-20 05:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him - in his face style - tell him its not just his life, it's also the babies and yours he's messing with. If he want's to ruin his thats fine but hes not going to drag you down. Either he needs to have a heart to heart with you - or he needs to lose your phone number/addy.
2006-09-20 05:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by someonefromsomewhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋