the woman i LOVE well my ex we started talking now like "friends" she is now dating someone, but i sill love her. how do i know the difference between love and friendship
2006-09-20 06:29:52 · 17 answers · asked by Jorgio 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when we talked she told me that she sill has feelings 4 me and she can't get over me too
2006-09-20 06:35:00 · update #1
A friendship is is a bond that 2 persons have because they share similar qualities or even ideas. The feelings they may share is one that maybe love but is is a love of caring, but not of deep and passionate feelings.
When yoo're in love with someone you have passionate feeling and thoughts for that person.
If you love her like you say you do you should try and win her back though!!!!!!!!
2006-09-20 06:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by q_ri_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you might be experiencing lust, not love. I have experienced a similar thing. I have broken up with a past boyfriend and moved on, and I thought I still had feelings for him, but after thinking about it, I didn't. I just had to think about why we broke up. I don't know your situation or why you broke up, but be sure that you are willing to go through whatever you went through with this person before. I'm not going to say anything to you about not loving her or what not. You might. I still love my ex. It's just not the same kind of love that I wanted to spend my life with. I have found someone who I love passionately. Just take some time. Don't do anything you would regret. Talk it out with her. Talk it out with someone who is neutral to the situation. I'm available for talking if you need someone. The bottom line is, think every decision through completely!!!
2006-09-20 13:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a feeling. If you say you love her, I believe you. There are many forms of love. Love can be as in a friendship, as in a family member or in a sexual & intimate manner. Only you know the type of love you have for her. I think that if you have a intimate love for her and she does not share that love, you need to work on resloving these feelings or it may create problems for you with friendships & future relationships. Try to work it out on your own, with her or seek counseling if you can't move on. Best of love, health & happiness.
2006-09-20 13:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude it's over. Sorry. She's dating another. I know it hurts, thinking of her feeling up on another guy, kissing him being intimate and all that, but let it go. Be her friend and get another girl. They are out there and are probably better than she was. You will never stop loving her, no one ever falls out of love, but you will learn that that was only a stopgap for true love which you have yet to find.
2006-09-20 13:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by TexasLSUTiger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friendship can transform in to Love but i seriously doubt if love can be rolledback to freindship. Iam sure u will find some one and you dont even have to go to google for answers anymore...
2006-09-20 13:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by bobvem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you can confidently answer that question for yourself then you probably should not be torturing yourself with too much contact with your ex. You will not be able to completely move on with your life while you are still hanging around her.
2006-09-20 13:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak LOUDER than words...she is with someone else.....it's over (for good) ...and move on (no matter what she says)..it's not love ...not if she is with someone else..(and has to be love from both sides)...soooooo just kick her to the curb and move on.
(and don't talk to her ANY more...period - or you'll never get over her)
2006-09-20 13:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't be be a man and quit b!tching about some skank you obviously didn't love before, hence why she is your ex, and go to the nearest red light district, find a whore, and f#ck her. what a pu$sy!
2006-09-20 13:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by jmthomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hang out with her for a start!
find something else 2 do because if u don't move on it will hurt for much longer
good luck :)
2006-09-20 13:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by missilibi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You care for a friend ,you long for a lover.
2006-09-20 13:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋