Family & Relationships - 20 September 2006

y can't he just tell me ?

2006-09-20 06:33:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-20 06:31:42 · 9 answers · asked by aahamed24 3 in Singles & Dating

something not sexual, but gives us a chance to talk and communicate

2006-09-20 06:31:32 · 9 answers · asked by mary H 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 06:30:32 · 11 answers · asked by David S 1 in Family

I am getting married soon, its an arranged marriage.. i want to be a most loving wife.. what all are the good qualities of a good wife? how to show that i love him and his family members? what all i have to do and wht i shouldnt do? can u describe something.. about life after marriage

2006-09-20 06:30:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-20 06:30:08 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 06:30:02 · 2 answers · asked by aahamed24 3 in Family

the woman i LOVE well my ex we started talking now like "friends" she is now dating someone, but i sill love her. how do i know the difference between love and friendship

2006-09-20 06:29:52 · 17 answers · asked by Jorgio 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 06:28:42 · 7 answers · asked by jetbluebaby1 1 in Family

2006-09-20 06:28:35 · 22 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 06:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by some1 1 in Singles & Dating

One is 16 and dominating; the other is 14, big(as in weight) and won't go on school bus due to her feeling that folk is talking about her; she hates ROTC, and I worry about her finishing high school at this rate. The 16 y/o likes to bully the 14 y/o although I feel that the 14 y/o could squash her like a bug one good time if she wants. What to do??

2006-09-20 06:28:27 · 7 answers · asked by savvyladydiamond 3 in Family

Hello, about 4 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend….. I was with him for 2 years. He was upset but agreed to break up. Since then I regret the breakup and feel lost without him. For the first 3 months, we where friends. I would still see him every 2 weeks and we would go for lunch or dinner to talk as friends. But I was having hope he would come back to me. I would ask him over and over if we could try our relationship again, that I love him and want to work us out. He replied no, and cant go back.. that his feelings aren’t the same. He said I am in denial and I need to move on….. so I said fine and left it at that. Then about 3 weeks ago from today I had to pick up a dvd that he had of mine- so I went to his house. And he didn’t want me to leave….. he asked if we can go to dinner and I said sure. While we where driving he wouldn’t stop starring at me and touching my face.. saying how beautiful I am ect… when we go to the restaurant the same thing- he wouldn’t even eat his food- he just kept starring at me….I was uncomfortable and said stop starring at me- he said I cant help it after that we left the rest. And I went home- from that day on I called him twice and he didn’t return my call- then I tried again and he did call me back- I said can you stop by I need to talk to you- he said sure. When he came by I said danny lets give us another chance. Again, he said no- my heart is not in it anymore. He said stop holding on and move on. I started to cry cause I don’t understand this? I said what about when I saw you last week? You where all in love with me again- he was just being nice. I know what I felt- it wasn’t that- he was all gaga over me. He said he is sorry but doesn’t feel the same. When I started to cry- he said you where the best girlfriend I ever had Vanessa. I said if I was then why are you just giving up and walking away? He said cause this is how he feels. After that day- I called him the next morning and told him I can no longer be friends with him – cause its only making me hope he will come back to me. He said I wish we didn’t have to do that. I said well it’s the best for me- I need to move on like you stated …. He said ok I understand……. And he said again he is sorry he doesn’t care anymore for me. So after this I haven’t called him at all and vice versa…….. its now been 3 weeks. I am sooo confused and soo hurt- why is he doing this? And acting this way? Can you please give me some helpful advice? I am soooo confused at this point. But I am sticking to my guns and not calling him anymore.

Thank you kindly! Vanessa

2006-09-20 06:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 06:27:58 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think its dumb to date some guy that is two years younger than you, If you really love him

2006-09-20 06:27:46 · 28 answers · asked by jamie s 1 in Singles & Dating

ago.Since we've hung out he always says things like I play games(witch I never have played with him) and he can see right thru me,and all kinds of silly things.He doesnt know me well and all he does is throw stuff up like that whenever we talk.He says he's feelin me but he thinks we should be friends,cause he doesnt see it going further.Wut could have made him feel this way,cause HE DOESNT KNOW ME WELL AT ALL,and I'm a very nice person.He's been hurt in his past,could this be the reason that he's backing away?

2006-09-20 06:27:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 weeks ago My best friend, Rian tried to commit suicide because he loves me and i did not love him back.
If i wouldnt of found him he would have died that night, the worst thing is i feel as if it is all my fault.
well anyways me and him got in a fight last night because he said im a tease but thats not true i already told him i just wanted to be friends.
he made me cry because all the mean things he was yelling at me.
i really love and care for him but i dont know what to do.

2006-09-20 06:27:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mother just doesn't like me... She chooses my abusive ex husband over me, she hates my new boyfriend, and refuses to allow me to be part of family gatherings unless I break up with him, though my ex is always invited. She tells my 9 yr old daughter that he is ugly, and so are his kids. This is no example for my daughter! What can i do... if anything?

2006-09-20 06:25:51 · 18 answers · asked by Cowgirl 1 in Family

My sister and I have always been fighting since we were little. She used to do and say horrible things to me whenever she didn't get her way. I was always told I had to forgive her and not fight back because I was her older sister. Now that we've grown up things still haven't changed. She's only nice to me when she wants something from me. We're just so different, I'm more reserved and quiet I like spending time with myself but she's out going and has many friends. She thinks that I'm "boring".

I have always been a bit of a good girl. I'm really close to my dad but it's not like that between him and my sister and she kinda thinks it's because of me. I feel like she hates me or something she likes to say hurtful things to me. She always says that she's more attractive than me, I already know that and I really don't need her to keep reminding me. She acts all surprised when she finds out somebody actually likes me.

Am I too sensitive or my sister's just a b i t c h?

2006-09-20 06:25:51 · 12 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Family

my mobile # is 00971507201163 , mechanical Engineer < age 25 male

2006-09-20 06:25:31 · 3 answers · asked by majdy 1 in Friends

He is my first love and we've been together for two years now. My family all warned me about him but i was in love and didnt want to listen. Now i have seen his true colors and can see what he's really like. I know the right thing would be to walk away but we have been through so much together and dont know if i can. Depression is already setting in because it seems like he's bored of me now. Things were wonderful when we first started going out now it's like everything has changed.

2006-09-20 06:25:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i call but this morning i noticed she answered the
door to the milkman and postman fully dressed!!
Does that mean she doesn't like me much so she
doesn't even bother to look respectable for me??

2006-09-20 06:25:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 06:24:14 · 29 answers · asked by mogrm a 1 in Singles & Dating

how should i come to know whtr my bf penetrated into me or no...i was wearin jeans...he was just kissing me and we were on bed...he was above me, while latr on i was on him...for sumtime when he was above me and while he was kissin me he lifted my leg and made it rest on this thigh while we both were lying...wat do u think it was... plz answer seriously, i dont want to go a pregnancy test and cant ask him also, he is not here...

2006-09-20 06:24:04 · 10 answers · asked by rose 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and how so?

2006-09-20 06:22:43 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend wants to get me hooked up wit hthis guy that i kinda like. I doubt that he will what shall i do? Go for it or not?

2006-09-20 06:22:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 06:21:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK the typical answer to this Q is no but ill try again. My baby father beat me up and that is why i am here in WI. He wants me to come home and he has promised me that he has changed. He says i was wrong for taking Jonna(baby) to a whole other state and keeping her away at such a young age(she was 2months when we left shes 5months now). I told him he was wrong to beat me and he said that we both made mistakes. one of his cousins was shot and paralyized about a montha go and another cousin was shot and killed about 4 days ago. I love him still and such and she IS is first born. Has he suffered enough? Should I go home?

2006-09-20 06:21:50 · 37 answers · asked by JonnaMamma 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 06:21:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know that if you are both 18 and over it doesn't matter. However, what is considered legal when one individual is over 18 and the other is under 18? Is 17/19 yo legal? 16/20? 17/21? 16/21?

2006-09-20 06:20:57 · 19 answers · asked by JustWondering 1 in Singles & Dating